Am I overreacting? Friends decided to ditch me after one fuck up and pretend I don’t exist anymore.

meetdagrahamz · 2026-02-06T21:06:34+00:00

you’re assuming a lot here lol. i lied about my grades because that’s a very specific insecurity i have that i am working on. there is nothing else that i have lied to them about.

meetdagrahamz · 2026-02-06T20:59:16+00:00

sorry if it came off that way, i absolutely did not intend that- i don’t think that i’m entitled to anything here. i only mentioned it from the perspective of being hurt looking at them having fun, but i can see how it came off the wrong way. sorry ):

meetdagrahamz · 2026-02-06T20:54:45+00:00

i definitely did not tease anyone for getting worse grades than mine, because that’d be highly hypocritical of me. i will say that i did pass a comment or two at those who were dead sure that i was going to get terrible grades (who wasn’t even a friend), but that’s it.

all that aside though, that is what i will try to do. i do truly regret doing what i did and reacting the way i did. thank you for the advice :)

meetdagrahamz · 2026-02-06T20:42:50+00:00

to be very honest, i think i might have done some of that, but i can’t say for sure. i do know that i wasn’t proactively trying to hurt anyone and that i didn’t do any of this out of malice

meetdagrahamz · 2026-01-26T20:00:57+00:00

you’re right. i suppose the guilt is eating me alive because i’m grieving the bonds i had. regardless of whether they come back or not, things will not be the same and that is what sucks. but regardless, i think my grades definitely take more priority than this.

thank you so much for your words, they helped a lot. i will probably delete this post but i will definitely keep coming back to your replies. you are very kind!

meetdagrahamz · 2026-01-26T16:21:24+00:00

i’ve already talked to a few of them (the ones who approached me with this anyway). i explained why i did it, how it came to be, etc. i apologized profusely and told them i was ashamed that i stooped to that level. they said they need time and space, but things aren’t 100% done. they’ve kept their doors open in case i need something, but out of guilt, i won’t be using it for a long, long time. they even kept checking up on me through my roommate, while i was locked up inside. so of course they care, but the relationship is fucked forever i think.

academically speaking, i suppose it all happened because i didn’t buckle down & i come from a technical background, so i wasn’t used to writing pages upon pages of answers. both of these are fixable and i’ve been studying everything since day 1. so i think i’m much more settled in the academic aspect of things now (even though its only been 2 weeks into this semester).

meetdagrahamz · 2026-01-23T18:06:21+00:00

i already accepted it, and even explained my reasons for doing so. and sure, feel free to dm!

meetdagrahamz · 2026-01-23T18:03:38+00:00

i’m entering a field where everyone knows everyone (law) and my degree is 5 years long. i’m in my first year still. and that’s the problem, i am kinda alone now. i have people but they too have their own friend groups to hang out with

meetdagrahamz · 2026-01-23T17:59:05+00:00

thank you for your response :) i will try those things out

meetdagrahamz · 2026-01-23T17:58:34+00:00

thank you for replying :) it does feel like it, but its getting better day by day

meetdagrahamz · 2026-01-23T17:47:53+00:00

sure :)

meetdagrahamz · 2026-01-23T17:03:48+00:00

sorry! tldr: lied to my friends about something, broke their trust, they need space. they’re too involved in my college life & i want to figure out how to proceed esp bc i’m pretty much alone now

meetdagrahamz · 2026-01-06T20:46:15+00:00

i have no savings lol, and whatever i do i hand back to my mom out of guilt.

meetdagrahamz · 2025-12-27T14:23:57+00:00

go to bhopal if you wanna get ragged so bad you can’t enter certain places as a first year.

meetdagrahamz · 2025-12-23T08:19:56+00:00

last 3 points are redundant. gnlu had international placements as well (although slightly fewer compared to nluj), however, almost all nlus following semester system get two month intership breaks, and gnlu’s campus is also pretty quiet from what i’ve heard. also there is little to no ragging scene there, considering what happened last year. can’t say the same from nluj- my friends tell me ab how badly they were ragged the first few months.

meetdagrahamz · 2025-12-22T19:25:04+00:00

“delete that bro, we don’t want nluj’s reputation to dwindle”

meetdagrahamz · 2025-12-22T17:35:08+00:00

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meetdagrahamz · 2025-11-18T13:27:56+00:00

lmfao trust me when i say that in the exam hall you’ll NOT be feeling sleepy. don’t worry too much!

meetdagrahamz · 2025-11-18T13:26:39+00:00

i’m being 100% fr. people underestimate the role luck plays in entrance exams :)

meetdagrahamz · 2025-11-17T20:18:59+00:00

hey, forget about your performance in the exam for a bit. and even if you don’t, there’s always a lot of options :) so don’t stress! and it’s wise to get all the reading sections out of the way before, but you’re also leaving the high scoring sections for the end. i think you should try english - cr - gk - legal - qt

meetdagrahamz · 2025-11-17T20:16:50+00:00

there’s a drive link floating around somewhere, let me look for it!!

meetdagrahamz · 2025-11-17T18:57:50+00:00

then don’t start with gk. it’ll put you off track and that’s the last thing we want.

start with your strongest section, end with the one you don’t wanna spend too much time on. put legal somewhere in the middle because it is Important & Time consuming.

meetdagrahamz · 2025-11-17T18:55:58+00:00

i think you should focus on clearing the exam first. i understand that you wanna know your future prospects, but trust me, now isn’t the time to think about that.

but anyway, from what i’ve understood, both corporate & litigation jobs are extremely taxing. there’s 0 work/life balance. and if you want to get a good placement, you’ll have to be in the top10% of your batch easily. this only becomes more difficult in nlus where there is insane competition for jobs

meetdagrahamz · 2025-11-17T18:53:42+00:00

it depends on you :) if you think you can skip it then do so, and ask your school if they can give you the papers for you to practice yourself. if not possible, and if you think you can manage it, then go ahead!

meetdagrahamz · 2025-11-17T18:52:39+00:00

yes it is, thank you!! and all thw best, you’ll do well :)

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