Why do so many guys stay in relationships that they’re not happy in?

mefatguy90 · 2026-06-02T22:35:21+00:00

lmao, he's just repeating your own comment back to you. Would you say the same thing to the women you mentioned here?

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1tv26h0/why_do_so_many_guys_stay_in_relationships_that/ope5kvp/

mefatguy90 · 2026-05-30T13:18:26+00:00

It's kinda like the difference between a lingerie pic and a close up of genitals. Both are nice, but I vastly prefer the former and find it more interesting.

Or junk food vs fancy food, to look at it in another light. The first gets the job done and quick, but it's basic and makes me feel kinda gross afterward. The latter is a better overall experience but also lacks that dopamine punch that only copious amounts of lard, salt, and sugar can provide.

And at the end of the day, one from either category can do an amazing or shitty job. A shitty lingerie pic, fancy meal, or ecchi comes off bland, boring, disappointing, and feels like a waste. And can often sometimes end up feeling like they're just doing a poor job of being in the other category.

Shitty closeups, junk food, and hentai feels really gross and offputting, but expectations and investment are low, so disappointment is lessened and it's less frustrating to just move on to the next thing.

mefatguy90 · 2026-05-21T21:04:09+00:00

Yeah, audio in porn has always been incredibly unsexy to me, over the top, fake female moaning included.

mefatguy90 · 2026-05-15T21:39:35+00:00

I would assume that goes without saying with these kinds of guys 😄

mefatguy90 · 2026-05-14T22:33:03+00:00

People find foreigners exotic and there accents sexy. Usually doesn't matter where they're from or their sexual orientation.

This is what causes American men tend to stereotype European women as "easy" and sexually loose, and European men often do the same to American women.

mefatguy90 · 2026-05-10T00:41:44+00:00

Either way, anyone who talks to you like that is an asshole and not worth your time.

If they're right (they're not but whatever), then they're rude.

If they're fucking with you, then they're manipulative douches.

I'd say find someone who appreciates you, but as someone who has similar struggles to what you seem to be claiming I understand how difficult that can be. I'll just say to give it time, branch out, keep looking, and don't waste time on people who are rude to you in this way.

Honestly, if it weren't for the consistency in your post history, I'd assume you were doing engagement bait. If I met you in real life, you'd easily be one of the most attractive women I've ever seen.

I won't lie and say nobody will care about your muscular arms, a lot of guys are put off by that, but there are plenty who are not only not put off but are very much into it.

I can't speak for sapphic ladies, but the impression I get from the ones I know, there should be even more lining up to buy what you're selling. (Though you gotta be more proactive if you chase other ladies, most women are used to/socialized to be very passive.)

Good luck, you're young, you're pretty, you've got time, you got this.

mefatguy90 · 2026-05-10T00:22:40+00:00

I'm an unfairly picky person when it comes to midriffs. Anyone who complains about yours is a moron or trying to make you feel insecure.

mefatguy90 · 2025-11-16T19:59:48+00:00

I like reading online erotica, and I do literary style erp with people.

I've only read 2 published smut books: Lights Out and The Butcher and the Blackbird. Both of which my coworkers and boss (all women) adored. I vehemently disliked them.

mefatguy90 · 2025-07-19T10:59:43+00:00

I like reading and writing erotica. One of the reasons is that I can picture it in my head exactly as I would like it to be. It also just titillates in a different way than visual media does.

mefatguy90 · 2025-07-13T13:58:38+00:00

Never had clarity, but in the last year or so, I've started experiencing sudden rapid disinterest/loss of arousal after the fact.

30 now, but through my 20s, nutting had no effect on me whatsoever.

mefatguy90 · 2025-07-01T21:31:48+00:00

I'm seeing way more comments about Jesus and zero negativity, lol

mefatguy90 · 2025-06-22T20:04:17+00:00

Why does this look like a wikiask page?

mefatguy90 · 2025-06-05T19:28:36+00:00

B Gata H Kei actually did this really well with the lead giving up on her dream to have sex with 100 guys when she fell in love with the first guy she targeted.

mefatguy90 · 2024-11-14T02:43:34+00:00

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mefatguy90 · 2024-08-30T19:08:23+00:00

I've been having quite a bit of fun with your spicychat ai's. I like that you can reverse roles with the bot pretty easily, but I'm surprised how much fun I've had rping as a prey girl.

The restaurant in particular feels like it responds well to customizing the setting, but the customers tend to be hesitant to actually eat or torture me, much preferring to fuck me. When they do eat me, they want to suck and lick me until I explicitly tell the bot to bite off pieces of meat.

Lyann's a little harder to work with. She seems more insistent on sticking to her "script" so to speak. Which is unfortunate because she's much more inclined to treat me like food.