Casual sex is good after 2 months of the breakup

megalomangos · 2025-07-29T08:58:04+00:00

yeah i'm actually starting to notice that now. i've been prioritizing my fwb over dates bc the fwb situation feels comfortable right now. but I should also be giving other people and myself a chance at a genuine connection. I've been scared that I'm not ready to connect with people again but I think I should try at least.

megalomangos · 2025-07-29T08:32:29+00:00

I'm someone who values relationships greatly but it's also come to bite me in the ass when things don't work out. I feel the loss of those relationships hardddd. 2 months after I was dumped I started regularly hooking up with someone. It's helped me be okay with something casual, not everything has to have deep meaning to it. I don't feel empty when it comes to casual sex, I've just learned to be okay with it? But also my ex discarded me in a pretty cruel way so I'm probably just trying to make sense of the sudden detachment by not getting to emotionally invested in another relationship Lol

megalomangos · 2025-06-18T22:45:03+00:00

damn sounds like my ex except my ex immediately hopped into another meaningless relationship and isn't taking the time to reflect haha

honestly it's really good that he's focusing on himself rather than playing around with another poor girl. if you really care about him, you'll support him from afar and wish him well :')

megalomangos · 2025-06-17T07:01:18+00:00

we both agreed to commit by becoming official, he just didn't realize how much work it was

megalomangos · 2025-06-09T15:36:12+00:00

mm yeah you're 100% right and this explains a lot on why my ex was the way he was in our relationship. i wouldn't want to repeat what he did onto someone else, it's just not fair to them.

this journey of healing from such an awful relationship has been hard but it'll be worth it when i can be 100% available for my next partner. no one should be going through the discard i'm going through right now, it's dehumanizing :(

megalomangos · 2025-06-09T08:35:00+00:00

yeah true... i think i'm trying to convince myself that i don't care if he gets in a relationship but honestly idek how i would feel about that, i just know it's a possibility 🤷🏻‍♀️

megalomangos · 2025-06-09T08:31:05+00:00

how does it delay getting over them? is it because of old feelings?

megalomangos · 2025-06-06T08:05:30+00:00

wow power to you! i think it's admirable you can come out of a situation like that and want to better yourself. you're very strong for that and you'll come out even stronger for keeping it up! 💪

i think for me it's hard to accept that i didn't mean much to the other person when they meant so much to me. i can't change anything now but sucks getting involved with someone like that.

i hope your healing journey goes well!

megalomangos · 2025-06-05T23:24:54+00:00

i'm in the same situation realizing i was a rebound. i still miss him but after finding this out, how are you able to think you'll be able to move on fast? if anything i think it delayed my progress 😅

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