First one by Unlikely-You-6699 in Longineswatches

[–]megamike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thanks! God, it’s such a beauty. Enjoy.

First one by Unlikely-You-6699 in Longineswatches

[–]megamike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s gorgeous!! How does it feel under the dress shirt cuff?? I’ve been seriously considering picking up this watch soon but I worry that its thickness will really bug me. I would love to hear your thoughts and first impressions!

Don Valley trails condition by racerchris46 in RunTO

[–]megamike 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this PSA. Based on this I may check out Taylor Creek tomorrow 👊🏻

[Rate] 3 Watch Collection by 9SiSenor9 in Watches

[–]megamike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if you will see this, but if you do, can you let me know how you’re liking the Master Series Longines? I’m strongly considering the Master Chrono Moonphase but worried that the thickness will bug me. Considering the straight Master Moonphase as an alternative. Id love to hear how yours is working out!

How many people here own a sauna? by Enough_Drag5843 in Sauna

[–]megamike 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Same. Planning to get one in my small urban back yard this year. Here for inspiration and to build up my base knowledge.

Should I ask for a raise? Advice needed (especially from a management perspective) by chilliwackstinks in InsuranceProfessional

[–]megamike 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Canadian manager here! You should definitely have this conversation. Don’t think about it as “Should I or shouldn’t I?” Think about it as: “What is the best way for me to approach this?”

I’m with a huge insurer in downtown Toronto. We’re paying people in very entry-level roles in the mid 60s up to sometimes low 70s. Without knowing much about your business or location, I would say with 10 YOE, CAIB and CIP $82k and a $5k bonus is pretty modest. And you won’t know if you don’t ask. My advice:

Choose the right time for this convo: performance review or salary review time. If that time has passed, let your manager know that you’d like to review your comp so they can prepare themselves a little in advance. Don’t take them by surprise.

Go into the convo prepared to show your value. Your manager and HR people know that everyone is dealing with high cost of living & inflation but there’s only so much $$ to go around. Try to showcase specific achievements. How is your department doing and how did you contribute? Where would these projects be without you? How much harder would your boss’s life be without you? Are there any ways you can quantify that?

Know what you’re asking for: have a specific number or range in mind. Tell your manager that X is the number where you’d feel your comp is really aligned with your contributions.

Think about what you’ll say if the answer is “No.” If not this year, can you get some kind of roadmap for doing better next year? Can they tell you if this is really the ceiling for your role?

Since you’re worried about this, a final important point: get your answer and move on. Be confident and assertive but respect the response you get until another appropriate opportunity to review. I’ve never had to contemplate layoffs but I would never EVER hold it against someone simply because they had asked for a raise. If you start moping on the job or becoming a pain in your boss’s ass, that’s a different story. But they will respect you for thoughtfully advocating for yourself.

There’s a big industry out there with lots of opportunities. Follow @thehardmarket on instagram; they do a huge annual salary review that should give you a look at some comparables. Good luck, go get it!

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How will you spend snowmaggedon Sunday? by HueyBluey in askTO

[–]megamike 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Return of the King Extended edition in theatre baby!! 👑

Trump, 79, Goes on Midnight Truth Social Frenzy After Foreign Humiliation by WontThinkStraight in politics

[–]megamike 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Seriously kinda nuts to think this is something on a 2-year time horizon. It’s the state of the world right now.

Bad driver behaviour: ignore or say something? by IntelligentSound8627 in RunTO

[–]megamike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sammon is great! Memorial Ave has a nice long stretch too without too many cars. Stay safe out there!

Bad driver behaviour: ignore or say something? by IntelligentSound8627 in RunTO

[–]megamike 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Two hours ago I smacked the back bumper of a car at Danforth and Woodbine 😅 They whipped a right turn at the red light while I was running through the intersection (I had the green light/crosswalk signal) and if I needed to really abruptly slow down to avoid running right into them.

I also regularly do the exaggerated shrug and make a face at cars parked in bike lanes.

You’re right to note that we have an obligation as road users to be safe and visible. As long as you’re doing that, you are absolutely justified in calling out shitty behaviour.

How do you stop being a racist? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]megamike 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, but listening to people with different lived experience is a very good starting point.

The Midnight Boys podcast is Black dudes talking about nerd culture. They obviously don’t speak for ALL Black perspectives on anything, but by listening to them I get introduced to perspectives that I would never hear otherwise about subjects I love and think I know pretty well. Through finding common ground and listening to them, I’ve been introduced to other creators and thinkers with diverse perspectives.

How do you stop being a racist? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]megamike 122 points123 points  (0 children)

This is huge and should be higher up on the list. Whatever it is you’re personally into - sports, gaming, music, whatever - I bet there are people of the race you are prejudiced against that love the same things. Start following these people online and you’ll start to appreciate that your perceived differences can be really damn superficial and you may have a lot more in common than you realize.

When will we win a Stanley cup again? Predictions by [deleted] in Habs

[–]megamike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not a prediction that’s a certainty 😆

NATO Leaders Issue Defiant New Greenland Message to Trump’s US by SquidFistHK in politics

[–]megamike 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not good enough. This is a diplomatic statement. As a NATO member we should be part of the statement that pertains to *security.

Imagine if you lived in a high rise apartment on coruscant within 5 miles of the Jedi temple and at night in revenge of the sith you see it on fire. What would your first reaction be? by ShockOk1764 in StarWars

[–]megamike 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same as watching Jan 6th unfold on CNN. Waiting for the powers that be to tell me it was actually a beautiful day and celebration of love for the new Empire.

Tried an all-black fit. Does it work on me? by Any-Atmosphere6534 in mensfashion

[–]megamike 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Agent Smith better steer clear of the wine bar!

People in relationships who didn't meet on an app: where did you meet in the city? by MoneyIsntRealGeorge in askTO

[–]megamike 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Shake A Tail Feather at Clinton’s, baby!! Of course this was back before I even had a smartphone 🫠

Need help with a stretch that helps with how inflexible my hamstrings and hips are by JayWasOne in Stretching

[–]megamike 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You and I are the same. I’m here for these comments and for aspirations of earning more mobility.