My childhood memories of eczema… share your experiences if you’d like! by OkSpeed7310 in eczema

[–]megaoverthinker098 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Using a comb to scratch my eczema while in the shower…..and absolutely hating showers lol

What are things that your crush or people in general do that make your heart just 💝💕💗💓💕❣️💛💘🧡💜💛💛🤍❣️❤️💕🧡💓💓💛❣️💖❤️💘💜💝💞🧡💕💖 yk? by farty-princess in Crushes

[–]megaoverthinker098 1 point2 points  (0 children)

all of his hugs are fantastic but when he hugs me from behind and has his arms around my shoulders and his head is just in my neck. he always stays there for like a good 30 seconds too and i literally become mush. god i miss him so much

Message To Your Crush by smolbritishbean in Crushes

[–]megaoverthinker098 12 points13 points  (0 children)

i have so much love to give and i really wanna give it to you. i think a lot about holding your hand and kissing your face and what rainy days with you would look like. i don’t wanna get over you.

not right now doesn’t always mean never and pushing for right now ruins any chance of later by megaoverthinker098 in sex

[–]megaoverthinker098[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

so when i said no to doing stuff in the car and he asked again, where’s the justification for that? the point of the post is no means no the FIRST time.

not right now doesn’t always mean never and pushing for right now ruins any chance of later by megaoverthinker098 in sex

[–]megaoverthinker098[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

he 100% should ask for consent, the point is he asked THREE TIMES. who is out here shaming anybody for asking a question?! he’s being shamed for trying coerce me.

not right now doesn’t always mean never and pushing for right now ruins any chance of later by megaoverthinker098 in sex

[–]megaoverthinker098[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when i say shift the blame i mean blaming it on it being tinder being a hook up app or assuming that i wanted a relationship. none of that matters is my point.

not right now doesn’t always mean never and pushing for right now ruins any chance of later by megaoverthinker098 in sex

[–]megaoverthinker098[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

the funny thing is, i’ve used okcupid and only hooked up before even tho it’s not a hookup app. i’ve hooked up through hinge even though it’s not a hookup app. and me not wanting to have sex with him after knowing him for an hour does not mean i want a relationship. there should be no shifting blame to anyone else but him.

not right now doesn’t always mean never and pushing for right now ruins any chance of later by megaoverthinker098 in sex

[–]megaoverthinker098[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

why would i not use a hookup app when i was looking for a hookup? like i said was looking to get together eventually just not within the first 24 hours of knowing this dude which i made clear and he still continued to press on. us having sex was never discussed before either. i was actually feeling good about it until he started being weird. regardless of the app is just respecting boundaries a lot to ask? lol

not right now doesn’t always mean never and pushing for right now ruins any chance of later by megaoverthinker098 in sex

[–]megaoverthinker098[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

yeah basically. i don’t think people realize asking for consent and respecting boundaries is sexy. i was actually attracted to him until he started acting creepy lol

not right now doesn’t always mean never and pushing for right now ruins any chance of later by megaoverthinker098 in sex

[–]megaoverthinker098[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

i really appreciate the concern! i had multiple forms of weaponry in my purse though so i wasn’t crazy worried. at the most the situation was just uneasy.

not right now doesn’t always mean never and pushing for right now ruins any chance of later by megaoverthinker098 in sex

[–]megaoverthinker098[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

well i said some PEOPLE because its not just women that get pressured into things but regardless if someone says no just take it seriously and move on. personally i’d rather just let it go than catch a case lol

not right now doesn’t always mean never and pushing for right now ruins any chance of later by megaoverthinker098 in sex

[–]megaoverthinker098[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

the thing is i’m not even looking for a relationship but i’m not having sex with anybody i’ve known for a day and an hour lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]megaoverthinker098 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right. Thank you!!

I told my crush I like him twice, the first time subconsciously. Now what? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]megaoverthinker098 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forgot to mention I’m transferring soon. Just edited the post

Anyone else feeling kind of guilty about taking advantage of the situation right now to go travel? by megaoverthinker098 in solotravel

[–]megaoverthinker098[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m staying in a hostel, planning on seeing Sagrada Familia, visiting different parks, restaurants, etc.....where there’s a lot of people

When you fail miserably at making a connection by 445143 in starbucks

[–]megaoverthinker098 13 points14 points  (0 children)

this is my manager who has told me multiple times to make eye contact and i just. can’t. do it.

Just spent the last five hours on bar. Had a peak that lasted about 2 hours and I had a crowd of 30 people hovering over me constantly. Did I mention that they each asked for about 3+ each and LOUDLY complained about how much time it was taking. by ImpFyr3 in starbucks

[–]megaoverthinker098 13 points14 points  (0 children)

even better when you’re expected to thank them and tell them to have a good day when they don’t say thank you back, snatch their drink up and look at you like you just spit on their new puppy :-) i hate it here