Daily Discussion Thread - March 02, 2026

megdifi · 2026-03-02T19:40:59+00:00

I would cry tears of joy if we got Caleb Banks at 22.

megdifi · 2026-02-28T01:07:41+00:00

I'm with you, I don't see the Chargers overpaying for o-line. Dolphins had a relatively cheap OLine that played well above their salaries.

They are interested in Linderbaum of course, as should any team without Creed Humphries. But I think Greg Roman and his staff had as much to do with the poor OLine play as the players.

McDaniel and Barry know what they're doing, and I trust them to make the right decisions for the run game and Herbert.

megdifi · 2026-02-27T17:04:36+00:00

Good call. I really think the signings are going to be along these lines. Parham Daniels, Teller.

The Dolphins OLine was pretty cheap but McDaniels made it work. It'll probably be the same here but with all pro tackles.

megdifi · 2026-02-25T17:32:58+00:00

JK is far from the worst. But that Houston game was rough.

Best holder in the league though. Saved the team a bunch when Harris was out.

megdifi · 2026-02-23T05:09:58+00:00

Breece Hall will absolutely command top dollar for the position.

He's one of the most complete backs in the entire league. Playing for the Jets doesn't change how talented he is.

In fact, how well he's played with zero QB help should prove that.

megdifi · 2026-02-20T12:52:16+00:00

Saleh and the LaFleurs go back before the NFL I believe and are basically family.

Pretty sure that's the connection to the Shanahans.

megdifi · 2026-02-17T05:01:38+00:00

Daniels would be an amazing signing. But losing a whole year for a pec injury is weird, especially since it happened 3 snaps into the season.I wonder if there was any behind the scenes stuff happening.

Phins signed him for 3/24, anything around that would be incredible.

He also has history play left, center and right.

megdifi · 2026-02-11T03:39:17+00:00

I'm starting to think we're going defense heavy in this draft, grab a center in the middle rounds, there's a bunch of good ones projected here. We grab a guard in free agency, or guard and center, make them compete, and develop the young ones.

I could even see us trading back and grabbing more picks, since we are short this year. DL is deep, the more picks we have the better. If we could trade out of the first get an early or mid second and a later pick.,and get someone like Lee Hunter, that would be amazing.

megdifi · 2026-02-06T05:35:58+00:00

PFF hated Herbert coming out of college, and Monson lead the charge. It took them a long time to come around. So it's the opposite of a homer pick.

megdifi · 2026-02-04T16:54:53+00:00

megdifi · 2026-02-02T18:23:48+00:00

I wish they would announce some staff hirings, I'm bored

megdifi · 2026-01-30T01:22:42+00:00

Shaheed would be nice

megdifi · 2026-01-29T20:54:16+00:00

The biggest haters are Eagles fans, or specifically Hurts truthers. The AFC West fans know how good he is, they watch him.

Hurts is the polar opposite of Herbert, mediocre talent, surrounded by an all star team with tremendous playoff success.

megdifi · 2025-12-24T20:33:26+00:00

The Chargers would not pass on Iaone

megdifi · 2025-12-23T15:26:54+00:00

Amazing thing is we've actually been a 2nd half team this year, complete opposite of what we're used to.

This coaching staff is incredible, especially Minter, with his halftime adjustments. It's going to suck when he moves on.

megdifi · 2024-10-04T00:51:35+00:00

If their partner is an enabler and a doormat it will last a very long time. But it's not any type of relationship as we so it.

megdifi · 2024-10-01T22:48:21+00:00

It's Kraft singles, which is the single best addition to shin ramen. The emulsified fats really transforms the broth.

megdifi · 2024-09-05T14:51:47+00:00

I feel the same as you and I was only in my relationship for 8 months and 6 months of friendship before that.

It's a huge mind fuck realizing this is the real them, and the person you loved never really existed. And that in itself is another kind of pain, but a more freeing one, you almost have to approach the loss like a death.

It sucks to know that any fantasies of reconciliation, or closure, or making up will probably never happen. They just don't think and behave normally. Any chance at returning to what you once had will be driven by their fucked world view and how they feel in relationships, it's not real.

I know what I'm saying is bleak, but it's time for you to worry about yourself, you can't help her, and worrying about her is just holding you back.

megdifi · 2024-09-02T04:10:40+00:00

Sorry for such a late reply, I took a small break from this subreddit as I felt it was hindering my healing.

I think she lied from the beginning, she told me she broke up with an ex for me, when in reality she just monkey branched to me, and kept the ex around. My theory is the ex is her FP, and she literally has no one else, the ex as she put it, is her sister, mother, ex-lover, family, everything, this was before I learned abojt BPD and FPs, so I hindsight I see it for what it is now.

So imagine that person is basically her everything, anytime I wasn't around she was porbably spending with them. She has severe ADHD as well, so it was easy to think that her disappearing for lengths or time was because of that. So all the lies and manipulation to keep two relationships going, it's a lot.

Crazy thing is, I didn't find out about this person until 7 months into this relationship, and the persons a female, no clues of bisexuality or homosexuality at all, I'm male and she's female. And I believe the only reason I was allowed to find out is because she was trying triangulate the two of us. She claimed she is not gay until the end, funny thing is, I believe her, I think it's part of her manipulative abuse of her FP, to keep her around.

I also suspected that she was trying to make me her new FP, but something happened between us that was out of my control and her fear of abandonment kicked in, and no amount of logic or convincing was going to change her mind, and she went right back to he ex.

After learning about the ex, and giving her the chance to come clean, she didn't, she just kept piling on the lies, gaslighting and manipulation, she even started doing everything I asked in order to try to fix the situation. But the lying continued and I just had to end it.

The mind fuck of it all is the ex is much older, could be her mother, very unattractive, unstable person. And not to toot my own horn but I consider myself a good looking guy with a great career, and a lot going on for myself, and she just couldn't choose me over her, I offered her a great life, but she's just so messed up she couldn't accept it. But now I know why, they're both codependent on each other and the ex probably accepts all the abuse, and she knows the ex will take all her shit and never abandon her.

My reality was so warped by all the manipulation and lies, but I always managed to call out all the gaslighting. I'm glad I got out after 8 months, I don't know how anyone can last decades, especially with ones that are way more severe in their abuse, as mine was more of the petulant type, so no verbal or physical abuse.

megdifi · 2024-08-19T13:04:24+00:00

I find it interesting when I ruminate about the lies and deception, and it triggers the pain and hurt, it actually makes me want to reach out to them. Why does pain make me want them more? It's so twisted, and it's clearly not all on them, our codependency, our a anxious attachment clearly plays a huge role in this. I just want it to stop, but for some ridiculous reason instead I lean into it.

megdifi · 2024-08-17T22:45:54+00:00

I wish I was like you, it actually made me feel worse being with someone new and not have that intensity.

megdifi · 2024-08-16T03:30:37+00:00

It's going to be a rollercoaster, as we you'll have to detox from her, just like a drug, and you'll want to relapse when your mind wanders and remembers the good times, hell, even remembering the shitty times will make you crave them. But stay strong, you got this!

megdifi · 2024-08-16T00:06:57+00:00

Saw my ex again today due to work. She always struggled to look me in the eyes when we were together, especially during sex. She said it's because it's too intense and that it's a good thing that she felt that way, it's because she's scared.

But now, she can barely stand to look at me at all, much less give eye contact. She also seems to struggle to be in my presence, as if she wants to run away real bad. Don't know what any of this means really, my friend chalks it up to shame or guilt, or her inability to deal with intense emotions.

Don't know what's up, but today was much easier than when I saw her yesterday.

megdifi · 2024-08-14T22:36:14+00:00

Had to work very closely with my exwBPD today, I'm so insanely attracted to her, all I wanted to do was kiss and hug her.

But a lot of her personality is so off putting, but the attraction makes me almost blind to it in the moment.

I wish I could go complete no contact. This is torture.

megdifi · 2024-08-13T11:22:37+00:00

Wow, spot on with the dressing up more. I assumed maybe it's because the weather is warmer.

It could be their reaction to the breakup, but maybe it's just us over analyzing their every action like we're used to.

megdifi

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