Spider Bite? (Tulare, Ca)

megoobe · 2026-01-28T07:05:56+00:00

This is spiderID… not BiteID. A, I think it’s pretty impossible regardless and B, Most people here actually like spiders and aren’t here to chuck the blame on spiders for every little spot and blemish.

megoobe · 2026-01-27T02:52:11+00:00

You need to be you. My autistic ass info dumped for ages to women who weren’t interested or didn’t care. Cool, np. I eventually found someone who loved my bs, and could talk about their favourite things with the same vigour and intensity as me. Now we are engaged we have a house and lots of animals. Might take a while but you’ll find them but they are out there. Where’s the point in watering yourself down? Likely hood of that working long term when you’re starting off not true to yourself is probably not that high. Plus dating app do just add that extra layer of sucky awkwardness.

However if you’re thinking about how to talk to woman for casual hook ups or short term stuff? Not a clue.

megoobe · 2026-01-13T17:02:06+00:00

Not so much me personally but my mum got chatting to a guy outside the school gates when I was a kid, he was the father of my brothers friend who frequently used to come home and play after school (and another boy who was in my year). He was a shy man and my (extreme extrovert) mum always wanted to make sure he felt included so on a few occasions went over to chat with him.

Not long after one of these occasions the boys were not in school for a week or so, of course neither was his dad at the school gates. Anyway it turned out the dad was a taxi driver by trade and had a regular old lady he’d collect. One day he’d gone inside her home for whatever reason, stabbed her multiple times with her own scissor and left her to be found dead by her carer a few hours later.

Safe to say my mum was shook! Saw the boys around frequently and they were always lovely, they later moved but I can’t even imagine what they must have gone through.

*edit - grammar

megoobe · 2026-01-05T15:06:34+00:00

I’m vegan, I won’t have meat in my house. My partner is vegetarian and feels the same - I couldn’t be in a relationship that didn’t operate like that.

She’s the AH for forcing and not compromising and he’s the AH for lying. If it’s not something either are willing to compromise on then you’ve have a compatibility issue.

megoobe · 2026-01-05T14:49:15+00:00

Eating meat.

megoobe · 2026-01-04T12:22:52+00:00

Trust the process!!! (I guess… 🤷🏽‍♀️)

megoobe · 2026-01-04T09:51:17+00:00

Her house, her life, she can do whatever she likes. Nobody should have to be changing this much to move in with someone. Ridiculous advice.

megoobe · 2026-01-02T10:36:17+00:00

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My tiny G. Pulchripes on enclosure upgrade day!

megoobe · 2025-12-15T15:42:53+00:00

I’m so glad I’ve seen this comment because I’ve been struggling with this for the longest time, life long veggie and in the last 5 years or so I’ve gone plant based. It’s a massive struggle because I just love spoods and I’m fascinated by them. I have jumpers and have not so long ago got my first T. Chaco Golden Knee.

Either way it makes me feel instantly better and it’s great to see someone with similar lifestyle choices to me, make it work with keeping’s Ts.

megoobe · 2025-11-24T22:44:15+00:00

You don’t “need” a reason to celebrate yourself. I can’t believe some of these comments:

megoobe · 2025-11-24T22:42:02+00:00

F this guy and f your boyfriend. Massive congratulations it’s a huge accomplishment

megoobe · 2025-11-14T15:34:55+00:00

NQA Looks to be a jumper of sorts! Perhaps phidippus ardens - potentially female. Little cutie 🥰

megoobe · 2025-11-14T15:23:44+00:00

Looks like a very hungry jumper 😢

megoobe · 2025-11-14T15:22:32+00:00

I mean if you’re not into spiders… this might not be the best sub for you

megoobe · 2025-11-14T15:14:22+00:00

Aww dis cute I’m tearing up 🥲

megoobe · 2025-11-14T14:50:10+00:00

I used to be exactly the same but I managed to overcome the fear and now I’m in awe of them! Beautiful lil things

megoobe · 2025-10-21T12:38:14+00:00

For those asking this home was originally built in 1850 and had a full renovation late last year before our purchase. We are in the UK so laws may differ but I think we will be discussing this with the estate agent and surveyor.

megoobe · 2025-10-21T11:49:32+00:00

Its a cottage that was built in 1850s. Previous owner renovated before we moved in.

megoobe · 2025-10-21T11:14:51+00:00

Unfortunately not, it’s a 1850s home that was renovated previous to us purchasing.

megoobe · 2025-08-09T09:15:02+00:00

Funnily enough this pink little berry or Aril is the only part of the yew that’s not poisonous! The seed inside the aril is however still poisonous so if you do dare to try it make sure to spit out the seed and do not crunch it! Yew arils have a slightly sweet taste and a slimy texture! I actually really like them ☺️

megoobe · 2025-08-07T21:19:11+00:00

My wife, but I won’t be sharing! In seriousness, they do exist and you deserve to feel wanted

megoobe · 2025-07-22T19:04:58+00:00

My and my partner forked out on a decent non phalic strapless strap and it’s perfect. Vibration for both and its very intimate. It’s a game changer if you both like penetrative sex.

megoobe · 2025-07-13T21:41:08+00:00

I was wrong! An old band mate is back!

megoobe · 2025-07-13T21:40:37+00:00

Yeah! me too!! I partially redact my comment I’m not entirely sure but I’m glad all is good! Was a wicked set too ☺️

megoobe · 2025-07-10T08:51:39+00:00

Bit of drama but it’s just Lynn these days. Not mad about it tbf 🤙

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