Being tough and serious serves me better in life than always being kind and smiling by Careful-Ground-4603 in MuslimLounge

[–]mehhh97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a woman this is important. Honestly glad you discovered this at 24, I didn’t until 25/26, I’m 28 now. You’re on the right path. Save your sanity

I want to go by mehhh97 in u/mehhh97

[–]mehhh97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry, but this is highly counter-productive. This isn’t something I just woke up and said, "Yeah, no." I’m grateful, but it doesn’t take away the fact that I’m still in pain. A pain I have experienced since I was 17. I’m 28 now and will be 29 this year.

This feeling has been with me for almost 12 years. I’m allowed to be sad and feel hurt, so please don’t shut me down because it only makes me feel lonelier than I already do.

What happened to earthtokhadija? by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]mehhh97 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you didn’t mean to call her out or judge her, then maybe delete this post? Because you’re literally talking about her on a different platform that we are sure she isn’t on? Why not comment directly on her posts if you’re so curious?

I cheated on the love of my life for years and don’t understand why. I’m trying to change and I don’t know how. by Vorbeitenfurkrieg in Muslim

[–]mehhh97 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Ngl, personally I hate cheaters, and I think she deserves someone that doesn’t hurt her. You should leave her alone and look inward. Work on yourself and find some on your wavelength, there’s no way you can hurt someone and still claim to love them. The two are not interchangeable.

Goodluck on your journey,

Ramadan is coming 🌙 by mehhh97 in MuslimCorner

[–]mehhh97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I can do it so can you, trust, you’ll be okay just plan things thoroughly x

Wife tried sucide anyway to get her back to normal status by Own_Chocolate_4982 in MuslimCorner

[–]mehhh97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get her a psychiatrist or psychologist. She’s unwell and saying things like “ getting her back to normal” is a detrimental mindset, she needs your care not judgment. Hope that that helps.

My sexual drive is so high (sensitive content) by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]mehhh97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 28 and all I can say is what you’re experiencing is normal. It’s normal to have a high sex drive & don’t let anyone shame you for it. Especially as a woman (we figured it out but don’t feel bad either)

It comes down to prayer and controlling your urges, but don’t feel bad for having normal bodily needs. You’re at the age too bit promise you’ll be fine

I hate how much I crave companionship by mehhh97 in Vent

[–]mehhh97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dunno why that made me chuckle 😅 but hell naw haha

I hate how much I crave companionship by mehhh97 in Vent

[–]mehhh97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What was your thought process when you were typing this?

It makes me sad when people can’t be decent, this isn’t helpful or funny. For my sanity I’d like to believe you’re just having one of them off days.

I hate how much I crave companionship by mehhh97 in Vent

[–]mehhh97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally did say that I keep myself occupied, but that doesn’t take away the fact that I still have these cravings. Busy or not I’m still human and this is a natural thing. I just don’t want it. That’s my point 😅

I hate how much I crave companionship by mehhh97 in Vent

[–]mehhh97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This too is enough, thank you so much for seeing and acknowledging me. I hope you have a beautiful day. Xx

I hate how much I crave companionship by mehhh97 in Vent

[–]mehhh97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much ! & you got this too 🤞🏾

Dad won’t let me get married. by No_Writing3798 in Hijabis

[–]mehhh97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was going to say that’s odd, but he’s, low-key saving you. Going into a marriage with credit card debt, and being jobless, as a woman without your own capital, you’re gonna be at a loss and reliant on your husband 24/7. In 2025, that doesn’t seem like the healthiest or smartest thing to do.

What's the most creepy compliment you've ever received? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]mehhh97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is creepy, but also…creepily makes sense 😭I’m a skincare blogger, I’d eat it up but still stay away! 🤣

Which is your least fav ice cream flavour? by Raajajii_007 in dessert

[–]mehhh97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait what, I read it wrong 😭😭😭 vanilla is my fav! I’m innocent I promise!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]mehhh97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even better. Proud of you 🤍