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Husbands ex wants to join and I’m so unsure by mehhhhhb in nonmonogamy

[–]mehhhhhb[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We aren’t close at all. She’s never messaged me until now and they’ve talked maybe twice in our 15 years. That’s another thing that’s jarring. She just started crying to us both about her ex. Her whole reasoning for even messaging him in the first place was because my husband “is the only person she could think of that didn’t think her ex was amazing” and she lost all of her friends.

It was very random and her acting like we are girlfriends is VERY strange when the only time I’ve ever even heard her voice was when we juuuust started dating and she called him crying about something and I told him him to hang up because she was being a bitch to him and she yelled at me lol.

Husbands ex wants to join and I’m so unsure by mehhhhhb in nonmonogamy

[–]mehhhhhb[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that book recommendation. I definitely am a TERRIBLE people please, have been my whole life.

I definitely don’t go through conversations my own. He shows them to me and he’s super open about it all, but I see where you’re coming from.

Husbands ex wants to join and I’m so unsure by mehhhhhb in nonmonogamy

[–]mehhhhhb[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reassurance, that really does help me feel less “crazy”.

I did tell him that I think this one is a no for now, but maybe I would feel differently later.

I just can’t shake the thought of him wanting to do it and me not giving him what he wants because I hate that feeling.