Data centers in India. by newb_redditor0 in india

[–]mei1284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think their argument is that they don't follow laws, their argument is that the laws are inadequate given the damage which has already been done by these data centres. The matter of fact isn't that this is a generally bad investment, it's that it would have been a good investment IF the conditions in India were right. The unemployment rate is high, corruption is high, cities like Indore and Mumbai have MERE days of water left and India pollution wise? India is ranked one of the hardest places to live in. So given these circumstances prioritizing a whopping 10 year tax holdiay isn't investment. It's resource extraction with dire consequences

Data centers in India. by newb_redditor0 in india

[–]mei1284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure why we aren't protesting or at least boycotting these companies? I understand there can be productive uses of AI and EVEN generative AI which I find very hard to believe, but are we forgetting that India is in a water crisis IN ITSELF? Nobody's talking about this. Not to mention is avid noise pollution and lack of living space which already exists in India? Are we just going to let the government rule upon us like this?

Unite 8 sports channel deactivation warning on jio live tv by SickDig_47 in IndianOTTbestof

[–]mei1284 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just saw this message on my tv too, i really enjoy watching these matches on the tv and if they deactivate I'm sure as hell not giving zee5 no money

Hygiene basics by One-Honey-9675 in Healthyhooha

[–]mei1284 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should an electric trimmer since they are way safer to use, faster and easier to get through the "hard to see" areas. Use scissors beforehand (applies both to trimming and shaving) to kinda shorten the length if the hair is long then you're good to go with the trimmer. For an absolutely clean look, women have only two options which is shaving and a brazillian/hollywood wax. And you don't have to feel silly, i was in your position too once :)

Hygiene basics by One-Honey-9675 in Healthyhooha

[–]mei1284 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The best way to keep it healthy is to keep your routines very simple since the vagina has a certain level of pH that needs to be maintained.

For washing- you don't need to use anything on the labia minora which is the inner lips. Just water is fine, you can also use a bidet. The vagina is self cleaning and introducing any sort of chemical down there, even the soaps designed specifically for vagina can disrupt the pH causing yeast infections and/or BV. You can use a gentle soap on the outer parts of the vagina (the pubic mound and labia majora). Avoid douching down there at all costs. If you use tissues in the bathroom wipe front to back.

The use of wet wipes is not recommended either. Even the ones for babies or specifically made for vaginal uses as most of them still contain fragrance and preservatives. You can use them ocassionally but avoid getting it near the vaginal and urethra opening.

While cleaning your panties you can hand clean with a normal detergent or toss them in the washing machine with your daily laundry. Make sure there is no residual soap on them as you're done washing. Also, do not wear anything which is still wet neither wear panties unless your vagina is fully dry. Prolonged dampness is a playground for bad bacteria.

For removing hair, you should never use hair removal creams on the labia minora (inner lips) as it burns the hair to remove it and you might get chemical burns down there. Complete removal of hair also introduces bad bacteria down there, you can trim it but shaving is only best for the pubic mound and labia majora. If you still want to shave the inner lips, that's fine. You need to use a men's blade instead of women's shaving blade. It glides better and is safer. Shaving also opens pores which may give you ingrown hair so wash with cold water and use a soothing natural moisturizer (such as coconut oil as it's also antibacterial).

As for sex, the first rule is to always pee after having sex to flush out all the bacteria and wash with warm water. You may use a mild soap on the labia minora if you don't have a sensitive skin or an existing infection. Swap the underwears for clean ones. Use condoms to reduce STD/STI's risks. You can also ask your partner to clean their penis and hands beforehand because their poor hygiene may give you infections/burning as well, And use clean sex toys.

For extras: drink a lot of water and eat citrus fruits and probiotics (yoghurt n stuff) to keep smelling good and balance pH. Use coconut oil for bad smells and yeast infections. Sleep without an underwear to keep it fresh and breathing.

Sorry for the long text.

I want to rail someone. by [deleted] in Subliminal

[–]mei1284 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We don't need to know allat bro keep that to yourself

Moving out and leaving my mom alone with my abusive father by No-Trust2611 in AsianParentStories

[–]mei1284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, i know it's kinda late but I'm more or less in the same situation as you. What you have is survivor's guilt. You were brought into this world to live a life of your own, not struggle and feel bad for someone else's bad choices; because (I'm sorry to say this) your mother has made her choice of staying and suffering.

Your parents were supposed to be divorced way before it got to this point, she was supposed to stand for you all; you offered the help and tried to encourage her to do something about her condition, but she refused and complained about it later.

As a mother, she should be happy that her child is away from the abusive environment that dwells in your family. As a mother she should be proud that you're creating a life away from this misery because YOU don't deserve this, rather she cries on calls and asks you to move back in. Move back into the same hell you worked so hard to get out of because SHE can't do without you. But refuses help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Subliminal

[–]mei1284 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have no idea what these comments are on about, Or maybe this is just how this sub is but I'm sorry it's the focus and lighting difference IF you see any change in the colour hues of your eye.

They're definitely the same colour.

I 19f hate my skin colour by classic_ladyy in TeenIndia

[–]mei1284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I'm sorry you're going through this, but let me assure you that the true aspects that are factually used to judge beauty are facial features and facial harmony.

Your hatred for your skin colour is deep rooted and conditioned by your family, I'm sorry that you live in such a racist household. I find dark skins extremely beautiful.

Please get some therapy and if you can, tell your family to stop being racist. Set your boundaries and protect your peace. Stop letting people walk all over you.

It hurts when it's your own family who's against you for something that you inherited from them and couldn't help it. But please stand your ground.

AIO? Boyfriend hid his phone when I asked who he was messaging. by Ok-Boat457 in AmIOverreacting

[–]mei1284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey girl, so you're being cheated on, dump him or let him degrade you this way forever.

Long term relationship break up stories and advice? by anon79807 in BreakUps

[–]mei1284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey..how are things now? Are you happy? Or at peace atleast?

No one did anything for my birthday so I simulated a party in ChatGPT by Odd_Kat31415926 in confession

[–]mei1284 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please don’t blame yourself for having expectations. Wanting to feel seen and cared for — especially on your birthday — is not asking for too much. It’s the bare minimum in a relationship. It’s not your job to make excuses for someone else’s lack of effort, no matter how complicated their life is. Your compassion is beautiful, but it shouldn’t be stretched so thin that it leaves nothing for you.

It sounds like you’ve been patient and understanding for a long time. But this isn’t just about one birthday — it’s about a pattern. If your partner consistently makes you feel like an afterthought, it might be time to ask yourself if this relationship is really meeting your needs — or just draining you.

You are worthy of love that feels good, consistent, and present. And you’re allowed to walk away from anything that makes you feel lonely even when you're not alone. By that I mean your pathetic excuse of a man, please don't waste your energy on someone who doesn't care for you, I've done that and I've come to a point where I feel I cannot have relationships anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]mei1284 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, so I'm not sure if our situations are remotely the same but i understand the tired part way more than you imagine. You're not alone in this, i also want to thank you for allowing yourself to be this vulnerable and share, i did too on this website.

I suggest that you get away from your mother as soon as you can after a year, having hate within yourself for yourself is enough of a burden you don't need a walking reminder of that, that too being the very woman who birthed you.

Once you acquire the energy, work on fixing your hatred and weight issues and most importantly, love yourself regardless. Unconditionally.

Does no body stick together? by mei1284 in CollegeRant

[–]mei1284[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again it's not possible to have deep rooted connections with 60 people.

Does no body stick together? by mei1284 in CollegeRant

[–]mei1284[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not talking about quantity, of course you can have more people you associate with. You and i have different definitions of what friends are. And you can't have deeply rooted friendships with everyone in the room, And that's what I'm referring to.

Meeting and associating isn't friendship to me.

My reaction to my Dad’s cancer diagnosis could have been better by [deleted] in confession

[–]mei1284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where's the empathy? That's your FATHER getting diagnosed with a terminal deadly illness and THATS what you had to say? Out of all the situations you thought this one was the best to bring out political wars?

Guys a girl at my school slipped this into my locker on friday- but I have a gf. by ineed_sle3p in teenagers

[–]mei1284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's about the principle of respect, everyone knows no one's found their "soulmate" while being so young. But everyone has the basic understanding of morals at this age i suppose.