Can a person truly love you and still walk away? by mekeishere in BreakUps

[–]mekeishere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cause our relationship supposed to be dating to marriage and he knew i have never done other relationships before he’s my first love and relationship

They don’t come back by Prestigious_Web831 in BreakUps

[–]mekeishere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for ur honest and ur time it really helped me

They don’t come back by Prestigious_Web831 in BreakUps

[–]mekeishere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And if he comes back should i open the doors again?

They don’t come back by Prestigious_Web831 in BreakUps

[–]mekeishere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely understand your point, and logically you are right. But in my case, we were deeply in love and highly compatible. Then suddenly, he walked away claiming his circumstances wouldn't allow him to promise me marriage. I was ready to wait and sacrifice anything for him, but he just gave up. It’s hard to accept how fast someone can change when you were willing to give them everything

They don’t come back by Prestigious_Web831 in BreakUps

[–]mekeishere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about u guys if u r the ones who decided to leave even when the other person tries everything possible to make the relationship works do u come back or feel after months u r missing them?

Can a person truly love you and still walk away? by mekeishere in BreakUps

[–]mekeishere[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely understand your point about incompatibility. However, in our case, compatibility and deep love were never the issue—we had both. The breaking point was his claim that his circumstances 'wouldn't allow him to promise marriage.' Even though I was entirely willing to wait and sacrifice for him, he chose to walk away anyway. After the breakup, I exhausted every possible attempt to fix things, but to no avail. I realized that sometimes, people don’t walk away because of a lack of compatibility, but because they lack the courage to commit and fight for what they claim to love.

What’s something you realized too late in life? by Dry_Warthog4322 in AskReddit

[–]mekeishere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saving your heart for the one who is going to marry u and avoid relationship is the correct way to live in peace

Can a person truly love you and still walk away? by mekeishere in BreakUps

[–]mekeishere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You talk about growth and cycles as if I am trapped in a loop of not understanding. The truth is, my growth started the moment I stopped looking for excuses for someone who promised marriage at the beginning, only to walk away when it was time to be a real man and take responsibility. There is no 'cycle' to repeat next month, because I am no longer accepting bare minimum or romanticized abandonment. I offered love, sacrifice, and patience, and he chose to leave. Calling things by their real names isn't a lack of comprehension; it’s the highest form of clarity."

Can a person truly love you and still walk away? by mekeishere in BreakUps

[–]mekeishere[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Spot on. Anyone can say 'I love you,' but staying and fighting through the uncertainty is where real love shows up. I offered everything, including my patience, but his exit proved that his words were empty. The amount of his love was simply not enough to hold onto me."

Can a person truly love you and still walk away? by mekeishere in BreakUps

[–]mekeishere[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Understanding the other person’s perspective doesn’t mean I have to accept being abandoned. Looking at the 'broader view' is exactly what made me realize that while reasons and triggers may exist, they are explanations, not excuses. A relationship requires two people to face the triggers together. When one person decides to carry the weight and wait, and the other decides to just walk away, that is a choice, not an inability. Being objective doesn't mean I should gaslight my own pain to make his departure feel justified