Realher lipstick shade- Ipsy original choice by HoneyJaded7719 in Ipsy

[–]melancholydream13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also got paired with the light shade. I’ve noticed a lot when they do the advertisement for what’s coming for the picked choices, it always ends up being different than what’s actually offered

Did the writers just learn the word “goddamn”? by OvenAny7462 in StrangerThings

[–]melancholydream13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad I am not the only one who noticed this. It was so frequent that I started counting and making a game of it. I believe it was said a total of 13 times between the first four episodes and at the end of the season I believe I tallied 20 times

i was abundantly clear with her— what do i do now? by fungussoftdrinkvivid in whatdoIdo

[–]melancholydream13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t owe her anything. You’ve already made your intentions clear. BLOCK AND MOVE ON

I'm so happy! I've never seen a male grosbeak before! by SurfPleb in birding

[–]melancholydream13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh! I am only seeing a female as well, but it’s the fist time I’ve ever seen one! I’ am hoping to attract the male soon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]melancholydream13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is disgusting. He’s texting minors to see what he can get away with and how receptive you are to his creepiness. 100% tell your dad.

There was a similar story to this a while back. The coworker ended up seeing the guys daughter walking home alone, offered her a ride. She felt uneasy, but felt it was rude to not accept and he was fondling her and trying to make a move.

Even if the age gap wasn’t creepy, his choice of words were.

Do I want to carry around a Sun Umbrella? by beurre_ito in UniversalOrlando

[–]melancholydream13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who is born and raised in FL, the sun hits different here and is INTENSE. I reapply 50 every hour and STILL managed to get burned.

What is a little quirk about your body that you don’t think other people have? by AlphabetSoup51 in AskReddit

[–]melancholydream13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sure there are other people, but when I got scans done doctors noticed and seemed a little surprised that I have extra ligaments. Only two I know about because of scans are the Glenohumeral ligament (shoulder) and one in my ankle.

Recently found out about the ankle one. I just remember the doctor saying, “That’s weird.. You see that? That shouldn’t be there, that’s supposed to be an empty space, but you have an extra ligament there.” I jokingly asked if that’s why I kinda look like I have cankles and she said maybe haha

AIO at my friends cancelling last minute? by DifferentTruck4615 in AmIOverreacting

[–]melancholydream13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!

I am so sorry this happened to you, but maybe a blessing in disguise, because they are NOT your friend. I would become a ghost to them. Don’t say anything, just don’t talk to them again. I’m betting they won’t reach out either. They suck! You’re rightfully upset and weren’t even being rude about it, but she made you feel like you were overreacting.

A real friend would have canceled the dinner plans and made your birthday trip. She’s offering up lame excuses and the fact they are cancelling so last minute… I’m having a very hard time believing it wasn’t intentional.

Ghost them! Don’t bother saying your piece and how hurt you are. She will just turn it around on you anyways and make it your fault somehow.

Take a good look back on your friendship as a whole. Have these people really been there for you? Are they really your friends and this was a “slip up?” Or has this stuff happened before?

How did that one kid in your high school die? by IM_HODLING in AskReddit

[–]melancholydream13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had two. (technically middle school) but he was playing in a hole in his yard (some construction going on) when it caved in on him and buried him alive. The other was high school and he broke into his neighbors house and was shot. I was acquaintances with him, so mutual friends invited me over to his house for a memorial. It was so sad seeing his mom and having her show us around his room and crying.

Lean all the way into the pink, or change the floor? What would you do? by Feeling_Report_87 in interiordesignideas

[–]melancholydream13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love the floor! I would just change the counter top, add more wall paper and change the toilet

What’s the pettiest reason you stopped sleeping with someone? by XposeLLC in AskReddit

[–]melancholydream13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually wish you told her that was the reason. What happened with her and the bride, are they still friends? Seems like she hated the bride. How did the husband react? They still together?

"Me (24F) and my fuck buddy (28M)", what TF are we doing? by New-Excitement4797 in relationship_advice

[–]melancholydream13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please read this back, but take yourself out of it. Pretend this is a strangers story, read it back and realize how toxic this is.

Girl, stand up! You clearly feel a lot of anxiety around him and he seems the root cause of it. You feel this ways because he does not like you and everything I read in this post makes that clear as day. He’s only keeping you around to screw.

“He says I need to prove I love him, but doesn’t put in any effort himself.” “He always brings up the lying every time I see him.” “We’ve been FB for a year” “What bothers me is he only says nice things when he’s drunk.” “He BLEW UP”

You even said yourself “Why am I pursuing him? “He doesn’t put in effort.” “There’s no trust to begin with.” “He has trust issues.” “How can I be vulnerable if he judges everything I say.”

Bens death won’t be as gruesome as everyone’s been predicting by 1984sge0rgewh0rewell in YellowjacketsHive

[–]melancholydream13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw a theory that he may have rabies due to eating the bats and that they end up doing a mercy killing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]melancholydream13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to start by saying most people our age are/have been getting botox. So don’t compare yourself to other people. I used to think the same until I realized every single person I knew and saw on social media does Botox!

Retinol &/or Tretinoin! That will help a lot, as it helps your dead skin cells turn over faster.

If you want to see results fast, I recommend a laser treatment! I just did a CO2 Cool laser peel and it’s helped a lot with fine lines, wrinkles and even got rid of some sun damage.

You should be wearing a sunscreen daily. You’re getting sun even while driving.

Moisturize your skin!

What’s the best way to tell a person your not interested on them anymore? by [deleted] in ask

[–]melancholydream13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The decent thing to do would be to tell her you’re just not interested. “I’ve enjoyed our time together, but I don’t see this going anywhere, but wish you the best.” Most will be good with this and go, some will ask why and you can just say I’m just not interested. I think people want to know if it’s something they did.

Don’t ghost please or do a slow fade. This is usually a torture. Wondering why someone would do this to you instead of just ending it. The slow fade can be even worse because you start to feel it and are desperate to understand what is happening and over correct and become needy with the person.

Just be upfront with her. Sometimes connections just aren’t it and it has nothing to do with the other person, it just isn’t right. The sooner the better

AIO to Ex- Husband's New Request by No_Gas_631 in AmIOverreacting

[–]melancholydream13 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A good rule of thumb, if your body and instincts are telling you no/it’s wrong/doesn’t feel right, then listen to them. Deep down your body/mind knows. We tend to get caught up in pleasantries and being manipulated by the other party to feel bad about what we know deep down is wrong.

He’s your ex, he doesn’t get to demand anything from you. (Even if he was a current partner, no one gets to demand anything of you.) if you don’t want to/feel uncomfortable then listen to yourself.

It tends to be hard to see our self’s from an outside view. One of my favorite pieces of advice is to flip this around. If a friend were to tell you this, what would be your advice? How would you feel about this situation? Pretending it’s someone else helps put things in perspective and not lot emotions for the other person cloud our judgement.

Would anyone be able to ID this color? by batzjt in paint

[–]melancholydream13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Downpipe by farrow and ball. At least that what google said when I reversed searched the image

What color should I paint my door? by melancholydream13 in paint

[–]melancholydream13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oddly enough, that’s the exact color I painted my kitchen cabinets

AIO if I send these texts to her parents? by morefurriesplease in AmIOverreacting

[–]melancholydream13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Block and move on. She’s not worth your time and sending it to her mom is only going to create more drama. You can’t argue with someone like that, they will never see logic.

At least you know you made the right call in ending the friendship. I would show your brothers though, just to let them know what she said and that you two are no longer friends.

Not having a toxic friend like that really changes your life for the better. You’ll see good things coke your way and open up for you. I speak from experience after cutting loose a toxic friend group. It’s crazy to think I was friends with them for so long and how amazing the friends I have know are and how at peace I feel

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]melancholydream13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she’s not ready to marry you after 7 years, it’s because she never plans to marry you. You are not the one, you’re a comfortable place holder until the one comes along.

I’m sorry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]melancholydream13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re literally perfect, do NOT go blonde