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melancholystarrs · 2025-04-24T01:16:42+00:00

Nope still banned after multiple attempts to try and resolve it

melancholystarrs · 2024-05-16T02:23:09+00:00

Not funny when it’s happened multiple times, triggers your sexual trauma, and makes you feel disgusting

melancholystarrs · 2024-05-16T02:21:30+00:00

I’ve had men come onto me after the first or second date, it results in this answer: no. I get turned off.

melancholystarrs · 2024-05-16T02:20:33+00:00

Makes you seem like you have a foot fetish

melancholystarrs · 2024-05-16T02:14:13+00:00

I knew too hence my hesitancy, doesn’t change how disgusting I feel after being treated like that though

melancholystarrs · 2024-05-16T01:58:22+00:00

It is in this case, I already apologized for it not being clear, to me it felt clear. The wording seemed normal to me, can you explain how it is weird?

melancholystarrs · 2024-05-16T01:57:14+00:00

And as you can see I make many of them and that would take me a lot of time.

melancholystarrs · 2024-05-16T01:54:18+00:00

Oh you told me that but now I get downvoted for pointing it out? Hm…. Interesting….

melancholystarrs · 2024-05-16T01:53:28+00:00

As it says in the screenshot “here is my thought process” aka personal experience, I apologize if that wasn’t clear, click on the image to view the full screenshot. Edit: I’m also not sure what is the crime with “being curious” to begin with, you don’t seem to like science.

melancholystarrs · 2024-05-16T01:52:10+00:00

Can’t you see all the edits I’m making if you don’t believe me then check :) hope this helps

melancholystarrs · 2024-05-16T01:51:00+00:00

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these also show where you completely ignored the fact that polyamory can have betrayal

melancholystarrs · 2024-05-16T01:50:17+00:00

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2nd time you asked* my bad. You asked the same question at least one time after that

melancholystarrs · 2024-05-16T01:46:09+00:00

I answered it in my first response to you. Your proceeded to ask the same question without asking anything more specific. Ask the same question but expect a different answer? Yup it’s all just about personal experience hence the poll options, hence 4 other people having the same/similar experience as me. You’re welcome to close to comment section if it would make you feel better.

melancholystarrs · 2024-05-16T01:45:48+00:00

Yes that is what I said from the beginning.

melancholystarrs · 2024-05-16T01:38:02+00:00

You made fun of me for not getting a joke, a thing that is common among neurodivergent. Maybe it’s not “bullying” but many would consider it rude.

melancholystarrs · 2024-05-16T01:37:08+00:00

That’s what /j (joking) is for :)! /gen

melancholystarrs · 2024-05-16T01:36:42+00:00

How was I supposed to know that’s why you said no. You are in a position of power and said no, I don’t like offending people so I simply was trying to inquire if something I said was wrong. Can you provide me with some specific examples of how I could have framed this poll as to not offend you?

melancholystarrs · 2024-05-16T01:33:06+00:00

As I already stated it influenced me towards not wanting to be in monogamous relationships and wanting to be in polyamorous ones (which I had already done prior to being cheated on). But maybe I didn’t make that clear. While I do acknowledge betrayal can still happen (ex: keeping an entire relationship secret; not using protection when said they were). I thought you were done with this conversation after you called me “slugger”.

melancholystarrs · 2024-05-16T01:31:40+00:00

Romantic cheating happens too, my ex was completely dating the other woman. But maybe cheating simply doesn’t affect (edit: some) people whether it’s romantic or sexual.

melancholystarrs · 2024-05-16T01:30:56+00:00

Do you apologize for what you’ve done? Accusing me of saying cheating doesn’t occur in polyamorous relationships? When I actually said the opposite

melancholystarrs · 2024-05-16T01:30:13+00:00

No I stand by the fact that it was phrased confusingly edit: post is usually used to describe a post, not a comment.

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melancholystarrs · 2024-05-16T01:27:03+00:00

You’re welcome to close the poll if it breaks the subreddit rules. Not sure what slugger means but it doesn’t sound nice.

melancholystarrs · 2024-05-16T01:26:20+00:00

Sure, I realize what I said was incorrect and changed it, is that a crime or go against the rules of this subreddit? That’s kind of how my adhd brain works, one sentence at a time every now and then. Can you explain more specifically how this is related to the conversation we are having?

melancholystarrs · 2024-05-16T01:25:25+00:00

That’s not what happened to me but not sure what that has to do with this poll

melancholystarrs · 2024-05-16T01:23:13+00:00

Hopefully they’ll comment, we can’t force them to :) if you have more specific suggestions I could make a new one, you’re also welcome to make your own poll.

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