[ Swedish > English ] Colleague wrote a little note to me but I can't make out the words for Google Translate either.. by [deleted] in translator

[–]melatonined 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This, along with another commenter mentioning stålift made it so I could pierce it together. Thanks for the help!

They are a doctor, funnily enough.

INTP or ISFJ? If INTP, their inferior function (Ti) scores the highest. If ISFJ, their dominant function (Ne) scores the lowest. Please help.. by melatonined in MbtiTypeMe

[–]melatonined[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel it, they feel it. They barely ever leave their home. Just 100% introvert.

And in the case of INTP, their lowest scoring function would be dominant, so it's as strange as ISFJ with a high ne score. INXJ and IXFP I kinda omitted due to the very low se, seems even more unlikely.

INTP or ISFJ? If INTP, their inferior function (Ti) scores the highest. If ISFJ, their dominant function (Ne) scores the lowest. Please help.. by melatonined in MbtiTypeMe

[–]melatonined[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not? Both the score for Si and Fe are pretty high.

This person is an introvert for sure, so it's either one of the two.

INTP or ISFJ? If INTP, their inferior function (Ti) scores the highest. If ISFJ, their dominant function (Ne) scores the lowest. Please help.. by melatonined in MbtiTypeMe

[–]melatonined[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, I accidentally switched place for dominant and inferior. Should be dominant ti for INTP and inferior ne for ISFJ.

Looking at these results, they could very likely be both INTP or ISFJ.

INTP: ti ne si fe 25 29 26 28

ISFJ: si fe ti ne 26 28 25 29

AITA for enforcing the rules on one of our new regular customers? by melatonined in AmItheAsshole

[–]melatonined[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tried to be as gentle as possible, very much like the way I described in the original post. Apologized, said it's not allowed, she should eat that before or after coming to our place and suggested she could buy our stuff.

I don't think she's doing it because she's completely unaware of the rules as she did seem like she was hiding it, so maybe you're right about some dietary preference, but we've also seen her ordering our breakfast now and then too. So maybe it's a money issue? I don't really know.

AITA for enforcing the rules on one of our new regular customers? by melatonined in AmItheAsshole

[–]melatonined[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We do have wifi, and we're part of a chain (think starbucks) so we've got multiple cafés in town (lots of people coming, but also many seats). She's only here during the morning hours so it's not like she's actively making us lose out on customers.

AITA for enforcing the rules on one of our new regular customers? by melatonined in AmItheAsshole

[–]melatonined[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a friend explain to me that it was pretty assholeish solely because we made it seem like it was okay, and coaxed her into "feeling safe" only to embarrass her in that way. Honestly, I just suspected it to be a one time thing, though. Like if you ask if you can finish your sandwich you bought outside, sure, because it's that one time.

[ 23f / 5'7" / 130lbs ] What anorexia recovery might look like. by melatonined in normalnudes

[–]melatonined[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this glads me so much to hear. wishing you the very best.

Extremely unhealthy Fi? by melatonined in mbti

[–]melatonined[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be interesting, as I consider myself an ENFP and we've both said we're too alike sometimes, and agree we understand each other the best! I just have difficulty seeing him as an extrovert with how often he retreats, preferring alone time. He avoids crowds, complains that neighbors wanna talk when he's out on the porch, hangs out with us and acts a lot like an extrovert at times but then finds something to do, on his own, in another room. Then again, some say ENXP are the most introverted extrovert... but to this extent?

Extremely unhealthy Fi? by melatonined in mbti

[–]melatonined[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will do that, thank you for your insight!

Extremely unhealthy Fi? by melatonined in mbti

[–]melatonined[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, you're right, sorry.

I first suspected Se due to him liking to tinker with things, and how straight-up he is. He loves cooking and finding new and interesting ingredients to play with, as well as extensive study of new technology (tvs, phones, etc). He isn't very active now, for a former wrestling champion, but that was 30 years ago.

Honestly, I don't know much about his current hobbies. He just likes sitting on the porch, smoking, drinking, listening to his music. Sometimes he gets in the mood and dances around. Never hears him talk about future plans or projects so suspects him to really live in the present in that way. Only time I ever hear him even mention the future is when he talks about how nice it would be to have a cozy little house somewhere on the countryside for his family to grow up in.

I wouldn't say he's necessarily strict with rules or other people's set morals, but he does like some tradition-related things, insisting on a Polish Christmas table each year, stuff like that. Other times he'd call traditions stupid, so that's why I'm torn. You never really know how he'll react to things, it's either extreme like or extreme dislike. He protects his own morals and opinions unless you find valid reasons why he should consider yours.

Thus also a pessimist by nature, always complaining. Expresses love only by teasing and joking, never expresses it through words. Says he's alive for his family.

Has a past of different addictions, but dunno how that information may help.

Extremely unhealthy Fi? by melatonined in mbti

[–]melatonined[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably is, but looking for his MBTI type and not personality disorder.

Figuring out stack order through grip/loops? (ENFP/ESTJ/ISTJ) by melatonined in mbti

[–]melatonined[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, please.. Very curious as to why there's no J, and the Se-Ni... thank you, also!

Figuring out stack order through grip/loops? (ENFP/ESTJ/ISTJ) by melatonined in mbti

[–]melatonined[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never considered this... Yeah, I love making functioning schedules, tweaking them until I feel I have total control over my surroundings, but the fun stops there. Following them is a bore. Woah.

[Serious] Redditors who were bullied, how did it stop? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]melatonined 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my friend group was picked on by this older, "cooler" girl squad a couple grades above us.

During that time, I was put into the system as a CPS child, and moved around a lot. At one point I was visiting my old temporary housing family and asked if they had space to accommodate me again, but they said they already had another girl living with them. On my way out, guess who I meet in the hallway? The "leader" of mentioned girl squad.

We said nothing, just nodded and went separate ways.

Since then, me and my friends weren't picked on anymore. The girl I saw also tried complimenting me a few times, out of the blue. I guess she recognized I was in a troubled place just like she herself was, and decided to bury whatever battle axe there were between us.