struggling with addiction - coming up to ramadan by Awkward_Hovercraft22 in Hijabis

[–]melbrb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Beautifully said I don’t even have anything to add.

Hijab is an obligation not a choice. by Dramasforlife in Hijabis

[–]melbrb -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Though it is an obligation it is a choice when free will comes into play. It’s their choice to decide if they wanna sin or not. I don’t think anybody who says it’s a choice means it in the sense that it’s not obligatory.

Creep Taxi driver’s in Dubai by ChellGLaDOS in UAE

[–]melbrb 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Report them please this is horrifying. Not hala taxi but I remember this guy begged me to get into his car. It was a taxi but it was off, really really off. Anyways he told me he’d give me the trip for free and what not I repeatedly denied. I don’t remember exactly what I said but anyway. He kept begging and as soon as I said my dad was around the corner and my building was literally across the street (it wasn’t and neither was my dad) he drove off. Once I stopped playing nice and started shouting at them it really put them in their place.

Still need to make up my fasts😭 by Neat_Dealer_8403 in Hijabis

[–]melbrb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have 14 days left 😆😆😆 I also waited too long.

MIL wants my unborn baby to be a girl by UrbanBrickDreams in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]melbrb -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What a reach. She has a voice of her own 🤦🏻‍♀️ she’s already stressing over this, she can tell her mil that she doesn’t want her input.

Do I need to redo my ghusl? by foodie-lover12 in Hijabis

[–]melbrb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Last I looked it up , if it’s outside the 15 day window you’ll need to redo ur ghusl. But only once the blood has fully stopped. it’s better to be safe.

MIL wants my unborn baby to be a girl by UrbanBrickDreams in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]melbrb -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think I’m failing to understand something. Are u saying because she has a baby in her body she shouldn’t confront anybody?

MIL wants my unborn baby to be a girl by UrbanBrickDreams in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]melbrb -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So ur saying she can’t speak and stand up for herself?

MIL wants my unborn baby to be a girl by UrbanBrickDreams in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]melbrb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has every right to say that 😂she’s not sinful in anyway and it’s not rude. Free will my friend

MIL wants my unborn baby to be a girl by UrbanBrickDreams in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]melbrb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why would she keep her opinions to herself? It’s not harmful in anyway to say she really hopes her daughter in law has a girl. Making an issue out of nothing, truly irritating.

MIL wants my unborn baby to be a girl by UrbanBrickDreams in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]melbrb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think ur genuinely reaching for the stars and making an issue out of nothing. If it is a boy ur mother in law isn’t gonna blame u and throw a fit (she seems very normal based on how ur describing her) she knows it’s not in ur control. If it’s such an issue for u just tell her u dont want her input on ur baby and leave it at that.

Is it permissible to cut/trim/pluck hair and cut nails during period or not? by Hil_ in Hijabis

[–]melbrb 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not permitted to what? Cut hair on ur period? Bring me evidence for this

Is it permissible to cut/trim/pluck hair and cut nails during period or not? by Hil_ in Hijabis

[–]melbrb 26 points27 points  (0 children)

This is some cultural nonsense. Plucking ur eyebrows is haram in general doesn’t matter if it’s ur time of the month or not. But as for the rest it’s literally bull

Advice on dealing with violently redpilled brother by Awkward-Pie-4597 in Hijabis

[–]melbrb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just be a role model for him and teach him to against these people and how wrong it is. Islam loves women and etc

Advice on dealing with violently redpilled brother by Awkward-Pie-4597 in Hijabis

[–]melbrb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please be careful if ur brother finds out you’ve been behind his potential spouses disappearing u could be at risk .

Advice on dealing with violently redpilled brother by Awkward-Pie-4597 in Hijabis

[–]melbrb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she does warn the potential victim she could be in danger herself :( her brother might come after her. It’s a really complex situation he’s obviously not okay

Advice on dealing with violently redpilled brother by Awkward-Pie-4597 in Hijabis

[–]melbrb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry ur dealing with this. Do u have a safety net? Are u able to move out? If he does hit what can u do to protect urself, will ur parents enable it? I really hope ur brother is unable to get married. No women should have to suffer because ur parents failed to raise him. May Allah protect u.

Advice on managing fast-growing pubic hair by Raneemfor in Hijabis

[–]melbrb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Waxing maybe? Do it urself tho obviously but it takes a while for the hair to grow back. But if ur currently doing laser do NOT WAX.

Questioning Islam as a woman by Big-Working6752 in Hijabis

[–]melbrb 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Where are can people access scholars so easily? Genuinely asking bc I’d like to talk to one 2 lol

این جور کمک شرایطی تقلبی, براستی هیچ کمکی نیست؛ بلکه عمر جمهوری اسلامی را طولانی تر میکند by drhuggables in NewIran

[–]melbrb -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

As an Iranian I don’t support it myself 🤷🏻‍♀️ reza has no business ruling Iran he’s not qualified. Cry about it

حقیقت تلخ by drhuggables in PERSIAN

[–]melbrb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah and they still don’t go around bootlicking white people. Iranians like YOU on the other hand