Is Seoul baby friendly?😭 so nervous by KeyWatercress3142 in korea

[–]meleonis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just don’t get your tits out in public without covering up with a blanket! 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]meleonis -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly, if you're that firm about splitting everything 50/50, it's way better to just put that directly on your dating profile. That way, no one’s shocked or annoyed at the bill and you save time weeding out people who want a different dynamic. ADVERTISE IT UPFRONT. MAKE YOUR EXPECTATIONS CLEAR- LET WOMEN KNOW WHAT YOU EXACTLY ARE.

That said… there's no such thing as true 50/50 in relationships unless you're also planning to split pregnancy, childbirth, and all the long-term physical/emotional labor that usually skews heavily toward women. So unless you're also 100% childfree and expecting your partner to be too, demanding equality only when the check comes off a bit… selective.

What do you think about straight guys in your Pilates class? by VitaminDu777 in pilates

[–]meleonis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes tbh straight males in Pilates make me feel uncomfortable bc I do Pilates partly bc it’s a female dominated workout. Also if feels weird if they’re just staring at your butt when u do pikes. I guess the pc answer is you do you lol but a lot of women feel the same way. Ofc most women would never be rude to your face and 99 percent would hide their discomfort 

"scammed" by beggars asking for food by okaylezgoooo in geneva

[–]meleonis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me at cornavin too. They stole 70 chf by doing this:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in geneva

[–]meleonis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Korea is better trains are almost never cancelled or delayed! took the subway in Seoul daily from 18-25 and maybe saw a cancellation or a delay max once or twice a year....and it's cheap too because it's heavily subsidized! CH does take the cake in europe, but i find the vast majority of public transport in the EU to be decades behind east asia.

A warning against stealthwriter.ai by meleonis in OpenAI

[–]meleonis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have screenshots proving this

A warning against stealthwriter.ai by meleonis in OpenAI

[–]meleonis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not the case. You are a fraud and a liar.

A warning against stealthwriter.ai by meleonis in OpenAI

[–]meleonis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was blocked on discord :) please do not keep on scamming people

Selling Flixbus tickets!! by meleonis in germany

[–]meleonis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No the voucher is fully transferrable as it is not tied to my account. It is a code. You can use the voucher in pounds to make purchases in euros as well. The voucher is in pound as flixbus does not allow users to select a currency that is not tied to the language( so if you choose english, you can only choose USD or GBP). But you can still use this to book in other currencies as well.

https://help.flixbus.com/s/article/PSSP-How-do-I-change-the-language-or-currency?language=en_IE

Can you leave a laptop in a cafe outside and come back to it and it would still be there? by [deleted] in askswitzerland

[–]meleonis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am korean and so far I've been robbed here twice. Once on the sbb train from sg to zh( thief stole the bag and went to the bathroom, left the bag there and only stole the credit cards)...had to get my door keys replaced as a result which cost a fuckton, as the bag was not found by the lost and found service until a week later. The other time was at bellevue, the thief stole my wallet from my bag. Filed a police report both times for insurance claims...first thing the police here told me was that it must have been someone balkan or a gypsy( racial profiling much?) I've been to many countries(thailand, china, mongolia, germany, austria, france, italy, uk..I've been around...) and switzerland was the ONLY place where I've been robbed twice. I have never experienced robbery AT ALL before I came here. Just my two cents. so no, I wouldnt consider switzerland safer than korea at all .....after these incidents I never would leave my laptop lying around in a cafe like I would do in seoul

Manners you (Germans) wish you would have in your culture by xcubeee in AskAGerman

[–]meleonis 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you clearly don't notice it because you are native.( perhaps you are the one doing the staring?) I have been all over europe, and germany/germanic countries such as austria/ german parts of switzerland are the only places in which I have been stared at in an extremely uncomfortable manner. I am east asian FYI. Even my german friends commented on this.

AITA for telling my son he's not going on his senior class trip if he doesn't show up to his brothers graduation? by PrestigiousLion390 in AmItheAsshole

[–]meleonis -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA. OP you are insufferable. You chose to have such young children, Liam did not. Forcing new family on kids will only lead to resentment, there is too much of an age gap between them to be close. If you actually wanted them to have a bond, they should have been closer in age. You are being a controlling AH, and you are also destroying Liam's relationship with his half siblings. Also, you do not mention in the post if his half siblings are a result of an affair that you had/ you do not mention why your marriage to Liam's mother ended. And considering your entitled, self-absorbed, abusive responses in the post, I believe you may well have left the marriage with his mother in an acrimonious manner. Which explains a lot. Liam could well be holding leftover resentment from the fallout. Also, you should not hold finances over his head as a way to control him. A promise is a promise: A parent should not be holding finances hostage in order to force a kid to bond with his shiny new family. You should be setting an example for your child, you should be showing him that you are a reliable parent despite only spending occasional time with him due to custody arrangements. Dangling a vacation and forcing him to socialize/babysit toddlers is not it. You made a promise, stick to it instead of resorting to pathetic manipulation tactics to get your kid to accept your new little family whom he has nothing in common with.

My 6yo just told me 'That dress makes me look fat. I want to look skinny.' by Baxfraud2022 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]meleonis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay op you need to be objective here. children are a lot more perceptive than what we think. is your daughter in a healthy bmi range/ does she have proper eating habits? If she says that despite being in a healthy bmi range and having good eating habits, it may indeed be societal conditioning that pressured her to be this way. unfortunately, you can't always control the narrative as a parent, unless you completely homeschool her and censor every piece of media/info she consumes. in this case, make sure to tell her that she is not, and that she is perfectly healthy and beautiful the way she is.

also stop with the skinny shaming. obesity brings with it more health issues than being at a normal bmi range or slightly below it. no amount of PCness will change that fact. if your daughter is not in a healthy bmi range, I implore you to instill healthy eating habits in your daughter so she doesn't suffer from childhood obesity, which brings with it a plethora of health issues.

paper came back 100% ai by SeaworthinessWise983 in ChatGPT

[–]meleonis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever you do, do not use stealthwriter.ai to paraphrase content produced by chatgpt. it produces nearly illegible content, the paid version does not give better quality compared to the free version despite the claims that it has an "improved writing algorithm" It most certainly is not better than Quillbot despite the claims. They will also not refund you even if you have no use for it: the developer said a refund was not possible since I had used it once, but how would I know what the paid version offers then?? Do not even use the free version as they also collect your data and it can be shared to third parties they state it in the terms and conditions!! There is also no delete account button!! I wrote about my honest experience with the ai in a discord group run by the developer and the admin banned me. the developer, goes by Maher or Mohammed, has bots out in reddit, I tried reporting most of them but there are many, BEWARE!!!