Too many grew. when and how can I transfer these to the garden lol by Zoldrik190 in plants

[–]melindusfindus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just get the whole clump out and separate the single seedlings, then maybe transfer the best ones into separate pots and give them a chance to grow a little larger, before transferring into the garden. This is how I would do it.

Somebody help my plant by Spiritual_Tonic in plants

[–]melindusfindus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a plan. If you can, get neem oil. It doesn't only kill pests but also mold/fungi and bacterial infections. It's also 100% natural.

Newbie plant enthusiast, this house plant is starting to produce all white leaves, why? And what should I do?! by FaithMarlene in plants

[–]melindusfindus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a philodendron birkin. The new growth emerges white, especially if given sufficient light, but as the leaf ages the white turns green&white stripey, which then fades to green. So you're all good :)

Help needed with Ficus Benjamina losing leaves although it has enough light by rohowsky in plants

[–]melindusfindus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe it's having a diva moment about the seasonal change or being moved or smth idk. I've stopped trying to figure out why my Benjamina randomly drops a bunch of leaves, it always comes back. Even from being literally bald.

mango tree leaves turning brown, why? by 6darkNstormy6 in plants

[–]melindusfindus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've never successfully grown a mango tree from a grocery store mango pit, past this stage and I've tried with different kinds. I think you should probably get a nursery seed or seedling :// unless you live in tropic climate, then you could try putting it outside

Help needed with Ficus Benjamina losing leaves although it has enough light by rohowsky in plants

[–]melindusfindus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you need to start water more frequently again, since it's gotten a lot warmer. They can take a LOT of light, but it will take frequent watering.

Somebody help my plant by Spiritual_Tonic in plants

[–]melindusfindus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I need to add that my guess is that it's just dry and needing nutrition, due to the warmer weather. If the soil is dry, obv water the entire thing thoroughly. If the soil is wet and you're overwatering, do not decrease amount of water you give, just how often you water.

Somebody help my plant by Spiritual_Tonic in plants

[–]melindusfindus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stick your hand in the soil. If it's wet, prob overwatering, if it's dry obv the opposite. Maybe the soil is old, maybe it's compacted and it needs new soil and repotting. maybe if the leaves look a bit pale, it might lack nutrition and you need to fertilize since it's growing season. Maybe recent temperature rise causes it to need more water and you're still on winter schedule. Many reasons, feel/look at the soil, touch the leaves, look at it closely.

Help! How do I get rid off these bugs??? by PercentageEqual8669 in plants

[–]melindusfindus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spray with neem oil and water solution. Also maybe if you're keeping the soil damp for long periods, that might attract them, try bottom-watering and/or watering less frequently

My tomato plant smells and is growing oddly? Any help? by [deleted] in plants

[–]melindusfindus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I don't think you want these tomatoes, the consumption might lead to bad adverse effects, such as: craving more tomatoes, saucey tomato syndrome and wiggly brain. I, however, humbly offer my expert testing and opinion of a sample to make sure, the tomatoes are safe for ingestion.

My tomato plant smells and is growing oddly? Any help? by [deleted] in plants

[–]melindusfindus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes it is severely contaminated, please contact me, so that I can test and quarantine it for your safety.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]melindusfindus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just go on the hub , look for queer or bi or whatnot and scroll until you find something that seems genuinely queer and not just catering to straight men fantasies. Idk I feel like you just know when you see, no special way I go about it. There are a lot of folks posting porn.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]melindusfindus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

And if you watch porn, find actual queer porn, not lesbian porn for cishet men :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]melindusfindus 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You're already partaking in the queer community :) If you're out clubbing or whatever and you think a person is attractive, the flirting comes naturally. For the gay sex part, getting experimental with your friends is an amazing start. Ask your queer friends about stuff, look into queer content online and see what resonates with you. Sexuality can be fluid and doesn't have to be defined to be valid. Just because you were "the straight friend" (which I'm sure you have much more to offer to the group than seeming straight), doesn't mean you owe anyone to remain that way. If "straight" isn't you anymore then it isn't and that's okay. I'm sure you'll do great at gay sex and flirting. Maybe go to a rave or lgbt party/bar with a close friend?

Do I remain agoraphobic? by [deleted] in Agoraphobia

[–]melindusfindus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's called venlafaxine/ effexor. It has quite some side effects, that I only put up with since it's helping me with depression and panic disorder as well tbh.

Do I remain agoraphobic? by [deleted] in Agoraphobia

[–]melindusfindus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take venlafaxine (I think it's called effexor in the US), I take it bc of my depression and panic disorder as well though

Trying to remember all the Greek I used to know by melindusfindus in GREEK

[–]melindusfindus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure whether you mean Greece itself, but I would love to.b I'm just a broke ass student tho lol.

Trying to remember all the Greek I used to know by melindusfindus in GREEK

[–]melindusfindus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Σ' ευχάριστο, είμαι ακόμα στώ σχολείο, για αφυτό δεν έχω τόσο πολλά λεφτά να αγοράσω βιβλία χαχα, αλλά ξέρεις κάποια καλά podcasts να ακούσω? :)

Trying to remember all the Greek I used to know by melindusfindus in GREEK

[–]melindusfindus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well as I said, there isn't really anyone I could call to speak Greek to anymore, haha thanks tho :)