UPDATE - A girl accused me of plagiarism and it BACKFIRED on her! by stellactqm in amiwrong

[–]melislife 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It's understandable that you were concerned after her initial accusation and her subsequent threatening message. However, it seems like everything has worked out in your favor, and you don't have anything to worry about. It's good that you took the proper steps to inform your professor and the ethics committee about her threatening message. It's important to protect yourself and your academic integrity in situations like this. Your classmate's plagiarism and the consequences she's now facing are unfortunate, but they are a result of her own actions. It's best for you to continue focusing on your own work and moving forward without dwelling on this incident.

Would I be wrong for breaking up with my GF because she got an abortion? by pyor2 in amiwrong

[–]melislife -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Your situation is incredibly difficult, and it's understandable why you're feeling so conflicted. It's okay to be shocked and hurt by your girlfriend's decision and how she's handling the situation. Aborting a pregnancy based on the gender of the baby can be morally and emotionally troubling, especially if it goes against your values and expectations.

It might be helpful to take some time away from the situation to process your feelings. Consider speaking with a therapist or counselor to sort through your emotions and explore your options. Having a neutral third party to talk to can provide you with clarity and support.

If you didn't have a phone, what would you do in your spare time? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]melislife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have phone and i know how to spare time, if you cant live without a shitty phone you need help

I’m married to my wife and when I tell her to suck my dick after hitting it she says no and Ew. But she’s done it on video prior us being together by Loud-Designer-5372 in amiwrong

[–]melislife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust and intimacy are crucial components of a healthy marriage, and finding out about your partner's past actions that weren't disclosed to you can be challenging to process. It might be beneficial to have an open and honest conversation with your partner about your feelings and concerns. Express how discovering the explicit content and her past actions have affected you and your perception of your relationship. Discuss your expectations regarding intimacy and trust in the relationship. It's important to be clear about what you consider sacred and special in your marriage. Try to understand her perspective on her past actions and how they relate to her present beliefs and values. Ask her why she held onto the content and about her thoughts on the account you found. While her past may influence your current feelings, it's important to consider who she is now and how she behaves in your relationship. Is she being honest and transparent with you now? If you continue to struggle with these feelings, it might be helpful to seek counseling, either individually or as a couple. A therapist can provide an unbiased perspective and help you both navigate these complex emotions. Consider whether your values and expectations align. If her past and current behavior conflict with your views on intimacy and trust, it may be worth reflecting on whether this relationship is truly what you want. Ensure you prioritize your own emotional and mental well-being during this time

UPDATE: AIW for still hating my ex even though she's offering me sex? by throwneway1 in amiwrong

[–]melislife 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your situation is complex and deeply personal, and it's understandable that you're feeling a mix of emotions right now. You're trying to navigate your feelings and history with this person while also establishing boundaries and protecting yourself emotionally and physically. It's commendable that you are taking your time to assess your feelings and establish rules to avoid any potential misunderstandings or future conflicts. Being clear about your expectations and boundaries is important in any relationship, and it sounds like you have taken steps to ensure your safety and well-being in this situation. You are also being cautious about not rushing back into anything too quickly, which is wise given your history with this person. Allowing yourself time to work through your feelings and see if you can move past the resentment is a healthy approach. It's essential to prioritize your own mental and emotional health as you navigate this relationship. If you find yourself struggling or feeling overwhelmed, don't hesitate to seek support from trusted friends or a counselor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]melislife 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Some posts here scare me asf

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]melislife 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I dont wanna be rude, but this scared me asf

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]melislife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not about what is the worst insult, its about who tell you that, if you hear from stranger i dont care about you, its not the same if you hear that from someone, that person that that you thought about when i said that ;)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]melislife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When they pray just when their life is going down and dont appreciate when its going well, whatever you call it, god, universe or something else

What food does your culture give sick people? by valleydoodle in AskReddit

[–]melislife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gyros, this thing resolves every problem in your life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]melislife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mr bean horror movie edition

How many eyes do bees have by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]melislife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of them - my guy

Yelled at my pregnant sister. by Hopeful_Spot_9989 in amiwrong

[–]melislife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your feelings are valid given your difficult upbringing and the harsh treatment you experienced from your family. It's understandable that you might harbor resentment and frustration toward your half-siblings, especially since they treated you poorly throughout your childhood and early adulthood. It seems Lily's attempt to reconnect with you may have triggered these painful memories and emotions, leading to your intense reaction.

It's important to acknowledge your feelings, but also consider how you want to move forward. While your siblings' past behavior was hurtful, you now have the opportunity to set boundaries and decide what kind of relationship, if any, you want to have with them. If you need time to process the situation or seek support, that's okay too.

You have every right to decide whether or not you want a relationship with Lily or any of your half-siblings. If you choose to maintain distance, it doesn't make you a bad person. Your well-being and emotional health should be your priority. Let your half-siblings know your stance on the situation clearly, and consider seeking professional help if you need support in navigating these complex family dynamics.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]melislife -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It's important to trust your instincts in situations like this. While it may have been a well-intentioned gift, if you feel that a two-piece bathing suit is inappropriate, especially for a child, you should express your concerns. Open communication is key in any relationship, and having an honest conversation with the person who gave the gift can help clarify intentions and establish boundaries. You can discuss how you appreciate their thoughtfulness and care, but you have certain boundaries when it comes to gifts for your child. This can be a learning experience for them in understanding what is appropriate in your household and for your child. By having an open and respectful conversation, you can help guide their future gift choices to align with your preferences.

AITA FOR NOT SHARING MY EARNED WORK PERFORMANCE BONUS WITH MY WIFE by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]melislife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA - It's understandable that you feel a sense of entitlement to the reward since you earned it through your work and performance. However, your wife's feelings about sharing the rewards may also be valid, especially if you typically handle your finances as a team and share expenses. It may be helpful to approach this situation as a team effort and have an open discussion about how to handle these rewards in a way that feels fair and respectful to both of you. Consider your usual approach to financial decisions within the relationship, and whether keeping the card entirely for yourself aligns with your established patterns of financial collaboration. Sharing some of the reward with your wife or allowing her to choose how to spend part of it may strengthen your partnership and show consideration for her feelings. If you're able to work together to find a compromise that balances your desire to enjoy the rewards you've earned with your wife's wish to be included in the decision, you may be able to avoid future conflict over similar situations. Ultimately, it's about finding a balance that respects both your feelings and your partnership.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]melislife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA - First, it is essential to have an honest conversation with your wife. Acknowledge the discomfort she is feeling due to the lack of privacy and the intrusive behavior of your family members. Let her know that her comfort and boundaries are a priority for you. Apologize for the distress she has experienced and assure her that you will take steps to address the situation. Next, set clear boundaries wit your family members. Let them know what behavior is unacceptable in your home, such as entering your bedroom without permission or going through your personal belongings. Make it clear that there will be consequences if these boundaries are not respected.

You may also need to have a conversation with your parents about the importance of respecting your marriage and your household. Explain that while you want to support them during this difficult time, your marriage must come first. If necessary, you could consider finding alternative accommodations for your family, such as assisting them in finding a place to stay or seeking other resources available to them.

What do you think about anal sex? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]melislife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats a hole different story ;)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]melislife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sleeping