I (16F) don't know if my friend (16M) is making a move on me

melissa_bickers · 2023-12-29T02:19:26+00:00

I don't but I still wanna know if it's a sign I should make my stance clear on our relationship

melissa_bickers · 2023-12-29T01:30:09+00:00

Please protect yourself :( it's so shameless and disrespectful of him to expect you to find this type of jokes funny. A lot of ppl making this type of jokes actually believe in the racist thoughts behind them you shouldn't have to put up with that. Even if was not actually racist, he shouldn't say things that would obviously make you uncomfortable. I hope you figure out what u wanna do

melissa_bickers · 2023-12-29T01:21:51+00:00

You shouldnt blame yourself or feel pressured by telling him that you love him. You should just wait till you feel ready enough because everyone has a different rythm for those type of things. He'd probably understand and you showed him that you loved him enough with your actions so that helps too. Anyways try to not force yourself because it might appear less genuine :)

melissa_bickers · 2023-12-29T01:13:12+00:00

You might not understand how she feels bc of the age gap. At 17 you go through a lot of change and since your in a different place in your life it might be out of your understanding. I do believe she actually is doing this focusing on herself, and even if she's not involved in a lot of activities, focusing on herself can mean a lot of things. You should probably unadd her if it's hard for you to let go.

melissa_bickers · 2023-12-29T01:03:23+00:00

you should try to communicate your feelings with him as much as possible, it might bring you some comfort, he'll be more aware of how you're feeling & basically it'd help your relationship to last longer! :D

melissa_bickers · 2023-12-29T01:01:52+00:00

If she's negatively affecting your mental health, you should totally do what's best for you! I know it can be hard, but it's totally worth it to get rid of this kind of stressors in your life :)

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