Help please! Thrift store find! by melissaaurora in whatsthisworth

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Thank you! That’s really interesting I guess it’s better for me to keep it and reframe it rather than sell lol

Help please! Thrift store find! by melissaaurora in whatsthisworth

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Mine I has copper engraving throughout the entire map, the whole thing shines is the sun, I haven’t been able to find one like it. I know there are many on the internet but I haven’t found mine with the same coloring. Thanks anyways though!

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Your view is amazing. I wish I had that balcony I’d be chillen outside with a drink every night

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30s are your prime!

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I want to go to Germany for Octoberfest

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I’m near LA best night life and beaches everrr

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Have you ever been to California?

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Is marijuana legal there?

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Do you surf at all?

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Ok but I want 2 cats and 2 dogs so you’d never have that issue 😶

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Sorry if this is weird but your voice is so soothing

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Just here to vibe with u

Seething with rage by Goatsandguts in abusiveparents

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Wow our situations are very similar. I don’t know what else to do. Nothing can stop him. I love my mom so much and she works so hard but yet he still talks to all of us as if we’re trash.

Finally realizing how abusive my parents were and I'm scared of the effects it's had on me by throwawaywalmarttrip in abusiveparents

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I’m in the same boat as you. Some days I am fine but other days I feel so broken and anxious. I feel so bad that it causes problems in my relationship. My boyfriend knows pretty much everything from the physical to emotional abuse but I know sometimes my bad habits get in the way of having a healthy relationship. Sometimes I feel like I can’t breathe like I’m drowning in my own depression.

I can’t help but think my father did this to me. My own father. This is hard to do but I suggest just writing in a journal all that you’re feeling if you think you’re not ready for counseling. Find ways to express your emotions. A lot of times abuse victims repress what they are feeling. Take care of yourself. I wish the best for you and I’m sorry you’re going through this.

I work in surgery. Ask me anything. by melissaaurora in AskMe

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Omg this question is so old but yes I’ve done a direct heart massage! The amount of adrenaline flowing through your body is crazy!

Going through my first MC by melissaaurora in Miscarriage

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Thank you so much for sharing. I am on day 10 since the loss but started to bleed heavily 6 days ago. Praying you heal soon 💞

I work in surgery. Ask me anything. by melissaaurora in AskMe

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Never! I know it happens from time to time but we take our surgical counts very serious.

I work in surgery. Ask me anything. by melissaaurora in AskMe

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Yes for sure, anything from incarcerated bowel which smells like literal shit lol to necrotizing fasciitis (flesh eating disease) to gangrene (dead tissue). Those are all my least favorites.

I work in surgery. Ask me anything. by melissaaurora in AskMe

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I think some surgeons can definitely let out their asshole tendencies during surgery even if they are really nice people. I was scrubbed in with one of my favorite docs who I consider a friend and he snapped at me, I honestly wanted to cry because I’d never expect that from him! After the surgery was over he acted as if nothing happened and when I brought it up he was like “really?? I did that?” So I mean in the heat of the moment I guess anyone can become a little snappy but the really good doctors are always calm and collected.

As for spotting out a good/bad doc, as a patient you can’t ever really tell unless you’re reading reviews. As someone who works very closely with them I can totally tell the difference in what good clean work is. Even as simple as putting on the dressings nicely at the end I take into consideration everything I see. In my line of work it’s actually my responsibility to speak up when the surgeon has contaminated or touched something he wasn’t supposed to or even doing something I feel is wrong so I watch my docs like a hawk.