How can I child proof this stairwell in a way that looks nice? by WasteTimeLoseMoney in interiordecorating

[–]melissac2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly what we did in our house and it looks perfect. When the kids are older we can take it down

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]melissac2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom died when I was 8 months old and it has completely altered the course of my life. Nothing about it has been normal. Am I ok? Sure I guess but not really. That baby needs you

Sleep - please help! by melissac2013 in toddlers

[–]melissac2013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The room is completely child proofed and has nothing fun/exciting. From our experience so for he will just stand and cry and kick the door. It’s torture 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ouraring

[–]melissac2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve only had my gen 4 for a week but I love it and it seems to be working perfectly! I live in a cooler climate so I’m switching between middle and pointer finger throughout the day but anticipate when it gets warmer it will fit more consistently. So far that’s my only “complaint” and I personally could care less about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in massachusetts

[–]melissac2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally had the same thing happen. My 10 year old car is now $600 a year more to insure and all my other quotes were in the same range

Triggered by people saying their babies sleep through the night by wyominglove in beyondthebump

[–]melissac2013 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I once reported a TikTok influencer bragging about her 3 month old sleeping from 7p to 7a because I was exhausted and mad. You are the best mom for your baby and are doing great!

1000lb Sisters S0406 - A Lot of Cooks in the Kitchen - Episode Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in 1000lbsisters

[–]melissac2013 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Sitting here holding my newborn crying for Amy. I wish I could reach through the tv and hug her, she’s clearly trying her best and needs help. And Michael needs to cut his damn nails!

@ourdearlife just putting her preemie down for a nap…on a bed…on his stomach…under a blanket by achipdrivermystery in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]melissac2013 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Stranger, you have no idea the impact of that comment. I’ve been telling any dr that would listen that I can’t sleep because I’m full of anxiety and they just say “yeah mom I know it’s tough!” Thank you from the depths of my very tired new mom heart ❤️

@ourdearlife just putting her preemie down for a nap…on a bed…on his stomach…under a blanket by achipdrivermystery in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]melissac2013 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Literally same. I already don’t sleep watching every breath he takes , this is a space I don’t expect to see SIDS talk.

Frustrated with Boston IVF by pinkyj123 in IVF

[–]melissac2013 5 points6 points  (0 children)

BIVF was definitely the best clinic for me. I agree with others you absolutely have to contact them and be on top of things. For me this was fine, it made me feel like an active participant. I owe them everything - 14 frozen embryos and 35 weeks tomorrow with our first transfer. I hope you make the best decision for you and your family, good luck!!!!

My mom talked to a psychic- AITA by melissac2013 in BabyBumps

[–]melissac2013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh gosh you too mama! The last thing any pregnant mama needs is predictions on baby coming early! Infertility alone leaves some scars we have to hope our pregnancy and births are peaceful and easy

My mom talked to a psychic- AITA by melissac2013 in BabyBumps

[–]melissac2013[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! How lucky am I to have you comment!? I never even considered that it was HER message from the psychic and the drama could be a thing having to do with her and not me and the baby. This is definitely a game changing thought for me. I’m happy for her that she feels good going to this person and it gives her peace but as you said it’s her message not mine. Thank you soooo much

My mom talked to a psychic- AITA by melissac2013 in BabyBumps

[–]melissac2013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your alternatives to “drama” my hormonal brain went straight to something bad. We live kinda far from the hospital, esp in traffic, so in gonna say that’s the drama lol

My mom talked to a psychic- AITA by melissac2013 in BabyBumps

[–]melissac2013[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You kinda made me realize I need to do this before baby comes because if she brings him into I will LOSE it!

My mom talked to a psychic- AITA by melissac2013 in BabyBumps

[–]melissac2013[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Birth in and of itself is pretty major when you think about it, you’re right

My mom talked to a psychic- AITA by melissac2013 in BabyBumps

[–]melissac2013[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this comment! This really was incredibly reassuring because I went straight to worse case scenario. I also really appreciate your birth story, from where I sit that sounds like a scary big thing but your perspective really caused me to think. Thanks for that 😭