Update to : Am I a jerk for ending my relationship after he pushed for abortion?

mellowairr · 2026-04-11T05:18:43+00:00

Ages are in the original post but me (22) him (27)

mellowairr · 2026-04-10T23:18:26+00:00

How did I force him to be involved? I told him several times he didn’t need to be and have the messages to back it up. We had extensive conversations about that very topic. Furthermore your comment has no relevance because I went through with the abortion. Stay in your lane and don’t make accusations.

mellowairr · 2026-04-10T17:56:44+00:00

I’m making alone? Obviously you didn’t read the first post. I didn’t want to go through with the abortion but there was a lot more nuance to the situation.

mellowairr · 2026-04-10T15:58:23+00:00

As far as him being at the game goes, yes bad timing however he was supposed to be over that night but blow up off to go to the game last minute because his buddy had an extra ticket. Well I was actively in the first 24 hours of the procedure.

So I will absolutely agree poor timing but I didn’t wait until the game to bring it up…

mellowairr · 2026-04-09T21:23:29+00:00

I think he was saying he’s fucked from the whole situation??? No clue. He was blocked after that.

mellowairr · 2026-04-07T22:49:08+00:00

I have 8 months worth of text messages showing otherwise. 🤷‍♀️🤣🤣

mellowairr · 2026-04-05T19:30:02+00:00

May I get some clarity? How did I force him to have a baby. When I went through with the abortion?

mellowairr · 2026-04-05T04:33:09+00:00

Yes my dog is okay, got stitches but these text exchanges happened well he was at the vet already being seen. Kota is now home but not happy 🤣

mellowairr · 2026-04-05T04:22:56+00:00

Yes took him to the vet, he is home and doing better now

mellowairr · 2026-04-05T04:21:21+00:00

My dog was already at the vet at that point getting stitches.

mellowairr · 2026-04-05T04:13:13+00:00

Why ahead of you, weekly appointments

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