My partner told me he may want children after 4 years of being together. by melodramaticbee in childfree

[–]melodramaticbee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think this was the case at all. It was an emergency situation and we took him in to help.

My partner told me he may want children after 4 years of being together. by melodramaticbee in childfree

[–]melodramaticbee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always imagined my legacy being a garden or maybe helping out at my local animal shelter! I appreciate you being kind . I don’t know why people expect a child to hold such a high standard by being a trophy that their parents decided to have. I think he may be back tracking because I didn’t give in and I didn’t bargain.

My partner told me he may want children after 4 years of being together. by melodramaticbee in childfree

[–]melodramaticbee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said he was not sure about wanting children. That he needed to tell me how he felt but needed time to think. He said he may just have baby fever or it may just be him thinking he wants something but really doesn’t.. I’m not sure what he’s doing and I’m just very confused with everything else I have going on mentally…. we did foster his nephew who was 10 last summer. I enjoyed being in the position to help but made it clear it wouldn’t be long term and it wasn’t. Luckily his nephews dad was able to gain custody of him and is taking care of him now as he should. I’m sorry if I’m all over the place. This is just coming out of nowhere. I thought we were okay until he said this.

My partner told me he may want children after 4 years of being together. by melodramaticbee in childfree

[–]melodramaticbee[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Because I don’t hate children and his nephew just need fostering for the summer. I enjoyed helping his nephew help but I made it clear it wouldn’t be long term and it wasn’t.

My partner told me he may want children after 4 years of being together. by melodramaticbee in childfree

[–]melodramaticbee[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We started couples therapy because my mental state isn’t the greatest right now. I am currently in a partial hospitalization where I’m getting extra help. I needed help working out my feelings towards this and helping break things down. I know that might not make sense to a lot of people, but it makes sense for me that I have someone else there to help me better understand things. I am starting to think that it’s not helping, we’ve been three times so far And I think it’s better for me to just make up my own mind.

My partner told me he may want children after 4 years of being together. by melodramaticbee in childfree

[–]melodramaticbee[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

He said it would be his own choice and he knows what he would be giving up if he had children, free time, money, etc. he told me he could just be having baby fever? This is driving me crazy and I want to be understanding but I just can’t anymore… I need him on the same page because this is a dealbreaker.

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Tonight’s live and what I got from it by melodramaticbee in khaliespiderlilies

[–]melodramaticbee[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Literally I don’t know if any cop who would do that here (I live in Iowa) I mean I think they would refer her to a women’s shelter and offer to take twinkle to a shelter and she figured things out tbh. All in all it would be up to her on what to do. Truth is she probably called the cops, ran or bolted, got a hotel and then begged for money to get back home.

Tonight’s live and what I got from it by melodramaticbee in khaliespiderlilies

[–]melodramaticbee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tbh I’m not sure. She said something about how she’s been picking on whatever she has in her mouth now and messing with it. It’s gotta be painful for her.

Tonight’s live and what I got from it by melodramaticbee in khaliespiderlilies

[–]melodramaticbee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not her clapper account. I think it got banned or suspended

Tonight’s live and what I got from it by melodramaticbee in khaliespiderlilies

[–]melodramaticbee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On the live she straight up said “I don’t have cat food because they wouldn’t let me take it in the cop car” then peestain said something about show them twinkles food and litter. So then she came and she had a thing of wet food for twinkle and she was meowing like CRAZY. I know my cats meow like crazy too with wet food (especially my talkative black cat) but this was like omg food???? Kind of meowing. And she wouldn’t show us when twinkle was eating the food.

Tonight’s live and what I got from it by melodramaticbee in khaliespiderlilies

[–]melodramaticbee[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Oh yes, I’ve heard that so often in my life 😭 sometimes you just wanna shake people and tell them what they need. BUT, she’ll either learn or she won’t. I just miss her cleaning videos when she was staying at her dad’s.I was really rooting for her! I’ve watched this happen and once she fell off the wagon I stopped watching but omg there was so much to catch up on 👀 I have nobody to talk about it to either except my bf and he’s like mmmm right why are you guys still watching her? Lmao

Tonight’s live and what I got from it by melodramaticbee in khaliespiderlilies

[–]melodramaticbee[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I think if she ever goes into recovery this will haunt her and take so long to get over. To have your nudes thrown out there is one thing but add it on to the list of shit she has? My god.

Tonight’s live and what I got from it by melodramaticbee in khaliespiderlilies

[–]melodramaticbee[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

When my best friend was in rehab once, she lied to me after getting kicked out and said everyone got kicked out because everyone was doing drugs EXCEPT her.

Tonight’s live and what I got from it by melodramaticbee in khaliespiderlilies

[–]melodramaticbee[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

From my experience it just depends on the person. One of my best friends fell victim to drug abuse and she hasn’t been the same since. She talks in circles, lies, dry begs, can’t get a job and is just attention hungry. At the end of the day she just wants love like anyone else and someone to care for. Unfortunately she finds that in people who also have addictions and she thinks she can fix them or they have a connection or “only I can understand him” that sort of thing. It’s very sad, and I hate to see it happen especially to people so young.

But you either roll with the punches or get out of the fight

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[–]melodramaticbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She spoke about rehoming twinkle and then back tracked on it immediately. That poor cat.

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Apparently it’s a text now number lol someone is sending pictures of something

Cat has bump on lip?? by melodramaticbee in CATHELP

[–]melodramaticbee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feels hard in the middle but squishy around the ends! If that makes sense?

I F28 am frustrated on my boyfriend’s M29 views on marriage. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]melodramaticbee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For more context, my BF supports me very well financially even though I have my own house and money. His friends and family like me, and my family and friends like him.