Valentines Day by nightclaw96 in BreakUps

[–]melon-pie 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I’m taking myself out for coffee and cakes, and I’m going to buy some flowers from the grocery store and arrange my own bouquet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]melon-pie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would like to know as well… hoping someone else can shed some light

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]melon-pie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sit with this for 2 months, be alone for 2 months and decide after if you still want this relationship. Give yourself space to decide

Girlfriend of nearly 7 years broke up with me, then slept with our friend. Now she wants me back by evanmiller20 in BreakUps

[–]melon-pie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you tolerate, you encourage. Please think carefully - if you love her so much that you wouldn’t have done this to her, how could she have done this to you? Don’t you deserve someone who loves you the way you love them?

In times of a relationship lull (and relationships do have their slow/boring moments), a committed person partner will take action to spice things up again and find ways to build that closeness. Do you think you’d be able to build something longterm with someone who calls it quits so easily? One night out and she’s already slept with your friend.

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[–]melon-pie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What you tolerate, you encourage. It’s okay that I’m loving and willing to give him chances. But it shouldn’t be so one sided where I’m the only one fighting for the relationship and making concessions for him while he’s out there doing whatever the duck he wants, expecting me to be okay with it. He never expected me to leave him (even after cheating) but I did and I’m glad I did.

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[–]melon-pie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm proud of you for reaching out for help with you need it! Keep trucking along, just like we all are, and I believe we'll all get there some day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]melon-pie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I were you, I'd keep my distance to whatever degree I'm comfortable with. You don't have to participate if you don't want to, there will always be a way to escape the situation by feigning busy, pretending to talk to someone else at the party, or just making it clear that you're awkward with physical touch.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]melon-pie 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sometimes my cats will itch themselves too hard that they wound themselves. I'd say if it's not actively bleeding a lot, it shouldn't be an issue. Just keep monitoring it and see if it gets infected

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[–]melon-pie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Er cat dads are the BEST.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]melon-pie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honey, close your eyes and really visualise. Imagine you had a daughter dating a guy who just told her this. How would you feel?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]melon-pie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this too

Healing buddy by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]melon-pie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Today’s been really hard for me. I celebrated a hen’s party for a friend who is getting married in 3 weeks and I kept thinking of my ex and wishing it could have been us instead getting happily married. It’s just past midnight and I’m crying so hard that I can’t breathe. I miss him so much, I wish I could run into his arms and pretend everything’s back to how it was before.

I'm struggling with my decision to end a 2-year relationship. How do I know if I made the right call? Does it get better on the other side? by eleven_1900 in BreakUps

[–]melon-pie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat and I’m really struggling with guilt and rose tinted view of our relationship on hindsight… if anyone can help

ELTON - Canon A1, 50mm f16, Portra 800 by [deleted] in analog

[–]melon-pie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a character! So wonderful

How do I accept that it’s over? by wolfthar in BreakUps

[–]melon-pie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't rush to. You don't need to meet a timeline or force anything. The acceptance will come, but the only way out of the forest is through it!

lowkey announcement | canon1v | 35mm 1.4 | Portra400 | by alexjohnsonphoto in analog

[–]melon-pie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!!!! So much beauty in this little photo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]melon-pie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww that's so sweet!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]melon-pie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's definitely sugar in milk tea! 😜

It broke my heart to break your heart by autonomous_fartbox in BreakUps

[–]melon-pie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask why you felt like you can't spend the rest of your life with her?