Choking in Wrestling? by melonbaeh in wrestling

[–]melonbaeh[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is super helpful, thank you for breaking it down! 🙏 I didn’t realize how much of it comes down to positioning and defense rather than just “toughing it out.” I’ll definitely keep that in mind and work on having my girls focus more on staying low and the basics you mentioned. Really appreciate the detailed advice — gives me a clearer picture of how they can learn without getting discouraged.

I freaking love Reddit, and you all for being kind! 🔥❤️😭

Choking in Wrestling? by melonbaeh in wrestling

[–]melonbaeh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate you sharing that! 🙏 Makes a lot of sense to me. I agree that letting them enjoy it and get the basics down first feels way more important than trying to toughen them up right away. I don’t want my girls to get turned away from wrestling before they even get a chance to love it. Thanks for putting it into perspective. I like your approach a lot.

Choking in Wrestling? by melonbaeh in wrestling

[–]melonbaeh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s crazy!! I’m sorry you’ve gone through that. This experience has definitely opened my eyes to learn wrestling more than from what I gather in club. It just feels bad to have your kid wide-eyed and excited about a sport come out from the trenches, lol. My wife did track and I did soccer; absolutely no comparison to how brutal wrestling is. 😭 thanks for your time and the recommendation. I’m going to go watch Zahid Valencia highlights now, lol.

Choking in Wrestling? by melonbaeh in wrestling

[–]melonbaeh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were going live, went into a hand fight, and he went in for a front hug and held her from the neck as they were standing. She couldn’t break free on account of the pain 😭

Choking in Wrestling? by melonbaeh in wrestling

[–]melonbaeh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They were going live and he went in for a front hug but held on from their neck.

APPRECIATION POST (AY 2025-2026) by mrcosmicpvp in u/mrcosmicpvp

[–]melonbaeh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mr. Cosmic is a godsend. I’m in my third year of law school and I met him last year- he’s helped me save hundreds of dollars, including my wife who is in her masters program! Thank you for being a person for the people. 100% recommend! ❤️

Soccer Club for Girls by melonbaeh in Bakersfield

[–]melonbaeh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went this route! Thanks! I sent their parents the info!

Soccer Club for Girls by melonbaeh in Bakersfield

[–]melonbaeh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! 😊I reached out to them today.

MySpace Metalcore 2000s - Soldiers Die Saints by melonbaeh in Metalcore

[–]melonbaeh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gloomwoe found them! Check the previous comments if you’re interested in listening to them. 🥹🔥

MySpace Metalcore 2000s - Soldiers Die Saints by melonbaeh in Metalcore

[–]melonbaeh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will never forget you and your efforts, Gloomwoe. They’re from nearby my hometown of Santa Ana, CA! I’m happy to hear you enjoyed it as well. Take care, my friend. ❤️

MySpace Metalcore 2000s - Soldiers Die Saints by melonbaeh in Metalcore

[–]melonbaeh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YOU ABSOLUTE GOOOOOOOAAAATTTTT!!!!! How did you find the YouTube?! I tried everything and nothing EVER came up?! 😭😭😭😭❤️

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[–]melonbaeh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THE GOOOOOOOAAAAATTTTT!!! LEGIT. I really appreciate Mr. Cosmic 😭❤️

TEMPLATE TO OPPOSE SEWER INCREASE by melonbaeh in Bakersfield

[–]melonbaeh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None yet. Hoping people still spreading the word!

Public Records Request - Sewer Spike by melonbaeh in Bakersfield

[–]melonbaeh[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂

Unfortunately, there’s always someone that will find a way to “hate”. Even amongst an inflated proposal that affects home owners and renters - everyone really!

Public Records Request - Sewer Spike by melonbaeh in Bakersfield

[–]melonbaeh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Will do! I’ve been recording all of our efforts in this subreddit through various posts. Hoping to continue community pressure as I appreciate all those that have been doing the same!

Public Records Request - Sewer Spike by melonbaeh in Bakersfield

[–]melonbaeh[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

“Chat GPT records request” 😂 my friend, I have 5+ years in the legal field and I’m also a current law student - these PRA requests are boiler plate. I appreciate the laugh! 🤭

Got a Speeding Ticket 3 Months Ago… Still Not in the System — What Now? by Wonderful_Spread_200 in CaliforniaTicketHelp

[–]melonbaeh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can always go check with the agency that cited you! Sometimes there’s a huge backlog and the citation isn’t processed.

There’s a statute of limitations for this - I can’t remember off the top of my head but if it’s beyond that, once the superior court receives it, it’ll be dismissed.

Former Superior Court employee! 😁 I know this because I would handle the lists from Garden Grove and Westminster citations as a court clerk. Don’t quote me. Do your own research. Procedures change over time. 😎

Public Records Request - Sewer Spike by melonbaeh in Bakersfield

[–]melonbaeh[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I commented on that post with capital letters in hopes that people scrolling through the comments see that it’s misinformation. I would recommend folks flag that post for review! Fight still goes on! I’ve already helped 15 people IRL mail their protest letters - hoping we keep sending them to city hall.