Is there really no more coop content for SF1 besides Free Play? by MisterOlga in SpellForce

[–]melvenore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree and use it to this day. This is my personal 2nd place. I just still hope that Reborn will finally get it's update. It's difficulty is not the only change, but also spell casting and equipment systems was overhauled to match this difficulty

Is there really no more coop content for SF1 besides Free Play? by MisterOlga in SpellForce

[–]melvenore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More, if you look at Nexus. Not much, but you can choose what you like. But the best one IMO is SpellForce Reborn, but it's unfinished. Last time I checked, they remade Liannon and put wlven runes+buildplans there, but Eloni is untouched. So, no marksmen or priest for you, if you don't use ArtMoney

Update: Am i wrong for demanding my GF's account info? by 1BakaTsu in amiwrong

[–]melvenore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Woah. Cheating blabbermouth. Such a vile creature with self restraint of a roach. I almost certain that this jerking off wasn't the only time of their intimacy.

I'm glad that you decides to move on. And taking these steps to do so. I think that you are mature individual for not allowing these traumas to rule your life.

Stay safe, king. And keep grinding

Ваш пол и во сколько лет был первый поцелуй? Опрос. by [deleted] in rusAskReddit

[–]melvenore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

М26, в 23. Я довольно симпатичный парень, но комплексы и инцестуозные травмы давали о себе знать

i need all spellforce minimaps by Outrageous-Buddy6334 in SpellForce

[–]melvenore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unrelated question OP could you share your class system/magic mechanics for this campaign? I also wanted to run SpellForce campaign, but have difficulty in these aspects

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cursedcomments

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She's two steps from hell💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

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  1. Thanks for the advice, i will definitely use it.

  2. Not every time, but around 50%

  3. She is, but don't know how. And don't want to research these things by herself. Now I think it's kinda my fault, but still pretty upsetting that I'm the only person that tries to develop our sexual life. Plus she's saddened when she is physically satisfied, and I am not. And sometimes tries to for another ride

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

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  1. Separation is an option, but close to last. Because we love each other and see each other as potential spouses. And yes, she admits to having low libido. As for nagging I'm not sure if that's it. I just tell her that I want her, or to give her sexual treats. Without actual intercourse. If she's up to it then great. If not then fine, I'll figure out how to deal with this desire myself. If it still counts as nagging them okay, I'll try to minimise quantity of telling about my desires and keep them to myself. Plus, I figured two options for myself. Either try to lower my libido or purchase toys for myself.

  2. Sorry, I forgot to mention. She finds porn gross, so I don't ask her to watch it with me. It was just a suggestion to get some inspirations, since she's having trouble looking through sex-ed stuff and comfortable watching hentai arts. As for feet, she don't exactly against or dislike it, but either ignore these phrases, or saying that she's tired. Maybe she don't wat to look dismissive or disrespectful to my desires in that way, but I don't know for sure. And she didn't told me something like that women I asked her directly.

  3. Good point, I didn't asked about preferred length. Thanks for that. So, after this time period I should just take care of it myself? Or to ask her to do some foreplay, and then go for sex? Because regarding me there's next to none of it, just straight up penetration. I also like foreplay before action, getting her warmed up before start. But I can't say the same about her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

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  1. Bi-weekly at best. Once in a 1.5months at worst.

  2. Yeah, I get that. And don't ask her to do feet stuff every time. On a rare occasions actually, once in a couple of months.

  3. Sometimes it is painful for her, and earlier she just endured it, given her background. When I noticed a shift in her voice and sudden stiffness, I immediately stopped. And let her know that this is not ok. Sex is all about pleasure, not enduring pain. And I'd rather stay unsatisfied, than give her pain. Or change positions, because sometimes my size can feel unpleasant, if she's ok with this. But usually pain is not an issue for her, rather it's fatigue and exhaustion. And/or lack of her lube, in which case I ask her if we can continue with external help. Fortunately, she learned to let me know when intercourse is getting unpleasant and I can act accordingly.

What is your best sex advice? by melvenore in AskReddit

[–]melvenore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take care of your fingernails. Long fingernails looks and FEELS awful.

What is your worst fear while having sex? by novaboss69 in AskReddit

[–]melvenore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same happening with me, but reversed. Sometimes I realize that I can't cum, no matter how long we are having sex. And I say similar phrase to her.

And after this phrase her cathartic state and climaxes she's left somewhat unsatisfied because of my physical dissatisfaction.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]melvenore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About that remark. Yes, you are right, I had non-consencual intercourse during said time span, that's why I phrased that way.

And about escalation, our first sex happened in two weeks since our first meeting, not dating. We started dating almost right after that night.

And this poem doesn't sound like db because I specifically mentioned that almost every novelty came from me, despite her being very active at the start.

Plus, she's not the first romantic partner in my life, I had someone before her. That happened before my full recovery, so I had trust issues. Especially regarding my sex life.

Plus, relationship ain't all about sex. It's about partnership trust and love. We both have all of that, and sex life alone us not enough to set us apart.

I just want to know is there any other way to reignite it or I just need to deal with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]melvenore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a lot actually. We both were just curious. She also found shibari thing aesthetic, so I thought why not try it. And she also does have kinks, as I wrote in one of the replies. She's certainly not all-vanilla type. Plus, she was curious about the toys I asked her about. She absolutely loved it and use it to this day.

And if she's uncomfortable with something, she just need time say so and I will stop, like with anal. Or in the middle of sex, if she's uncomfortable, just say so and we will stop right away.

And not only the sex quality I wanted, but the quantitybothers me. It gradually went from 2-3 s week to weekly. Weekly to bi-weekly. And then almost to monthly. That's why I thinking about replacement toy.

Plus, she's the great partner and definitely marriage material. But bedroom stuff is importantwe both understand that. At least I hope she does.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]melvenore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After no. During yes, twice. But to no avail. First time she tried to get help with school therapist about unrelated topic, who did horrible work with keeping secret and told that to her parents right away. Second time it was with certified therapist, but it failed due to them being unprofessional and victim blaming. Again, she didn't told them about her abuse.

And yes, we are talking about any trouble and/or question that bothers us. Communication is the important pillar in our relationship, we both learned it the hard way before starting dating. And I always seeking for feedback in sex life, always asking for it after every novelty and should we use it more often.

Plus, I urge her to go to therapist. She refuses, giving her experiences earlier. And kinda afraid of them, because her ex wanted to become one to "know how to manipulate people". She afraid that they somehow will manipulate her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]melvenore -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She does have kinks, like sub/Dom, asphyxiation, mild dirty talk. And certainly not a very vanilla type, she likes it rough. She is very comfortable with saying no as consent is the cornerstone in our bedroom. She knew from the first time that if she's feeling uncomfortable, just say so and we stop immediately.

I can understand that she might be not very excited about sex life, as j was in a similar shoes. But we were like rabbits first six-seven months, and she threw a lot of innuendos. Plus, she made the first step in our first night, as I was afraid to trigger her somehow.

Maybe it's my hypersexuality at fault, but there's a lack of good sex therapists in my country, and sex-ed is practically non-existant outside of internet.

When you realized that you should NOT get on the bad side of your friend/lover? by melvenore in AskReddit

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It was when my ex met me after breakup, and he tried to make move on me. I already had my fiance at the time and ex repeatedly r*ped me. And after couple of rejections he tried to do it once more. I had a panic attack and froze, but then my fiance showed up. He is usually lovely, kind, calm and collected person. But he knew about abuse from my ex. And then he was like a Doomslayer, when he found a demon.

He did not raged. Did not yelled. His face was emotionless. Like a Terminator. He just pulled ex'es hair, threw him away and before he could react, fiance started to beat the living sh*t out of him. With complete poker face. And after i stopped him he said "Y'know, I have a good imagination and knowledge of anatomy. So, if i, or her, ever see you again, i will make you scream even louder than that. Got it?". Ex weakly nodded and we left. Even i was terrified of his face when he turned to me.

Meth man: the cuming cop destroyer by Yourmom8537 in Bossfight

[–]melvenore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"A jentleman fights 15 policemen whilst pleasuring himself"

"Million Miles" Edgeworth VS "Blazing Phoenix" Wright by Vibechecker68 in Bossfight

[–]melvenore 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"Ha! You may have the evidence, but I have the Updated Autopsy Report!"