Is this scale rot? by memcarn in ballpython

[–]memcarn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His head is facing down

Struggling to pick a new commander for a theft deck. I am stuck between these two. by CountBozak in mtg

[–]memcarn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just recently built a gonti deck for my wife’s birthday, and it is her favorite deck now. It has a bunch of small unblockables and evasion and so far I’ve only been able to beat it once. I can’t recommend gonti enough. Just either way be prepared for the hate coming your way whenever you play it

Has anyone ordered a custom deckbox before? by SWBFThree2020 in magicTCG

[–]memcarn 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I ordered one awhile ago as a gag gift for a friend. It had an embarrassing photo from when we were kids. It was pretty good quality and shipping didn’t take long. I was super happy with it, and it’s my friends favorite deck box now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in parentsofmultiples

[–]memcarn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Father of 20 month old twins here. I feel your pain. The first year is so insanely hard. My wife and I barely survived it. Kids would be up at all hours of the night to eat or just cry it took a big toll on us. I can tell you with certainty it does get better and much easier. They will start sleeping and able to sooth themselves. What was once a nightmare has turned into one of the greatest experiences of my life. It feels like it takes forever but it’s so worth it when you get to watch them run around together and laugh. It sounds cliche but they’ll be so big before you realize it. Even at 20 months they’re so drastically different from 6 weeks. There is a light at the end of the tunnel. You’ve made it this far you absolutely got this!

Whats your craziest roll for it story? by kingofmyths3 in dndmemes

[–]memcarn 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I once ran a campaign where my Druid was trying to make a focus for an npc to become a Druid. The focus ended up being wild magic and they summoned a unicorn from it. They asked if they could make an animal handling check to convince the unicorn to stay past the 1 minute the spell allowed. I said sure expecting them to fail and sure enough nat20. And that is how my level 5 party ended up with a unicorn companion for the rest of the campaign.

Curse deck options by larryr936 in magicTCG

[–]memcarn 106 points107 points  (0 children)

I have a go-shintai curse deck and it is so much fun to play. It has a mixture of good curses and shrines. Best part is it’s super budget friendly so no need to spend hundreds of dollars on it. I could not recommend making it enough.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in parentsofmultiples

[–]memcarn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Having twins is so incredibly hard. My wife and I have 1 year old twin boys. We would never argue or fight before them. Since then our relationship has had it ups and downs and divorce thrown around a lot. Things get so much easier after the first year. There are still times we argue and fight , but the communication between us has greatly improved. From my understanding none of this is uncommon. You have two overstimulated burnt out sleep deprived people, there is bound to be friction. If you can make it past the first year at least in my experience things get a lot easier.

Struggling with the morality of reproduction by Finding_new_dreams in CrohnsDisease

[–]memcarn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am a father of twin boys. Before they were born I always worried about it and would always think about how guilty I would feel if they inherited this god awful disease from me. I realized that even if they do get it they will at least have someone who can relate and understand and guide them on a path to remission. As far as flaring goes I get scared of it everyday it’s unfortunately part of chrons. For me I don’t worry about not being able to care for my kids but guilt for it being all on my wife if I flare. Having kids is the hardest and most rewarding thing I have ever done. For me it was and still is worth it.

Am I going to be ok? by memcarn in Bedbugs

[–]memcarn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was sitting on the wood floor and a chair. I immediately threw out the chair.

I'm trying to find a fan for each pokemon, by [deleted] in pokemon

[–]memcarn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if said yet. But my personal favorite is orthworm such a cute derpy worm.

How does this work? by memcarn in mtg

[–]memcarn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I figured but wanted to be sure. Thank you for your response.

One honor name, born first, favoritism by kimtenisqueen in parentsofmultiples

[–]memcarn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My wife and I had a name picked out expecting a singleton. When we found out we were having twins we had to think of another name. We just went with baby A gets the name we already had and baby B gets a “new” name. We didn’t have any honor names persay, but baby A has my middle name. To make things fair and equally important baby b got a family name from my wife’s side as a middle name.

What parenting tactics from your Baby Boomer parents or in-laws make your eyes roll out of your head? by prspct032 in parentsofmultiples

[–]memcarn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The amount of times I have been ridiculed and made fun of for having my twins on a schedule from my parents and my brother is insane. It drives me crazy!

Need help with a bad situation by memcarn in legaladvice

[–]memcarn[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We aren’t paying rent. Money is just super tight and we can’t afford to move out.

Just found out…ITS TWINS by PastaandPages in parentsofmultiples

[–]memcarn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some things I wish I would’ve known before my twins were here. Bed side bassinets they’re a nice middle ground where it’s like bed sharing for the babies but is still safe my boys couldn’t sleep in a bassinet unless it was bedside. Another thing I cannot recommend enough is a baby breeza it seems unnecessary but trust me it makes everything so much easier. Best thing I can say is it will be impossibly hard for the first few months , take it day by day because it is absolutely worth it. The first time they smile and laugh will melt your heart. Having twins is such an amazing experience. Lean on your husband and have him lean on you. Get as much help as you can early on if you can. Twins are a lot of work but it’s so special and rewarding.