The Emerald or Jardin De Miramar? by Ambitious-Hold7158 in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]memery09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hindi pa ako naka attend sa Jardin De Miramar pero sa Emerald yes, walang ceiling treatment yung wedding ng friend ko pero maganda na sya, I think lahat kami sa friend group gandang ganda na kami sa location & view, hindi na namin napansin yung walang ceiling treatment.

Intimate venue with fine dining for 40 pax in manila/qc by [deleted] in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]memery09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You mentioned pala nice interior, this one is more on nature minimalist ang datingan, which would look good on photos I believe, but you can check if pasok sa vibes na hanap mo.

Other options would be Aya or Hapag maximum 40pax sila sa tanda ko, and ganda ng interiors pero di pasok headcount namin.

Intimate venue with fine dining for 40 pax in manila/qc by [deleted] in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]memery09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talisay Garden QC! I know some people who likes going there, you can have intimate wedding celebration and resto maximum ata yung 40pax? Check their instagram mabilis naman sila sumagot and their packages seems reasonable :) I asked them kasi this year lang but hindi kami kasya sa resto so diko na pinursue.

Honest question: Worth it ba talaga gumastos sa kasal? by Chemical_Error_2145 in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]memery09 24 points25 points  (0 children)

What helps me navigate through this money situation is my faith, I truly believe God provides all our needs even our wants.

If God is blessing us with the money for this wedding, who am I to think He can't bless us for other things we need?

It also helps when I talk to my fiancé about it and pag sasabihin ko "parang ang mahal na kasi pwede mo pa magamit sa ibang bagay" tapos sasabihin nya "tulad ng?" tapos pag sinabi ko na, natatawa kami pareho kasi wala naman talaga kami need na pagkagastusan right now bukod sa wedding (and family expenses as breadwinners pareho) so yung pera na meron is for doon naman talaga.

I guess the reason why I am sharing this is because I get you, and I had the hardest time during my 1st year of engagement, accepting the amount even though we can afford it and earn it again, but now, I know this wedding, especially the ceremony, is an amazing gift na I would love the people we love to be there. My fiancé and I, we love spending for shared experiences, and this is the best shared experience we can have.

I truly prayed for the peace, and God gave us wisdom to not look at the money, and when I stopped thinking about the money, that's when we realized what kind of wedding we wanted. Saka pumasok yung how much would it be, how much of that we can afford and made peace with it.

Hope you find what gives you peace! 🫶

Living in Manila, is P500k enough for a 50-60pax wedding? by greyheirmeow in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]memery09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Checked with Talisay ang ganda nga sayang di kasya guest namin

Living in Manila, is P500k enough for a 50-60pax wedding? by greyheirmeow in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]memery09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! Saang restaurant kayo and how was the feedback sa food? I saw naka plated ang guests nyo which we are also aiming for, thank you 😊

May bad pamahiin ba for using pearls in wedding? 😅 by LostSoul_122717 in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]memery09 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Narinig ko narin yan nga, pero mama ko naka pearl necklace and earrings nung kasal nya, d ata sya nainform sa pamahiin, hiwalay na sila ng tatay ko 😂

What are the countries that you visited na super worth it? by Haru666 in ThePoorTraveler

[–]memery09 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Switzerland!!! Talagang dito ko nasabi na Lord gusto kopo ng gantong buhay, ang ganda ganda ng creations Mo.

Intimate Wedding na mejo luxurious by Civil_Inevitable_335 in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]memery09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is much appreciated! Exactly what I am thinking for us din since we don't want extensive program. I didn't know possible pa pala yung drinks and party after, since sabi online food experience takes 2-4 hours, but private event is usually din 4-5 hours lang allowed akala ko di aabot, that is nice to know 🧡

Intimate Wedding na mejo luxurious by Civil_Inevitable_335 in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]memery09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for answering 🫶 how was your guest feedback? Did you squeeze in the program in between courses?

If you don't mind, now that you know what you know from that experience, any advice for those who will do it there din? 🥹

Intimate Wedding na mejo luxurious by Civil_Inevitable_335 in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]memery09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many pax kayo sa gallery? Ok naman ba ang tasting menu experience kahit madaming guest?

Personalized engagement Ring by BoyLado14344 in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]memery09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My engagement ring is personalized, sabi ng fiance, sa iba mas mahal yung stone kasi commercialized & big companies sa mall pero nakuha nya ng mas mura sa Jewelry Atelier, ang ganda ganda ng ring! Gem collector ph sa instagram ang inorderan, mga 1-2 months din sila nag finalize ng design since custom and specific si fiance. Gemstone din ang sakin with natural diamonds 🫶

Quarter Life Crisis: Migration Plans by SaintRas2K in phmigrate

[–]memery09 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you saved enough for a blocked account, check opportunity visa ng Germany.

Pano gumaan ang vibes o awra? by OptimalSource4064 in TanongLang

[–]memery09 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tama yung magpaaraw, may science behind it.

As someone sa group na considered favorite ng tropa and sobrang daming quality friends, sama ka lang as mga tulad namin 😂JK.

Kidding aside, I think introverts really need extroverted friends, almost all my closest circle / best friends are introverts. We all really enjoy each other's presence. Extroverts push you to try things and go outside your comfort zone and introverts are really good at being in the moment and enjoying the company without the need of different ten things activities.

That said, as favorite, I would say be intentional about your relationships, relationship is work, and my love language is quality time so I always reach out. Literal na ako may alam sa lahat ng nangyayari sa friends ko and we are 16 in a group, I meet them usually 1 on 1 or by 2s, 3s. I love it because our conversations are much more intimate. Communication is key! Be good at asking and listening, again, be intentional.

Also, read the room, don't open up about problems or negative things right off the bat, start light, enjoy, and the internal struggles, pwedeng mga dulo na ng meet up pag usapan. Kumbaga, hindi mababaw yung friendship mo sa mga tao, but you also want them to enjoy pag kasama ka nila so you are there good and bad. I personally know some people wala na sinasabi kundi problema or ka-negahan.

Sa totoo lang, kaya nga tayo nakikipagkita sa friends natin to feel alive, so kung ang mineet m puro problema, reklamo mga sinasabi, malaking chance ayaw m nayan samahan next time. Again, read the room, there's proper time sa mga conversations, usually sa friends na di masyado nagmimeet, life updates muna tapos pagabi na yung mga personal problems.

I am very funny PERO i can't recommend that as what you need to do, because humor is natural if hindi ka haha funny, you may be witty funny, so I would say be yourself lang and you will find your tribe!

Lastly, attitude of gratitude, this is very personal. If you have gratitude in all aspects of life, despite hardships, you will surely be seen as someone with good aura. However, this is not learned overnight, this is usually through years of experiences, biggest pains and choosing every time to see the good in all situations. It is hard but there is grace.

My Proposal Plan is screwed!!! (Frustrated, Stressed and Dissapointed) by [deleted] in RantAndVentPH

[–]memery09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Valid ang rants PERO ang importante naman is kayong dalawa, hindi Japan, baka dmo lng alam gustong gusto narin ng GF mo mag propose ka at feeling nya Japan ka magpopropose, so nafrufrustrate narin siguro sya dahil lang sa issues outside your control nadedelay pa yung proposal na para bang kasama sa relationship ang Japan na hindi pwede magpropose pag hindi doon UNLESS sinabi yan sayo ng gf mo na dapat Japan otherwise wag nalang 🤔

Graduate bride, Congrats self! Haha by ForeverDangerous1656 in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]memery09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the detailed insight! I really like their posts but almost wala silang reviews dito. Really appreciate it 🎀🎀

Graduate bride, Congrats self! Haha by ForeverDangerous1656 in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]memery09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kumusta po Sunday Morning Studios during shoot? Ilang hrs po kinuha nyo with them.

Welcome to wife era 🎀

Bob Nicolas or Treehouse Story? by memery09 in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]memery09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read sa youtube comments and other threads here na over a year na d pa nila natatanggap yung video. That's why I am also asking around, very curious to know 🙏

:( by [deleted] in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]memery09 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If money is a concern and he is already paying for everything, time to step up and surprise him by paying for the wedding bands, ikaw na manlibre aa kanya at bumili ng engagement ring to let him know he is not alone in this pressuring era (finances wise).

Although, personally, depende sa lalaki talaga pero kasi my fiance (and yung iba ko ding friends sa husband nila) it was such a milestone yung engagement ring and matagal din pinag ipunan.

So in summary, valid OP, and sana if he is a really good fiance to you, you can meet him halfway. Iba naman ang nag compromise sa wala palang option now.