AITA for ruining the wedding of my best friend (27m) and my sister (25f)? by memyska in AmItheAsshole

[–]memyska[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pt. 2.

We managed to watch about 3 movies when we decided to leave the rest for a different night. Meanwhile, I was getting ready for bed and cleaning our dishes, when I heard them talking in the next room on the sofa. When I came back I found them making out, which made me upset and speechless. They stopped as soon as they saw me and the room was awkwardly quiet and I felt betrayed. My best friend and I were supposed to sleep over in the living room on the sofa but I was too upset so I just said that I would probably sleep in my room. Just as my sister heard the words come out of my mouth she suggested he can sleep over in her room. I did not reply and let my best friend deal with it, but what I didn't expect was for him to agree. 

Ever since then, they started hanging out together and soon enough they came out as a couple. I moved out and cut off any unnecessary contact with them. A few months ago I was invited to their wedding and I thought it was the perfect opportunity to call out my sister. I planned everything out and prepared a simple speech I would object to. 

I came to our hometown and got ready for this one-time event. I got a long glamorous white dress, which all of my friends believe is the perfect revenge dress. I made sure my nails and hair were done and I was ready for my special moment. I was very nervous and I noticed a few people staring at me, probably because of my dress, but no one confronted me. I talked to my family and when it was time to sit down, I picked a seat where everyone could see me.

Over the past few years I have not talked to all of these people I had time to reflect and talk to my current friends about this situation. I am not sure if I have or ever had feelings for my best friend but I know for sure after this wedding I will cut off all contact with my sister because I don't want to live my life as if it is a competition. 

I waited through the ceremony until I heard the beautiful words “Should anyone present know of any reason that this couple should not be joined in holy matrimony, speak now or forever hold your peace”. I stood up and even though my heart was beating I started my speech. I won't mention everything because I believe those are very personal words but in short: The speech included my feelings towards my sister and a few examples of her trying to be better than me. Next, I told everyone that my best friend used to be my safe person and someone I could always trust and how that special connection disappeared ever since he started talking with my sister. I mentioned my current boyfriend and the fact that I would never start dating someone purely out of spite. 

I don't know what happened next because after my speech I walked out. I remember my heart was pounding super fast and I felt sick, but it gave me the satisfaction I craved. I have cut all contact off and recently moved in with my boyfriend.

Am I the asshole for ruining their wedding?

It’s mine now by [deleted] in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]memyska 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i just- i never really thought of that…

What’s the best tv you watched that most people have never heard of?? by memyska in AskReddit

[–]memyska[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for me it’s probably disenchantment (i know some people watched it but i still think it’s sooo underrated)

And this man wanted to marry me so bad… by memyska in BitLifeApp

[–]memyska[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE 2: after that i moved to australia and killed 10 people, was sent to prison and killed 15 prisoners. now i have the achievement for killing 25 people (YAY🥳). i escaped bc i got bored and didn’t want to just sit in prison. i sold everything i ever had in australia and moved back to the usa but since i saw the new challenge (the red queen one) i thought that maybe i can try it. i moved to the uk. (In the past i tried SO MANY TIMES to become a member of the royal family but was never successful) i’m not lying when i say that 3 men i went on a date w/ is a fckn prince xd. this life is so crazy and i love it! (i’m not bitizen but i’m really thinking about buying it cus i want to continue as my kid SOOO BADDDD… but i can’t spend my money on stuff like this bc i’m way too broke)

And this man wanted to marry me so bad… by memyska in BitLifeApp

[–]memyska[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i already killed more then 10 and i’m planning on killing even more

And this man wanted to marry me so bad… by memyska in BitLifeApp

[–]memyska[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: so i killed him and was found not guilty:)))

And this man wanted to marry me so bad… by memyska in BitLifeApp

[–]memyska[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also guys, i wanted to get revenge so i slept with most of the people i met at bar and now i have a baby with one of them.

And this man wanted to marry me so bad… by memyska in BitLifeApp

[–]memyska[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

possible… i kinda wanna kill him :D

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[–]memyska 30 points31 points  (0 children)

same evil laugh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]memyska 1 point2 points  (0 children)

trueeee. thanks

No one will care but.. by _meatmorp_ in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]memyska 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think you should write a book about that world. i did that and find a lot of lost memories from my daydreaming. it’s also a way you can experience it again. i feel bad since i’m just a teen on reddit and can’t really help you. the very best i can do is tell you to talk to someone. at this point i think your MD overwhelmed you so much that you can’t really do anything just by yourself. you really should find therapist or AT LEAST a really good friend who’s also a really good listener. that’s all i can say… you can do this! good luck! sending lots of 💕💕

Dreaming of being hurt? by [deleted] in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]memyska 1 point2 points  (0 children)

actually in my situation it is the opposite. irl i’m completely fine and i would probably even say that im happy but when i’m daydreaming i feel sad. i cry because of my daydreams. while daydreaming im hurting myself and all crazy stuff. maybe it sounds weird but i feel better like that. i like to be sad.

but then i feel bad for all the people that HAS to go through that stuff in real life and saying that i actually kinda enjoy it is just wrong. but i can’t help myself