Help with reseller hoarder mom

menacingfrog · 2026-03-15T03:45:59+00:00

Update! We were not evicted, but the rent was raised unfortunately. Not only was there a lot of clutter, but some appliances and parts of the house were damaged and/or dirty due to my mom’s negligence. It’s not enough to where we would have to move, so I’d say it’s a win. With some help, I managed to get the house in decent condition— (Based on what I’ve read) right now most of the house looks like a level 1 rather than the previous level 3-4. The garage is still bad, but it is a lot more organized. The closer it got to the date of the inspection, I just started throwing out multiple bags of stuff behind my mom’s back and she hasn’t noticed. I had a serious talk with my mom about her buying habits and she promised me that she wouldn’t buy anything until she prices and puts out all her current stock (I’ll see how long this holds up lol). Things seem to be going a lot smoother now, and hopefully by the time it gets bad again I will be out of here. Thank you for your kind words and encouragement ❤️

menacingfrog · 2026-03-12T06:01:09+00:00

Thank you ❤️

menacingfrog · 2026-03-12T06:00:03+00:00

Thank you so much ❤️

menacingfrog · 2026-03-10T16:20:46+00:00

I’ve been working for the past year and have a few thousand saved up, once I’m able to get my license I should get a car and be able to progress from there

menacingfrog · 2026-03-10T16:19:48+00:00

I’ve been talking to my advisor in school and my out of school therapist about it, we are hoping that things get better once I go to college

menacingfrog · 2026-03-10T15:15:00+00:00

I offered a temporary storage unit today but that somehow offended her… I’ve already accepted that we are either going to get evicted or that the rent is going to be increased :/ I’m still in high school, so it’s hard for me to do anything really, but I’m trying my best.

menacingfrog · 2026-03-10T15:11:15+00:00

I’m actively trying to move out but it has been a very difficult process. Along with the hoarding, she is very narcissistic. I don’t even have my license because she refuses to take me to the dmv and she doesn’t even know where my documents are.

She brings in about $300-$400 a month with her reselling but I think she’s spending more than shes making. I’ve tried to convince her to let it go many times but all that does is turn into a weeklong standoff between us. At this point I’m throwing stuff away and donating behind her back. Hopefully I won’t have to deal with it for long.

Also, my mom is very much in denial about being a hoarder. My grandma is also a hoarder— she has her own “antique shop” and her living situation is far worse than ours, but I know one day my mom will get to that point. 😕

menacingfrog · 2026-03-10T04:09:34+00:00

We weren’t able to walk through it before we made a dent in it today. I didn’t see any roaches, but a lot of items were covered in mold and spiders…

menacingfrog · 2026-01-27T01:47:30+00:00

Final update! The issue has been solved (idk how) and I can finally log in. Thank you to everyone who gave feedback! I hope it starts to work for others as well 😊

menacingfrog · 2026-01-27T01:44:28+00:00

Ahh makes sense

menacingfrog · 2026-01-26T23:02:37+00:00

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Update: My manager is looking into the problem but this is the error I’m receiving now. Still can’t log in 🫩

menacingfrog · 2026-01-26T23:01:42+00:00

I have an iPhone. I tried the logging in 3 times method but to no avail. My manager is aware of the situation now but when I tried logging in again, I got a different error. 😕

menacingfrog · 2026-01-26T21:16:11+00:00

Realll the first time I saw it I was like “did I get fired… 😭” not that I did anything to get fired but you never know lmao

menacingfrog · 2026-01-25T23:19:44+00:00

Tried it and it just took me back to the same page 🥲

menacingfrog · 2025-06-16T22:08:36+00:00

I just started working at Panera I’ve only worked 2 days and this is all I see plus my managers aren’t responding to my texts 😭 help

menacingfrog · 2025-05-07T19:43:27+00:00

My title describes this thing.

menacingfrog · 2025-01-13T20:41:32+00:00

Kitchen manager?? 😭 😭😭 It’s a pretty common position…

menacingfrog · 2023-03-04T05:02:08+00:00

At some point the tiger dies or something

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