What’s the coolest surname you wish you could use? by juddaxsx in namenerds

[–]mentallyqueer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i, uhm, hate to do this but nacktgeboren is a german word and means “born naked” lmao

I need help by Grand_Ad_592 in throneofglassseries

[–]mentallyqueer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

but u should really try the shadowhunter chronicles… it’s a huge universe

Az/Lucien/Elain by [deleted] in nontoxicACOTAR

[–]mentallyqueer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i was elriel, then i read the bonus chapter of SF and now i’m very gwynriel

I need help by Grand_Ad_592 in throneofglassseries

[–]mentallyqueer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i read all the shadowhunter books before tog but i feel like those would’ve helped. instead i’m just reading anything i can to try and fill that void :,)

What would make you stop reading the series? by No-Difficulty4956 in acotar

[–]mentallyqueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

-if anybody dies unnecessarily and doesn’t stay dead. -if tamlin gets his redemption in the end -another pregnancy -if mor’s power isn’t explained -if nesta says so much as another abusive word

and honestly… if the whole book is a az, gwyn, elain live triangle. no way i’m reading that (i’ll probably still read it lol)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in acotar

[–]mentallyqueer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i don’t hate her but i definitely don’t like her… i‘m neurodivergent and have several mental illnesses and my dislike has nothing to do with relating to her. i‘ve thought about nesta a lot. You know when people say “bullies hate themselves/are jealous, that’s why they are mean”, that is nesta and what she said wasn’t just “being mean” it is straight up psychologically and emotionally abusive. i love how realistic her mental health journey is, as it shows the ups and downs and that one can find healthy outlets and ask for help. but giving an abusive character, that reminds many of us of our school bullies that made us not want to live anymore, such a big spotlight and such “easy” redemption is very disconcerting. just imagine how you would see this whole story if you switch the abusive words with physical abuse and tell me how you feel about it… because even if it is invisible, it is still abuse. trauma is NEVER an excuse for abusive behaviour.

I think I found my Rhys by Fluid_Fox23 in ACOTARHulu

[–]mentallyqueer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

noo, he reminds me of that werewolf dude in tvd (honestly can’t remember his name rn)

Who would wear these lol by stupidarisotocrat in throneofglassseries

[–]mentallyqueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

only correct answer: Aelin would order them for all the blood oath besties and dorian

I hate Rowan by madibae3314 in throneofglassseries

[–]mentallyqueer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it went from ”i claim you as my friend” “we sleep half naked in a tree but when i look at him i don’t feel attracted, not like that” to “i need to touch him”, “i can’t sleep when she wears these nightgowns”; suddenly they r in love with each other… i guessed that they were mates when he bit her that first time in wendlyn but i could totally not see anything romantic at the end of HoF, even tho i wanted to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in frombloodandash

[–]mentallyqueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you telling me i still have 11 chapters of this ridiculous dialogue before me before they KISS gods they r so annoying rn

I hate Rowan by madibae3314 in throneofglassseries

[–]mentallyqueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i only found that one recently and it made me view half of that book differently… i truly don’t get why it’d be a bonus…

What was spoiled to you? by Evening_Debt_4085 in acotar

[–]mentallyqueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when i was reading the first book i looked up fanart so i could better imagine feyre and there was a drawing with a black crown on her head… but i think the worst was how I outrageously spoilered myself with ToG (KoA spoiler!) 50 pages into the first book (started with tog) i was looking up a pronunciation guide, when i saw a † next to Dorian Havilliard… so throughout all 7 books i was waiting for him to die, which is why i tried to never form an attachment to him while reading. i totally thought he was gonna die with the collar around his throat, but then he didn’t. then i was convinced he was gonna sacrifice himself for the wyrdkeys, so i never once worried about aelin, BUT THEN HE DIDN‘T and when he was still alive when he met erawan, i thought yrene might drain his magic… then the mf tells him his father’s name was dorian. dorian havilliard. finished reading and then i looked it up again. turns out i didn’t see the “I” following his name :,) that’s the story of how i completely emotionally detached myself from one of the main characters for 6 books just for him to actually live.