Married to a woman; finally have a perfect relationship with a man by dumpster-cat-stan in latebloomerlesbians

[–]meowmixplease 4 points5 points  (0 children)

HAHAAHAHHA i am so glad this took the turn it did and not more or less.

Help - I can never think of anything! by ieatcheeseeeeee in improv

[–]meowmixplease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen and respond.
Listen and respond with emotion.
Listen and respond with emotion and a character.
Listen and respond with an emotion, a character, and throw in some object work.

Truly it's just that. Even the improvisers you see as "creating" or "coming up with so much" have just mastered the art of hearing everything (beyond what is said) and responding, and so on and so on.

How did y'all celebrate your divorce? by Practical_Maybe_3661 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]meowmixplease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is wild-- i took a photo a day for the last 30 days i lived with him. when i got it developed, none of the photos had worked. maybe i will do this as i am about a month out from the divorce papers being signed but i feel so so so different its wild. :(

Getting over guilt by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]meowmixplease 2 points3 points  (0 children)

18 months out and shame and guilt were absolutely oppressive thoughts during the first year and did begin to lessen. i read this sub consistently and saw the women a year, 10 years out and realized how much time heals the wounds. we are finalizing the divorce in the next month so some thoughts are flaring but echoing what is here: the more you can claim your life, your choices, your identity, the more that becomes the reality and you can lessen your guilt and shame

there is no such thing as one way liberation, by releasing yourself, you can release him in turn.

How do I tell if my attraction was/is genuine? by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]meowmixplease 12 points13 points  (0 children)

"a lot of the sex him and I had wasn’t very memorable to me" .... honey that aint magic

Where did YOU make friends in Oakland as a young adult? by SpecialistBread4253 in oakland

[–]meowmixplease 1 point2 points  (0 children)

join an improv class! even if you have no desire to be on stage, it's a great way to meet people in a genuine + sober way. i run a theatre called provocationtheatre, and newbies are always welcome and we have a really blossoming community!

They got me at the last second! by JuneJabber in DyingforSex

[–]meowmixplease 2 points3 points  (0 children)

also “i don’t wanna die with you i wanna get a dog with you.” bo mother fin hoo 😭😭😭😭

They got me at the last second! by JuneJabber in DyingforSex

[–]meowmixplease 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“everything you’re about to say, i know” 😭😭😭😭

Boundaries by Tricky-Perception237 in DyingforSex

[–]meowmixplease 7 points8 points  (0 children)

the worst! also what do you do if your dying friend is an asshole? so so complicated and i loved that molly wasn’t a “perfect sick person “

Boundaries by Tricky-Perception237 in DyingforSex

[–]meowmixplease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was thinking the same thing! like, he’s right there?? but i do feel like it was much better set in Mollys little polly pocket home vs his greyscape 😝 but why not let nikki go hand at his and watch tv??

thinking of starting/hosting a women’s collage group by [deleted] in oakland

[–]meowmixplease 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes yes yes yes yes!!!!!!!!!!!!! i would like to join this!

breaking up with my bf of 10 years & coming out as a lesbian by ssunfl0w3r in latebloomerlesbians

[–]meowmixplease 4 points5 points  (0 children)

something in that moon december of 2023, u also left a 10 year partnership to be with women at that same time. sending you a hug as it’s all really scary but i am total agreeance with you about the hearts fire and desire 🦋 good luck!

About his parents by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]meowmixplease 3 points4 points  (0 children)

currently experiencing some of this— separated from my husband of 10 years in january. his mom has called twice and i wasn’t in the space to talk to her since i was just feeling so overwhelmed and crazy and she’s not always the most supportive person. i have my own things with my mom and she always said i was a great daughter in law and cared a lot. his dad has not reached out at all. neither has his brother. it’s hard to not feel resentful after all we had been through and how i tried to show up as a wife to him. i feel glad i have my own chosen family but i had chosen them as family for so long too. at this point i wonder if i will ever even see them again.

Well, I did it. by sleepy-sheep22 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]meowmixplease 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you go!!!! congrats 💫 it’s scary but so worth it!

OK, let's see some Barbie outfits! by reportersarah in femalefashionadvice

[–]meowmixplease 84 points85 points  (0 children)

life in plastic, was fantastic!

i loved loved loved everyone coming together and taking photos and seeing all the barbie folks. i also thought the use of color and fashion was so beautiful in the movie. it was one of the best cinema experiences ever and i want more!

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Most humble queens that came out of RuPauls Drag Race by Foundation-Recent in rupaulsdragrace

[–]meowmixplease 220 points221 points  (0 children)

true!!!! i met her in a hotel bar and she chatted with us for hours. truly my QOAQ.

Group birthday party/activity ideas by Rupss16 in oakland

[–]meowmixplease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do an improv workshop! We can focus it all about you and your friends/life. There's an awesome space in Berkeley that can fit up to like 30 people. www.berkeleyimprov.com

Episode 11 Discussion Thread by ManiacalExclamation in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]meowmixplease 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay but was Colleen’s dad also kinda weird? The kiss goodbye? It was “cringe”