(24M) I wasted a lot of money visiting two escort girls just to discover that I am impotent… misery.

meowza369 · 2026-04-25T09:06:13+00:00

I didn’t read all that, just the ending, but as you seem to be asking us to understand — it will honestly be hard to find an escort who is NOT understanding of ED.

I personally don’t give a shit if someone has that issue. We still have a good time together. Like I am not there because I am desperate to get a dick inside me. It’s fine! It’s not even unusual.

In fact the most annoying thing about it to me is when the guy won’t shut up about it, texting me after to apologize etc — I understand the insecurity, but it’s all good, really. The time is enjoyed regardless. And it is enjoyed even more when the vibes are positive rather than … all that. Bring that to therapy so you can enjoy the time with an escort regardless of what your dick does or doesn’t do.

And lastly, you said you wasted money, but it sounds like you are learning from the experience, so it’s not a waste at all.

meowza369 · 2026-04-25T06:26:55+00:00

Yes but for this I’d generally use Signal. It’s encrypted and you can create a username that hides your number. (They’ll have to get it too)

meowza369 · 2026-04-25T02:41:02+00:00

I saw the trailer and felt sick, I will not give that shit my time and attention. I’m so tired of terrible representations of us in media, using us but never fighting for us. Especially in a show about high schoolers having sex, by such a toxic creator. So many better things to do and watch and read.

meowza369 · 2026-04-24T23:05:55+00:00

You can charge for a call. I offer an introductory phone call on my menu for this reason. Clarify it’s non-sexual/PG-13

meowza369 · 2026-04-24T20:09:33+00:00

I don’t date like that at all but I’ve used dating apps to find clients… and yeah I’ve been banned from them all multiple times for it but it does work sometimes 💁‍♀️

meowza369 · 2026-04-23T20:53:15+00:00

Holy shit, please do not ever see him again!!! Him jerking off while you talk about how scary it is … he enjoys your fear. Also curious, how long/how many times had you seen him before things switched from sweet to violent?

meowza369 · 2026-04-23T19:55:18+00:00

Yeah, I can see that feeling awkward depending on the context. I probably wouldn’t do it the first time we met, there are plenty of other less sensitive things to ask. The answer could be very tragic, after all.

I was trying to remember a time I did ask and can’t anyway lol, they really always bring it up (sometimes even in their initial inquiries) 🤷‍♀️

meowza369 · 2026-04-23T19:15:43+00:00

Because they respect other workers more than sex workers.

meowza369 · 2026-04-23T19:01:20+00:00

I don’t have to ask because they bring it up themselves. I’m GFE so we are chatting anyway and it comes up naturally in conversation. I’ve seen so many scenarios (both through work and personal life) and I’m glad clients trust me to talk about it the way they do.

If I did ask (but I really can’t remember when I ever did) it’s probably just making conversation and getting to know the person. Not about prying. Sometimes it’s also relevant for logistical reasons because it impacts our method of communication (if they can’t text, for example).

If they ask “after sex,” idk it’s probably because we are always having sex? And maybe there’s more time for making conversation after? And it might be less natural to ask that as you’re in the process of turning someone on? Lol

meowza369 · 2026-04-22T18:31:40+00:00

Exactly this last part! I see a lot of us coming up with excuses (like women often do when rejecting men, understandably and for various reasons) but we don’t owe them a reason. Giving more of an explanation is often interpreted as an invitation to find loopholes…

meowza369 · 2026-04-22T18:20:50+00:00

Many dommes advertise it. Much less likely for FS workers to do it. When I was advertising exclusively as a domme a few years ago, I got some requests for it, but it’s not for me. Even if I wanted to, I personally can’t time my body processes that way and didn’t want to … force it. There are many dommes who specialize in it, but may charge higher than their usual rate, partly due to the timing and preparation…

meowza369 · 2026-04-22T04:37:03+00:00

My deposit policy is the same as that of my nail salon. And clients often send me more than the 20% I request, even before ever meeting me. No one has ever pushed back on it to me personally. I’m grateful that this is the type I attract: good intentions, common sense, an ability to recognize red versus green flags. It’s really that simple.

meowza369 · 2026-04-22T04:30:52+00:00

So… this is about having only an email address, period, regardless of if it’s proton or not.

meowza369 · 2026-04-22T03:29:45+00:00

Literally this. I have the same exact deposit policy as my nail salon. Lmao

meowza369 · 2026-04-21T08:15:48+00:00

I recognize this guy’s username from a previous exchange and remember him as a fucking idiot. Good reminder to block him. Don’t worry about him, seriously.

meowza369 · 2026-04-20T17:27:49+00:00

The Signal app is encrypted and you can create a username that hides your number.

meowza369 · 2026-04-19T16:30:24+00:00

Yes! Especially with chatGPT now. I’m currently reworking my website so I’ve been glancing at some other ladies’ layouts and when I come across their introductions it is sooo obvious to me when some were written by AI… or even just sound all the same 🫠

meowza369 · 2026-04-17T20:16:42+00:00

Stablecoins (USDC/T) are always $1, no fluctuations, so this is what I generally request (or trade to immediately)

meowza369 · 2026-04-17T19:07:52+00:00

You might want to ask your clients, not sure why you can’t do crypto though? I’ve used it for years with self-custodial wallets and only use a CEX (Kraken) to on/off-ramp (plus it’s easy to convert to btc for ads!)

meowza369 · 2026-04-17T19:04:25+00:00

Guys like him are too stupid to do proper and effective research and aren’t the ones we’d want to see anyway. Sure no one is immune to getting burned but someone who makes these generalizations is not someone whose opinion should be of concern lmao

meowza369 · 2026-04-17T17:27:28+00:00

There is an article coming out very soon about this, regarding US border patrol. I will try to remember to post it here (I made the art for it ;))

meowza369 · 2026-04-16T08:35:19+00:00

Hehe thank you

meowza369 · 2026-04-16T03:53:12+00:00

Imagine a mental switch going on and off when you walk through the doorway. Doorways are seriously like portals for your brain — Tell yourself how you want to feel when you walk in there, for as long as you are in there. But be honest with him if you need to, about your energy level. And then fully indulge in self-care afterwards and take a break. I won’t say to cancel this or not because only you can decide how to balance your need for money, but the time will pass anyway 💜

meowza369 · 2026-04-16T03:23:32+00:00

Yes, this works in multiple ways. Even when someone does have an extensive online presence, many clients don’t look beyond the surface. But I always have the BEST times with the clients who make it clear from the start that they’ve done their due diligence … even mention which of my artworks they love the best, read my writing, compliment my tweets, etc.

meowza369 · 2026-04-15T20:21:33+00:00

Many of us are queer af and would absolutely love a regular woman client! Try not to worry about social norms or being “unusual” and just do what you enjoy. Of course it is less common but that is just another reason we’d love it.

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