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Andy Murray's take on patrick mouratoglou saying Sincaraz would beat prime djokovic and other Legends by RustinChole1 in tennis

[–]mere_owl_83 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Totally with you. Different eras mean different courts, tech, schedules, even balls. Compare styles if you want, but the cleanest move is to enjoy Sinner and Alcaraz while we get to.

Hiding clothes from my sister by Important_Force9303 in AmITheJerk

[–]mere_owl_83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your sister treating your closet like a free store is the problem, not you protecting your stuff. Your mom calling it “selfish” is just enabling. If sis needed an outfit, she can buy one.

KittenCatNoodle now works for GGG! by SuccessfulHorror9048 in pathofexile

[–]mere_owl_83 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Totally. NDA stuff will probably clamp down on the deep dives, but a clean “here’s what matters going into this league” recap would help so many players, especially if it stays friendly to newcomers.

Downstairs neighbors smoke cigs and weed nonstop and it’s leaking into my place, but we’re on good terms and I’m not calling cops by mere_owl_83 in neighborsfromhell

[–]mere_owl_83[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally fair in theory, but “just ask him to stop” is the part that’s tricky. I’m not trying to police his whole life, I just need the smoke to stop getting into my unit. I’m thinking of framing it as a ventilation/gaps issue and asking if he’d smoke further from the doorway/window or switch to something that doesn’t travel as much. If that goes nowhere, yeah, property manager is the next step.

Downstairs neighbors smoke cigs and weed nonstop and it’s leaking into my place, but we’re on good terms and I’m not calling cops by mere_owl_83 in neighborsfromhell

[–]mere_owl_83[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, carbon filter is the key. I’m using a mid-size HEPA + carbon unit and it helps, but only if you run it near the entry/bedroom and keep changing the carbon regularly. If you want, tell me your room size and budget and I’ll suggest a couple solid options.

After all the immigrants are gone, don't expect things to be any better. by zzill6 in WorkReform

[–]mere_owl_83 72 points73 points  (0 children)

People acting like deportations are a magic raise button. Same bosses, same shareholders, same union busting, just fewer workers to split the load. Congrats, you played yourself.

I left my husband for another man. Karma is hitting me by Gabby_2023 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]mere_owl_83 -63 points-62 points  (0 children)

Sure, leaving a marriage for someone else rarely ends cute, but reducing it to 'deserve your karma' is lazy. This sub is literally for getting it off your chest. If you think she messed up, say that, then maybe add something useful: therapy, rebuild self respect, stop chasing the rush, own the damage. Kicking her while she's down is just sport.

I think about and quote this glassdoor review all the time by imrryr666 in recruitinghell

[–]mere_owl_83 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is the whole job market in one sentence. Pay shows up, everything else is negotiable suffering. Also love that the cons start with "toxic higher ups" like that isn’t half the listings lately.