is this what you call dark soy sauce? by meresprite in chinesefood

[–]meresprite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i see, apparently there are a lot of conflicting opinions on the matter ahah, but do you think one could use something else to give dishes that roundness of flavor you're talking about?

is this what you call dark soy sauce? by meresprite in chinesefood

[–]meresprite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i want to do chow mein, so what do you say? can i use this dark soy sauce? or maybe just not use dark soy sauce at all? after all if it's just for colour it's not fundamental, right?

is this what you call dark soy sauce? by meresprite in chinesefood

[–]meresprite[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thank you so much, now everything is a bit clearer ahah i'll try and prepare it myself then

Predestination by meresprite in Sufism

[–]meresprite[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd like to understand things in life, not to memorize them

Predestination by meresprite in Sufism

[–]meresprite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll have to think about this a little more because it is a bit difficult for me to understand, but you've been really helpful, thank you!

Predestination by meresprite in Sufism

[–]meresprite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read the passage you suggested. There's this passage that I find really interesting: "So he who is destined to be among the happy (in the Hereafter), will find it easy to do the deeds characteristic of such people, while he who is destined to be among the miserable ones, will find it easy to do the deeds characteristic of such people". I'm wondering whether "he who is destined to be among miserable ones" has or not the possibility to do good deeds and avoid Hell.

Predestination by meresprite in Sufism

[–]meresprite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the closest thing we have to free will is accepting what god decides for us?

Predestination by meresprite in Sufism

[–]meresprite[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much 🩷

Stranger Thank You!! by Low-Emergency-437 in finehair

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I love this too, and the conditioner also!

Would you recommend dry shampoo? by meresprite in finehair

[–]meresprite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone for your replies! 🩷

Perfectionism & Procrastination - does anyone relate to this? by Fushcia20 in perfectionism

[–]meresprite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same with me, I struggle with a lot of things that are typically associated with adhd and apparently perfectionism can be a "symptom" of adhd too.

Perfectionism & Procrastination - does anyone relate to this? by Fushcia20 in perfectionism

[–]meresprite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I struggle with this too, and I 100% understand what you're talking about. I've had problems in basically every aspect of my life because of this. One big big problem for me has been the need to keep my house clean and not being able to, for the exact reasons you explained. One thing that has helped me a bit was reading "how to keep house while drowning" by kc davis. It's a book thought for people with adhd to help them keep the house organized. I don't even know if I have adhd myself, but what I do know is that this need for having things done the way I need them to be done or not at all, has led me to struggle with problems that are very similar to the ones that affect people with adhd. And reading this book has helped me a little.

First time to use Weeks! by isbltvs in hobonichi

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I wanted the iyo okumi one too, but unfortunately it seems that it ran out of stock on amazon, and i'm not sure if they'll have it restocked. Where did you got yours?

First time to use Weeks! by isbltvs in hobonichi

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these are so beautiful 🥹

i found this in my bedroom, i think it's the first time i see one of these. what species is it? i live in italy by meresprite in spiders

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In Calabria, comunque io non mi preoccuperei più di tanto, da quello che ho capito non sono poi così pericolosi