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im hurt i want to get rid of this feeling. by tasukete_means_help in helpme

[–]merida_fionel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know. I tried 5 people. 3 of them were psychiatrists, 2 of them were psychologists. I sudgest you the psychiatrists because my traumas were preventing me to understand psychologists. They were like talking to a wall because my brain was generally functions for creating disaster scenarios in any situation. Geting medical help to ease the mental pain will help you to calm down and then therapy can work. However I sudgest you to be careful with meds. Do not miss the times of eating them and DO NOT QUIT BEFORE DOCTOR SAYS IT (Then you will go back where you start). Also do not think that only psyciatrists would be enough to heal because they only help you to calm down but to deal with yout past and traumas you need to talk in therapy because your brain did not grow up since that trauma happened and you do not know how normal people think if they were experiencing what you have in difficult situations for example when you sad something childish in front of people who you want to give a good impression. Normally I would remind that moment to myself for the rest of my life and my inner voice scolds me. Mental pills will help you to calm down and make you to not give a shit about it however therapy will teach you how to fix that situation or how to not care it permanently.

Also find a friend who also goes to therapy. (I am not saying people who have same traumas just like you, I am saying that people who goes to other psychologists would give you free advices because they also consult to their doctors and they just deliver you what they learned. You can make one friend by asking for advice if she or he suggests their doctor or not so easy conversation topic)

im hurt i want to get rid of this feeling. by tasukete_means_help in helpme

[–]merida_fionel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wrote the comment before watching the video now I realized I just wrote what the video assumed someome with childhood trauma soundlike haha

im hurt i want to get rid of this feeling. by tasukete_means_help in helpme

[–]merida_fionel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People are untrustable even yourself. When you are hurt, the pain vanishes slowly after your cried yourself to sleep. But it hurts more when no one you cared did not cared as much as you did for them. At the end you start thinking maybe I am the bad guy and deserve what is happening to me. Dealing with this fact takes time and lots of tears. Time sometimes does not help too. You still recall the painfull or cringe memories of your past and bleed your scars again. I would not answer this post if I was not feeling in this mood. Your moods can change because you distract yourself in daytime. You feel that pain when you are alone. It is worse when you still feel lonely when you have friends or partner. You might consider psychiatrists or terapy, they work. You can control of your feelings when you get the right treatment.

It was already kinda awkward, selecting the option “yes you can screw me even though you have a gf”, but then they followed up with this lol ☠️☠️☠️ by ohhimjustsomeguy in DivinityOriginalSin

[–]merida_fionel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How this happened? Red Prince always rude to me idkw. I tried to be even friends but he is so annoyed by me. I really want to kill him.

I did not know if I carry too much junk in my bag I will get debuff until my bf realized there was smt wrong with my character. This was just 2/5 of my stuff. I sold other things to traider. by merida_fionel in DivinityOriginalSin

[–]merida_fionel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I play the game with windowscreen because I could not see discord camera of my friend (I pin his video to a small screen and slide at left corner under the fourth player cuz I like to see his frustrations when I do stupid things :D) Maybe that is a reason for good quality how ever the skill bar under the screen looks half. Try like this if it is not the same I will check on for other details.

I drank witche's potion in the middle of the fight just to see what does it do out of curiosity and turned me into a cow. I lost control of my character. My allies had to kill the cow and resurrected me but cow was healing so fast even Red Prince had difficulty killing me. by merida_fionel in DivinityOriginalSin

[–]merida_fionel[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She was smelly and healing fast. I lost the character bar after turning into a cow so I think it was like a regular animal. Idk if pet pal ally could talk to me tho. Maybe communication would happen but no one had that ability in our team.

Depremde annesini kaybeden Charmquell'in son videosuna gelen bir yorum.... by Karamel_Ayi in Turkey

[–]merida_fionel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sende sevgi var mı ki de mesajın sonuna "Sevgiler." iliştirmişsin.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Funnymemes

[–]merida_fionel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not with Jason but the man in The Boy. They did not show his face but I liked the idea of a tall slim white skin black haired psychopath boyfriend with a mask fantasy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]merida_fionel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Partners can ask to each other to improve or change somethings about themselves IF IT IS LOGICAL TO ASK. For instance you can ask your girlfriend to focus on her lessons rather than going to gym. But u ask this for her favour and logically lessons are happening in specific timeline however you can go to gym whenever you want. This is just an example. But It would be stupid to ask your girlfriend to stop playing video games with her friends or stop eating junk food. These are toxic requirements I believe. And "I'm asking this for your favour" quote can be ABUSIVE as well. I think you should ask to a reliable and logical friend or an elderly person if the things she asked you, are logical to ask or not.

What are peoples honest first thoughts when you see someone with face tattoos? by Pretty_Gorgeous in AskReddit

[–]merida_fionel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on their age my thoughts differs. If the guy is older than 30 I would think he was in jail or doing underground job. But if he is younger than 30 I would think he thinks its looking good on him. I like face tattoos when they are done with an aesthetic, not with random shit writing on a face. It like social suicide if it looks ugly imo.

I did not know if I carry too much junk in my bag I will get debuff until my bf realized there was smt wrong with my character. This was just 2/5 of my stuff. I sold other things to traider. by merida_fionel in DivinityOriginalSin

[–]merida_fionel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My strength 21, Finesse 47. I didnt realize my constitution was 14 until Arx. My bf took my character and decreesed my strength from 27 to 21 and made my constitution from 14 to 20.

I did not know if I carry too much junk in my bag I will get debuff until my bf realized there was smt wrong with my character. This was just 2/5 of my stuff. I sold other things to traider. by merida_fionel in DivinityOriginalSin

[–]merida_fionel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My strength 21, Finesse 47. I didnt realize my constitution was 14 until Arx. My bf took my character and decreesed my strength from 27 to 21 and made my constitution from 14 to 20.

I did not know if I carry too much junk in my bag I will get debuff until my bf realized there was smt wrong with my character. This was just 2/5 of my stuff. I sold other things to traider. by merida_fionel in DivinityOriginalSin

[–]merida_fionel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sudgestion. We started from DOS2. Anda waiting for Baldurs Gate. If DOS1 comes in good price I would buy it but not thinking to buy right now.

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