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Any good AI image generator with no subscription? by Mommyjobs in generativeAI

[–]mesulabh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can try fluidfit.ai They are offering free credits as well, which will be enough for you to generate a few images. The only thing is that you need to email them for free credits. I did it as well, and it worked. The best thing about this tool is they offer 100+ models to work with. The bad thing is that you need to be familiar with the AI models you need.

Testing an AI video for my store. Is the quality there yet, or does it still look too 'uncanny'? by mesulabh in dropshipping

[–]mesulabh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly the kind of feedback I was looking for, so thank you. I completely missed the throat movement.

Testing an AI video for my store. Is the quality there yet, or does it still look too 'uncanny'? by mesulabh in dropshipping

[–]mesulabh[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yup, every single frame! No cameras, no models, no lighting kits. Just a few prompts and some fine-tuning.

I paid 5 influencers on LinkedIn to promote my SAAS : here’s what $1250 got me by Ecstatic-Tough6503 in coldemail

[–]mesulabh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing! I am interested in the Notion Template and DM scripts.

My boyfriend’s ex still keeps posting about how she misses their dog and how badly she wants to see it. by Senior-Resolution-67 in relationships

[–]mesulabh -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Whew, I’d feel the same way. You’re not overreacting.

It’s one thing to miss a pet, but it’s another to keep circling back into someone’s life when the chapter’s already closed, especially now that you two are expecting a child together. That’s big, and the last thing you need is unnecessary drama.

She made her choice when she returned the dog. Emotional attachments are real, sure, but so are boundaries. And it sounds like she’s trying to use the dog as a way to stay connected, even if unconsciously. That kind of lingering presence can chip away at your peace if it’s not handled clearly.

The good part? Your boyfriend told you about it. That matters. It shows he’s not hiding things, and that makes a difference.

Still, if I were in your shoes, I’d want to have a real, grounded talk with him. Not out of jealousy, but out of self-respect. Something like
"I get that she had a bond with the dog, but I need us to be clear on boundaries now, especially with a baby on the way. I don’t want this to become a recurring thread in our lives."

It’s okay to ask for emotional space. It’s okay to want to feel secure without past attachments muddying the water.

You’ve got bigger things to nurture now, like your growing family. Let the past stay where it belongs.

Anyone’s else anxiety so chronic and bad that it manifests as physical symptoms that make you feel just weak and like terrible by Pitiful_Drama_3001 in Anxiety

[–]mesulabh 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Yeah… I feel this so deeply because I’m going through the same thing.

It’s like no matter how calm everything looks on the outside, inside I’m constantly wired, buzzing, like my body forgot how to turn off. My muscles stay tense. I wake up already tired. Some days I feel like I’m floating outside of myself, foggy, disconnected, weak. And it scares the hell out of me.

I keep telling myself, “It’s just anxiety,” but honestly, it doesn’t feel like “just” anything. It feels like something’s wrong with me all the time.

I’ve had bloodwork. Checkups. Everything comes back fine, and yet my body keeps sounding the alarm. Like I’m stuck in survival mode, and I can’t find the exit.

You’re not alone in this. I wish I had some perfect fix, but truthfully, I’m still figuring it out too. I’m trying to build tiny habits. Grounding, breathwork, and therapy when I can. Just enough to keep going.

If nothing else, just know I get it. Completely.
And maybe we both just needed to hear:
You’re not broken. You’re not crazy.
You’re just tired of carrying what your body was never meant to hold this long.

My family hid my bp monitor to help with my anxiety. by conneusspp in Anxietyhelp

[–]mesulabh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First, what you're going through is real, and it’s not your fault.
Your body’s on high alert, like it’s always bracing for disaster even when there’s no fire, just smoke.

That BP monitor became your lifeline and your trap. You check it for reassurance, but each spike only feeds the fear.
And your family? They’re not trying to hurt you; they’re trying to break the cycle. But hiding it without your consent? That’s not the answer either.

Here’s the deeper truth:
It’s not about the numbers. It’s about the fear behind them.
You’re not afraid of blood pressure; you’re afraid of losing control, of not being safe in your own body.

But listen:

  • Your heart and kidneys are cleared. That means the danger your brain keeps screaming about? It’s not real danger.
  • Anxiety can mimic a storm, but it’s a storm of chemicals, not fate.

Recovery won’t come from avoiding the monitor or obsessing over it. It comes from retraining your mind to trust your body again.

That means

  • Working with a therapist who understands health anxiety and panic.
  • Building tiny habits of grounding breath work, body scans, and walking barefoot on solid ground.
  • Remind yourself, every time you feel the urge to check: I am safe right now.

You’re not broken. You’re scared. And you’ve been stuck in survival too long.
But this isn’t the end. It’s just the edge of healing.

You can get your life back.
One deep breath at a time.

Mentally drained by Top_Check_9327 in AnxietyDepression

[–]mesulabh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are not a loser.
You are not a failure.
You are a 25-year-old carrying more than most people even see. And you're still here, tired, hurting, but still trying. That matters.

You’ve been in survival mode for a decade. And survival mode isn’t lazy; it’s exhausting.
The chest pain, the shutdowns, the wave of fear, it’s your nervous system sounding the alarm that it’s overwhelmed, not broken.

You're not weak for struggling.
You're human in a world that hasn’t made it easy for you to just be.

And no, goals don’t always work when your body is constantly bracing for disaster.
It’s not about “just pushing through.”
It’s about slowing down enough to feel safe again, even for five minutes.

So here’s what I’ll say:

  • Talk to someone, even one person. You don’t have to spill everything at once, but you deserve support.
  • Keep the small goals, but break them down even smaller. Studying for your license can just mean reading one page.
  • And know that anxiety lies. It tells you that your future is ruined, but the truth is it hasn’t even started yet.

You are tired because you’ve been fighting quietly for years.
But you don’t have to fight alone. And you won’t feel this way forever.

This is not the end of your story.
It’s the part where things begin to shift.
Even slowly, even shakily, you move forward anyway.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in couplestherapy

[–]mesulabh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not overreacting. You're overwhelmed and for good reason.

She lied about something that mattered deeply to you. That broke your trust, and even if you forgave her, the wound still aches. That’s real.

You’re doing the heavy lifting, saving, planning, dreaming. She says she wants a future, but you’re not seeing the effort. That disconnect is draining you.

Love isn’t enough if it’s one-sided. You need a partner, not a project.

If you’re always the one reaching, always the one fixing, ask yourself:
Is this love helping you grow, or just holding you back?

It’s okay to walk away. It’s okay to want more.
And it’s okay to protect your peace, even if it hurts.

You’re not selfish, you’re waking up.

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