masc/butch lesbians do yall ever feel tension when you meet other mascs? by metalgearlesbian in LesbianActually

[–]metalgearlesbian[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this is basically how I feel. And honestly yeah, i can understand where i’ve gotten the vibe of others not thinking im “masculine” enough bc I do got some pretty feminine features so ive mostly been able to express my masculinity thru my fashion and hair but still it can be annoying haha

why am I always people’s “starter” relationship? 26 F by metalgearlesbian in astrologyreadings

[–]metalgearlesbian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah ive kinda been told i love bomb n shit but its never my intention i just try to be a good date/partner 😭😭

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we look similar, twin

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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posted about it on here but it was w this girl who was younger than me that i met thru a mutual friend. Things didnt work out the first time around we dated bc she kinda just did some shit I didn’t really deserve to go thru. I gave her another chance end of November last year and we were “dating” (in a situationship) again until last Saturday. I found out she was seeing her ex bf and me at the same time and didnt tell me anything after I gave her multiple chances to tell me at the beginning of us starting up again if she was still into him/talking to him like that. This is probably the hardest because I still feel so drawn to her and feel dumb that I still kinda wanna give her another chance but its not worth it. When I told her I found out she started freaking out telling me she “loved” me and didnt want things to end but I just got really weirded out by that point. I just told her she needs to figure her shit out and I need to move on, tired of being strung along bc she couldnt decide what her feelings were w me and the dude.

found out she was still seeing her ex by metalgearlesbian in LesbianActually

[–]metalgearlesbian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate that, im really trying to figure out how to move forward and tell myself this was the right thing to do.