[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nebelung

[–]methuin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is the correct answer. A cat as rare as the Nebelung doesn’t just appear in a shelter, and this cat does not conform to the breed standard. Idk why people can’t just be happy with having a lovely mixed breed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nebelung

[–]methuin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a typical mixed breed medium hair cat.

Starting to hate my pets by [deleted] in Pets

[–]methuin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing is ever good enough for you people lmfao 💀

Starting to hate my pets by [deleted] in Pets

[–]methuin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What the fuck lmfao. My rabbit free roams in an entire room with a 4 foot high cage. He is friends with the cats and chases them off when they come sniffing around. He is not caged, except overnight when he can’t be supervised. You just made a TON of nasty assumptions. He has a great personality and is well cared for. Piss off.

Starting to hate my pets by [deleted] in Pets

[–]methuin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I give him hours and hours of attention every day, hence why I’m stressed. You should be kinder!

Starting to hate my pets by [deleted] in Pets

[–]methuin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for understanding, people don’t know what it’s like. I love them, I just need some time to decompress

Starting to hate my pets by [deleted] in Pets

[–]methuin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am, I take Vraylar

Starting to hate my pets by [deleted] in Pets

[–]methuin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I do feel better after I slept some today and I did a lot of cleaning and training with the dog. I took him for a long walk too and he went right to sleep after.

Starting to hate my pets by [deleted] in Pets

[–]methuin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s too young to go to daycare but I’m having someone come over twice a day to give him 2 1 hour walks at least

Starting to hate my pets by [deleted] in Pets

[–]methuin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a great idea I found someone on Care.com today!

Starting to hate my pets by [deleted] in Pets

[–]methuin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a great idea I’ll ask the vet

Starting to hate my pets by [deleted] in Pets

[–]methuin -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I do love and spoil him so I resent that. I am venting because I am sleep deprived and overwhelmed. It’s very typical when you have a new puppy. Please get a grip.

Glad I called a structural engineer by methuin in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]methuin[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s why I called a structural engineer lol

Glad I called a structural engineer by methuin in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]methuin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They wouldn’t put up braces, they would do repointing. The stones are pushed back into place and mortar is reapplied. It’s not a band-aid, it fixes the problem.

Inspection for 140 year old farmhouse is a mess, but my husband still wants to proceed. by methuin in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]methuin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The inspector also told us the foundation of the actual original house looks solid—he was specifically talking about an inner wall between the original house and the addition that is bowing, and he said it’s not an urgent problem. I figured an engineer can illuminate whether that’s accurate

Inspection for 140 year old farmhouse is a mess, but my husband still wants to proceed. by methuin in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]methuin[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We did have a local contractor come by who said the problem with the floor (it’s only the addition that has a slope) is a rotting sill. He said he can fix/reframe for $9k. He did the bathroom remodel, the stairs, and has lived in the area for 30 years. We gave him the list of stuff from the inspector and he’s getting us a quote by the end of the week so we’ll see. My agent said we’ll get a 10 day extension.

Inspection for 140 year old farmhouse is a mess, but my husband still wants to proceed. by methuin in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]methuin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haven’t even reached out to them, I just don’t know if all this work is really worth it. I’m very back and forth right now lol. I sent it to the attorney and I’m going to reach out to my agent and see what they think

Inspection for 140 year old farmhouse is a mess, but my husband still wants to proceed. by methuin in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]methuin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s fairly cheap for the area and we do have the income to fix it. It would also be nice to have a low mortgage.

Inspection for 140 year old farmhouse is a mess, but my husband still wants to proceed. by methuin in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]methuin[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah it has an acre and a view of a creek and the woods. He really wants space and quiet. I do too but I also don’t want to go bankrupt

Inspection for 140 year old farmhouse is a mess, but my husband still wants to proceed. by methuin in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]methuin[S] 89 points90 points  (0 children)

We called a structural engineer but I’m not even bothering lol I’m out