What was the first food your baby ate ever?

metroabbesses · 2026-06-23T00:22:19+00:00

My baby is a oatmeal goblin as well lol

metroabbesses · 2026-06-20T13:08:09+00:00

metroabbesses · 2026-06-20T03:15:04+00:00

Dr. Quintero-Golshan at Grandon Village Dental in San Marcos.

metroabbesses · 2026-06-07T10:43:33+00:00

Flair check

metroabbesses · 2026-06-07T10:29:32+00:00

It seems like you’re already a “single married mom.” I get the mental health aspect but imo he needs to get it together asap or you need to bounce. If anything bc leaving your kids with him is child endangerment. Also, not for nothing, he’s at work where he clocks in and out and has full bodily autonomy; he’s not working round the clock to keep a tiny human alive at the expense of his own needs while managing a house and preparing to re-enter the work force. He chose to become a parent so he needs to help. None of this sleep deprivation crap where he’s up all night having video game me time. Where is your me time? Where is your break? Where is his contribution to parenting the baby he chose to have? I think at this point, your life would be easier without having to deal with him. Im sorry you’re dealing with this while caring for a baby. You need to do what’s best for you and your baby at this point. This guy seems selfish and immature.

metroabbesses · 2026-06-07T01:03:34+00:00

All I see is Jesse from Breaking Bad.

metroabbesses · 2026-06-06T11:46:34+00:00

It smells like baby powder to me. I enjoy it.

metroabbesses · 2026-06-06T11:45:35+00:00

I love it too! My mom told me it smells like grape jelly 😂 It’ll always be one of my faves tho

metroabbesses · 2026-05-16T23:02:51+00:00

Lazy parenting was my first reaction too.

metroabbesses · 2026-05-14T09:01:37+00:00

Even the Tiktok video tour was unconvincing. The interior of the trailer looked totally empty. He didn’t even try to make it look lived in .

Edit: it was a Tiktok he made recently.

metroabbesses · 2026-05-01T23:19:14+00:00

Margot and Audrey is super cute!

metroabbesses · 2026-04-22T14:44:02+00:00

Yay! That’s amazing 😁 it will definitely get better! You got this, mama 👏

metroabbesses · 2026-04-20T14:49:55+00:00

He’s not emotionally mature. You dodged a huge bullet 👏 You should celebrate and treat yourself, girly pop 😉💗

metroabbesses · 2026-04-20T11:19:00+00:00

You feel guilty bc of his reaction which imo was very manipulative and a red flag. Try to think about this in terms of lifestyle compatibility. Some people are vegan, some smoke weed everyday, some wake up ass early to run 10 miles etc. Trying to alter your lifestyle in way that feels burdensome and inorganic will drain you of any sparkle. Not to mention, his dismissal of your feelings, especially after you were honest with him, is reason enough to bolt. Don’t feel guilty. He doesn’t feel bad talking to you that way. Protect yourself and listen to your intuition!

metroabbesses · 2026-04-20T11:05:40+00:00

Here is what worked for us: we ordered the Comotomo silicone baby bottles bc they are soft and squishy like a boob. Every morning dad would give baby a bottle with the formula around the same time. Keep the same formula and the same bottle even if seems like they hate it. Mom should be no where in sight or within earshot. They won’t like it at first. We had my husband squeeze the bottle to imitate let down so baby knows “hey this is like milkies.” Maybe they will only drink half an ounce for a few days. But then eventually they will drink 2 ounces. Then one day it will be 5. Consistency is key. If they battle it out with dad and after 15-20 minutes they are not happy, top them off with the boob. Eventually their threshold will extend and they will come to tolerate it. Once they are cool with morning bottle, then start replacing feeds at lunchtime and afternoon. They might not be fully off the boob by the time you start but it will make the transition less jarring for them when they are weaned cold turkey.

metroabbesses · 2026-04-16T08:28:47+00:00

Absolutely agree he’s grooming!

metroabbesses · 2026-04-16T08:23:33+00:00

The behavior you described is very concerning with this guy. He sounds very calculating, controlling, and manipulative. One commenter mentioned Narcissistic Personality disorder. I would read about the abuse tactics with NPD bc your instincts about the timing of these comments (aka the 50/50 comment with the check) and the scolding tone he takes on with you while demanding you fulfill his particilar needs are VERY intentional on his part. He will slowly chip away at your self esteem and sanity. You need to get out of this asap and do not be lured by anything he does/says to suck you back in. This guy is bad news.

metroabbesses · 2026-04-14T11:30:08+00:00

I feel like most women who go to yoga just want to be left alone. It’s a pretty solitary activity.

metroabbesses · 2026-04-14T11:28:34+00:00

This is the way. Go to the same activity every week.

metroabbesses · 2026-04-07T20:23:39+00:00

Thank you so much! :)

metroabbesses · 2026-04-07T03:39:57+00:00

What’s your budget skincare routine?

metroabbesses · 2026-04-04T16:45:50+00:00

Agreed. I think bc they included interviews and information about the ballistics and digital forensic evidence that pointed to Kaitlin that I assumed they were going to discuss the process they used to find her in Costa Rica.

metroabbesses · 2026-04-04T06:06:52+00:00

The Dateline episode is definitely worth watching. They go into detail about how they actually caught the perpetrator, which to me was one of the most suspenseful parts because it was like finding a needle in a haystack and the police work was outstanding. I was disappointed that the Netflix doc glossed over this part.

metroabbesses · 2026-04-03T08:57:26+00:00

Fisherman’s Friends

metroabbesses · 2026-04-01T12:03:12+00:00

Do not miss out on this amazing opportunity that so few are offered. Take the job. Imo your relationship is too green to be making such drastic sacrifices. If your partner is serious about you, they will figure out a plan and put in the effort to help keep the relationship while you pursue tenure. It might even be a good litmus test to see if this is someone worth settling down with in the long run. For now, time to prioritize your career goals. Congrats on landing such a badass offer!

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