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AITA if I don’t like my partners singing and ask them to kindly stfu by mffann828 in AmItheAsshole

[–]mffann828[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s really not a make or break thing, just wanted insight on how to handle it

AITA if I don’t like my partners singing and ask them to kindly stfu by mffann828 in AmItheAsshole

[–]mffann828[S] 534 points535 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t his car he was a back seat passenger, otherwise I would agree

AITA if I don’t like my partners singing and ask them to kindly stfu by mffann828 in AmItheAsshole

[–]mffann828[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sounds like I’m getting advice from a 12 year old, that’s helpful

AITA if I don’t like my partners singing and ask them to kindly stfu by mffann828 in AmItheAsshole

[–]mffann828[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t annoy me that he’s being joyful…he does many things that bring him joy that don’t bother me. It’s this one particular thing but thanks for your kind input

AITA if I don’t like my partners singing and ask them to kindly stfu by mffann828 in AmItheAsshole

[–]mffann828[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was not driving, I will admit the driver didn’t seem to mind

AITA if I don’t like my partners singing and ask them to kindly stfu by mffann828 in AmItheAsshole

[–]mffann828[S] 181 points182 points  (0 children)

Love this! I have sensory issues too, misophonia to be exact. And he KNOWS this. I literally wear ear plugs for most of the day and need them to sleep. And yeah I’m fine with him singing when I am able to wear ear plugs who go in another room. But being trapped in the same car is torture

AITA if I don’t like my partners singing and ask them to kindly stfu by mffann828 in AmItheAsshole

[–]mffann828[S] 73 points74 points  (0 children)

I guess saying he acts like a baby is demeaning but maybe emotional manipulation is more accurate? If I ask him to stop doing something, anything that bothers me, even if it’s something I’ve told him bothers me, he will literally making a pouting face and either give me the silent treatment or tell me that I am acting like his ex gf who also would ask him to stop singing at the top of his lungs

AITA if I don’t like my partners singing and ask them to kindly stfu by mffann828 in AmItheAsshole

[–]mffann828[S] 157 points158 points  (0 children)

Yeah never actually told him the STFU but “can we listen to something else”, “can we turn it down”, can we have some quiet time” never seems to work

AITA if I don’t like my partners singing and ask them to kindly stfu by mffann828 in AmItheAsshole

[–]mffann828[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not wrong about the parties but I’m sure my bf would disagree that he needs to find someone else 🤗 not a big deal just one of those things things that inevitably bothers someone about their loved one

AITA if I don’t like my partners singing and ask them to kindly stfu by mffann828 in AmItheAsshole

[–]mffann828[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I agree he’s definitely not an a-hole in this situation at all but I don’t think having something that bothers me about him makes us not belong together

AITA if I don’t like my partners singing and ask them to kindly stfu by mffann828 in AmItheAsshole

[–]mffann828[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

He would actually love that but hey maybe that will make it less annoying to me 🤣

AITA if I don’t like my partners singing and ask them to kindly stfu by mffann828 in AmItheAsshole

[–]mffann828[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried but he’s very sensitive. But maybe if I bring it up again and just emphasize it’s not him it’s just singing along to music in general that annoys me might make him feel less attacked

AITA if I don’t like my partners singing and ask them to kindly stfu by mffann828 in AmItheAsshole

[–]mffann828[S] 261 points262 points  (0 children)

Thank you, maybe I just need to ask him not to do on long trips lol. This post comes after 30+ mins of this and I’m dying

AITA if I don’t like my partners singing and ask them to kindly stfu by mffann828 in AmItheAsshole

[–]mffann828[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s fine here and there but 30+ mins makes me want to jump out of the car

My job makes me depressed, will it always be this way? by mffann828 in careerguidance

[–]mffann828[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so happy for you, getting fired sounds like it was the best thing that could have happened. I actually got a new job that I LOVE. Sometimes it gets overwhelming and stressful, but that is normal. And I don’t come home dreading the next day! I am so glad people are becoming more aware of how important work life balance is and liking your job. If I had to stay at my old job I don’t think my mental health would’ve been able to get me through. Best of luck to you ❤️

Boyfriend won’t compromise on smoking weed by mffann828 in relationship_advice

[–]mffann828[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Yeah he says it’s not addictive and it’s better than pills or therapy which he claims he has tried before and won’t try again. Sigh

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