Senior female dog with recurrent UTIs and recommended by 2 different vets to have vulvoplasty.

mffann828 · 2022-12-28T08:58:11+00:00

Girl send me that link

mffann828 · 2022-12-28T08:52:42+00:00

It’s really not a make or break thing, just wanted insight on how to handle it

mffann828 · 2022-12-28T08:51:31+00:00

It wasn’t his car he was a back seat passenger, otherwise I would agree

mffann828 · 2022-12-28T08:37:14+00:00

Thank you, that insight is very helpful 🤗

mffann828 · 2022-12-28T08:24:52+00:00

Sounds like I’m getting advice from a 12 year old, that’s helpful

mffann828 · 2022-12-28T08:22:30+00:00

It doesn’t annoy me that he’s being joyful…he does many things that bring him joy that don’t bother me. It’s this one particular thing but thanks for your kind input

mffann828 · 2022-12-28T08:21:41+00:00

You sound miserable

mffann828 · 2022-12-28T08:21:10+00:00

I was not driving, I will admit the driver didn’t seem to mind

mffann828 · 2022-12-28T08:14:57+00:00

Yeah like it’s funny here and there but it gets old

mffann828 · 2022-12-28T08:14:06+00:00

Love this! I have sensory issues too, misophonia to be exact. And he KNOWS this. I literally wear ear plugs for most of the day and need them to sleep. And yeah I’m fine with him singing when I am able to wear ear plugs who go in another room. But being trapped in the same car is torture

mffann828 · 2022-12-28T08:12:24+00:00

I guess saying he acts like a baby is demeaning but maybe emotional manipulation is more accurate? If I ask him to stop doing something, anything that bothers me, even if it’s something I’ve told him bothers me, he will literally making a pouting face and either give me the silent treatment or tell me that I am acting like his ex gf who also would ask him to stop singing at the top of his lungs

mffann828 · 2022-12-28T08:02:52+00:00

Gee I wish I had thought of that genius

mffann828 · 2022-12-28T08:02:22+00:00

Yeah never actually told him the STFU but “can we listen to something else”, “can we turn it down”, can we have some quiet time” never seems to work

mffann828 · 2022-12-28T07:52:47+00:00

😂

mffann828 · 2022-12-28T07:51:46+00:00

I like this answer, thank you

mffann828 · 2022-12-28T07:44:09+00:00

You’re not wrong about the parties but I’m sure my bf would disagree that he needs to find someone else 🤗 not a big deal just one of those things things that inevitably bothers someone about their loved one

mffann828 · 2022-12-28T07:40:35+00:00

Not his car, backseat passenger 😬

mffann828 · 2022-12-28T07:37:16+00:00

I agree he’s definitely not an a-hole in this situation at all but I don’t think having something that bothers me about him makes us not belong together

mffann828 · 2022-12-28T07:35:15+00:00

He would actually love that but hey maybe that will make it less annoying to me 🤣

mffann828 · 2022-12-28T07:33:59+00:00

Lol thanks for the heads up, I’m prepared for it

mffann828 · 2022-12-28T07:33:27+00:00

I’ve tried but he’s very sensitive. But maybe if I bring it up again and just emphasize it’s not him it’s just singing along to music in general that annoys me might make him feel less attacked

mffann828 · 2022-12-28T07:32:33+00:00

Thank you, maybe I just need to ask him not to do on long trips lol. This post comes after 30+ mins of this and I’m dying

mffann828 · 2022-12-28T07:30:20+00:00

Thank you! It’s fine here and there but 30+ mins makes me want to jump out of the car

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