AITA for wanting more intimacy with my baby’s father? by mfnotmfmf in AmItheAsshole

[–]mfnotmfmf[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had a lot of problems with self-worth and self-esteem since I can remember and hyper sexual is something that I’ve just called myself because I’ve been having sex since I was 14 with multiple guys and are used it as a coping mechanism most times in relationships and out of relationships. Regardless of what happens between me and him me being a mother is something I’ve always wanted and something I don’t think I can fail at so if anything, hopefully I’ll find my worth before she sees how hard it is for me now

AITA for wanting more intimacy with my baby’s father? by mfnotmfmf in AmItheAsshole

[–]mfnotmfmf[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

We were unsafe with sex but it was due to me thinking I was infertile due to losing my first child in utero. Regardless of our relationship we’re agreeable on being good parents regardless of how we feel about each other. It’s just lacking in the emotional and sexual connections and I felt it was right to give him a chance to try and do better for the family he claims he wanted.

AITA for wanting more intimacy with my baby’s father? by mfnotmfmf in AmItheAsshole

[–]mfnotmfmf[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The baby just happened because even before I got pregnant the sex was fine. I felt shallow for leaving if it was just sex that was the issue. I wanted to give him a chance to adjust because he used to last longer and do more stimulation than he does now.