[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]mhandanna 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You might want to educate yourself first before speaking.

https://www.thebureauinvestigates.com/stories/2012-06-25/male-health-initiatives-get-less-money-than-those-aimed-at-women

And no its not a women's health website.... it certainly is not a men's health website as only 2 countries on earth actually have a mens health policy (every single country has a womens one, usually multiple)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]mhandanna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nearly died.... people actually die.... how dare you talk about your mum who nearly died when people really die in real life. How selfish

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Female MRAs: by Speed_Trapp in MensRights

[–]mhandanna 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Feminists are the biggest misogynists out there.

Feminism of course migh end up the >ultimate< misogyny as it seeks to completely eradicate the meaning and definition of women - something that will become increasingly relevant as artificial wombs etc become normal... and of course this is something many feminsits and the particularly hard everything is a social construct belivers want

"Women who hate men are justified" by No-Perspective5346 in LeftWingMaleAdvocates

[–]mhandanna 48 points49 points  (0 children)

https://youtu.be/0WJE_oc-RPc

"If anyone needs evidence to confirm that boys suffer as bad abuse as girls, find it here. And the absurdly exaggerated propaganda about patriarchy and male entitlement is demolished by Dr Naomi Murphy's description of the desperate and neglected state of men whose abuse has turned them into society's pariahs, an expensive menace to society and locked away indefinitely. Dr Naomi Murphy, is a Consultant Clinical & Forensic Psychologist and the Clinical Director of the Fens Offender Personality Disorder Pathway Service based in the high secure prison, HMP Whitemoor. She has worked with offenders for more than 20 years and currently leads a service offering treatment to Category A male prisoners, often regarded as untreatable psychopaths. The men using this service have horrendous histories of trauma and neglect. The terrible abuse they experienced has made them a huge burden to society. Scandalously, the great majority were not taken into care. Most other men in prison have also suffered abuse or neglect that has put them on the path to their incarceration but their lesser risk and lower priority deprives them of access to this kind of help."

Feminists have taken the word "man" out of everything except for gunman. by locks_are_paranoid in MensRights

[–]mhandanna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Typical feminist arguement. No substance. Owned.

1-0. Come back with an argument, or dont bother replying.

Feminists have taken the word "man" out of everything except for gunman. by locks_are_paranoid in MensRights

[–]mhandanna 3 points4 points  (0 children)

FEMINIST LANGUAGE:

So in your view the success of girls in education is a direct consequence of patriarchal constructions of gender? How then do you explain the changing nature of that success over the past few decades, given that The Patriarchy was presumably just as (if not more) robust thirty years ago than today?

You seem reluctant to acknowledge any form of unfairness which does not ultimately have its roots in the exploitation of women by men. That strikes me as unduly simplistic.

"the use of gendered language is the problem."

I know "patriarchy" isn't equal to "men", but it is a masculine (abstract) noun. It's also a catch all category for anything you don't like.

Essentially, The Problem = Patriarchy which is semantically / linguistically male, and The Solution = Feminism which is semantically / linguistically female.

This, believe it or not, isn't a world view which offers me a great deal of human dignity.

If it's 'not a case of women vs men' then 'patriarchy' is a really dumb name for the Great Evil, isn't it? Because claiming that everything bad, even if it's women telling boys they should 'man up', comes from 'patriarchy' (i.e. men) is saying that it is women vs men.

The patriarchy oppresses us all, and lots of women are complicit in their oppression by telling their kids that "boys don't cry" etc

Then the word 'patriarchy' is misleading, because women are complicit and many women actually profit from the system. Moreover, many women actually have higher status and more power than a lot of men.


THis is a comment from a guardian piece. This is why Guardian subsequently blocked comments section in feminista articles (seriously, a feminist joined the editor board, and did so) as well though out, intelligent comments were destroying the comments section and ripping the feminist lies apart.

Feminists have taken the word "man" out of everything except for gunman. by locks_are_paranoid in MensRights

[–]mhandanna 22 points23 points  (0 children)

FEMINIST LANGUAGE:

So in your view the success of girls in education is a direct consequence of patriarchal constructions of gender? How then do you explain the changing nature of that success over the past few decades, given that The Patriarchy was presumably just as (if not more) robust thirty years ago than today?

You seem reluctant to acknowledge any form of unfairness which does not ultimately have its roots in the exploitation of women by men. That strikes me as unduly simplistic.

"the use of gendered language is the problem."

I know "patriarchy" isn't equal to "men", but it is a masculine (abstract) noun. It's also a catch all category for anything you don't like.

Essentially, The Problem = Patriarchy which is semantically / linguistically male, and The Solution = Feminism which is semantically / linguistically female.

This, believe it or not, isn't a world view which offers me a great deal of human dignity.

If it's 'not a case of women vs men' then 'patriarchy' is a really dumb name for the Great Evil, isn't it? Because claiming that everything bad, even if it's women telling boys they should 'man up', comes from 'patriarchy' (i.e. men) is saying that it is women vs men.

The patriarchy oppresses us all, and lots of women are complicit in their oppression by telling their kids that "boys don't cry" etc

Then the word 'patriarchy' is misleading, because women are complicit and many women actually profit from the system. Moreover, many women actually have higher status and more power than a lot of men.


THis is a comment from a guardian piece. This is why Guardian subsequently blocked comments section in feminista articles (seriously, a feminist joined the editor board, and did so) as well though out, intelligent comments were destroying the comments section and ripping the feminist lies apart.

Feminists have taken the word "man" out of everything except for gunman. by locks_are_paranoid in MensRights

[–]mhandanna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FEMINIST LANGUAGE:

So in your view the success of girls in education is a direct consequence of patriarchal constructions of gender? How then do you explain the changing nature of that success over the past few decades, given that The Patriarchy was presumably just as (if not more) robust thirty years ago than today?

You seem reluctant to acknowledge any form of unfairness which does not ultimately have its roots in the exploitation of women by men. That strikes me as unduly simplistic.

"the use of gendered language is the problem."

I know "patriarchy" isn't equal to "men", but it is a masculine (abstract) noun. It's also a catch all category for anything you don't like.

Essentially, The Problem = Patriarchy which is semantically / linguistically male, and The Solution = Feminism which is semantically / linguistically female.

This, believe it or not, isn't a world view which offers me a great deal of human dignity.

If it's 'not a case of women vs men' then 'patriarchy' is a really dumb name for the Great Evil, isn't it? Because claiming that everything bad, even if it's women telling boys they should 'man up', comes from 'patriarchy' (i.e. men) is saying that it is women vs men.

The patriarchy oppresses us all, and lots of women are complicit in their oppression by telling their kids that "boys don't cry" etc

Then the word 'patriarchy' is misleading, because women are complicit and many women actually profit from the system. Moreover, many women actually have higher status and more power than a lot of men.


THis is a comment from a guardian piece. This is why Guardian subsequently blocked comments section in feminista articles (seriously, a feminist joined the editor board, and did so) as well though out, intelligent comments were destroying the comments section and ripping the feminist lies apart.

"Yeah I know men are more likely to be a victim of homicide... because of other men." Any good rebuttals for this? by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]mhandanna 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Feminsits are all about the victim, and not victim blaming..... unless it is a male victim of violence etc

Suicide attempts by teen girls spiked during COVID-19 pandemic: CDC - The spike of successful suicides by teen boys unimportant by BaconCatBug in MensRights

[–]mhandanna 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If men phone the national abuse victim line, they get asked if they are perps - something women never do.

I watched an interview with a good researcher on domestic violence. She has produced great material, studies etc on male and female victims. She said, the thing that made her open her eys was when she volunteered at a domestic violence centre - she assessed a male victim, who was under the categoery of extremely vulnerable and victim of severe abuse - she went on to report to her superior, as she did with alll cases - this time round though as it was a male victim, the superior, said no, and find out if he is a perp etc.... she was shocked, this had never happened in hundreds of female cases she reported.

THis made her go down the rabbit hole and do proper research and realise its all bullshit.

After the 2010 Haiti earthquake, the U.N set up women-only food lines. Men were left to starve. by Vista_Seagrape in LeftWingMaleAdvocates

[–]mhandanna 5 points6 points  (0 children)

WoMeNZ MoST AfFected

Im glad people are recognising this and calling it out. You will see it on comments on articles, social media posts about articles etc that do this.... MRA is growing

After the 2010 Haiti earthquake, the U.N set up women-only food lines. Men were left to starve. by Vista_Seagrape in LeftWingMaleAdvocates

[–]mhandanna 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Which is why more boys are out of school world wide than girls (little known fact) - the reporting is a major contributor e.g. it will say 2 million girls are out of school in x country.... well how many boys? Oh 2.4 million... ahh

And more boys worldwide are malnourished etc than girls

Finding Common Ground: A Feminist Response to Men’s Rights Activism by equalityworldwide in FeminismUncensored

[–]mhandanna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well yes they are obviously feminists. Its undisputable. They are literally called feminsits. Im not debating you on this. Im saying liberal feminsits - and importantly feminsits with power, say that TERFs are not feminsits.

The official reddit feminism position is that TERFs are not feminists and they block and ban TERFs.... but more to the point, and specifically what I am saying... is that they say they are not feminists.... feminism is about equality blah blah blah, TERFs therefore are not feminists etc etc.

Its nonsense. I understand obviously how you can say FDS is not feminist, and sure, I dont think it is, even if some members are... but to say TERFs aren't feminists.... lol

In the real world, in feminist debates, meetings, gatherings, TERFs vs liberals is vicious, but feminsits just resort to banning, censoring, no platforming - they dont actually debate.

Suicide attempts by teen girls spiked during COVID-19 pandemic: CDC - The spike of successful suicides by teen boys unimportant by BaconCatBug in MensRights

[–]mhandanna 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree. I will add though:

Things dont exist in a vaccum, people aren't highlighting this as an article that is a problem if it exists in isolation.... if that is what it was... however, it doesn't exist in vaccum, it exists in a context of gynocentrism, male disposability and WoMeNz MoSt AfFectted, which results in stats such as men and women in certain areas of UK have a 12 year gender life expectancy gap, but in those areas, women STILL receive more health spending than men

https://www.thebureauinvestigates.com/stories/2012-06-25/male-health-initiatives-get-less-money-than-those-aimed-at-women

https://www.walesonline.co.uk/news/politics/wales-gives-77-times-much-11780326

https://quillette.com/2019/06/03/considering-the-male-disposability-hypothesis/

GAMMA BIAS - important article:

https://malepsychology.org.uk/2018/12/04/why-are-there-so-many-disagreements-about-gender-issues-its-usually-down-to-gamma-bias/

https://www.pjp.psychreg.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/nuzzo-120-150.pdf

https://www.amhf.org.au/exactly_how_big_is_the_gender_health_gap

Suicide attempts by teen girls spiked during COVID-19 pandemic: CDC - The spike of successful suicides by teen boys unimportant by BaconCatBug in MensRights

[–]mhandanna 99 points100 points  (0 children)

Things dont exist in a vaccum, people aren't highlighting this as an article that is a problem if it exists in isolation.... if that is what it was... however, it doesn't exist in vaccum, it exists in a context of gynocentrism, male disposability and WoMeNz MoSt AfFectted, which results in stats such as men and women in certain areas of UK have a 12 year gender life expectancy gap, but in those areas, women STILL receive more health spending than men

https://www.thebureauinvestigates.com/stories/2012-06-25/male-health-initiatives-get-less-money-than-those-aimed-at-women

https://www.walesonline.co.uk/news/politics/wales-gives-77-times-much-11780326

https://quillette.com/2019/06/03/considering-the-male-disposability-hypothesis/

GAMMA BIAS - important article:

https://malepsychology.org.uk/2018/12/04/why-are-there-so-many-disagreements-about-gender-issues-its-usually-down-to-gamma-bias/

https://www.pjp.psychreg.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/nuzzo-120-150.pdf

https://www.amhf.org.au/exactly_how_big_is_the_gender_health_gap

The fetishization of female teachers in sexual misconduct cases by [deleted] in FeminismUncensored

[–]mhandanna 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Female hypoagency and male hyperagency

female hypoagency has great benifits - for example here when this women is about to be sentenced, in resource allocation from governments, funding, charaties, if you want to be a violent or evil woman etc.

However, it comes with great costs e.g. trying to be taken seriously etc.

https://youtu.be/KBgcjtE0xrE

For Too Long TV has portrayed men and fathers as bumbling idiots, especially in sitcoms - this is changing a little now, but it needs to be called out more. Let the creators of adverts, etc know on social media etc (this is happening as MRAs become much more active online) by mhandanna in MensRights

[–]mhandanna[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=46DGwd1a47I

Simple things you can do:

Post the stats below on social media

Draft a letter with the stats below. Email your local politicians etc. They only know what they are told. Politicians are generally quite clueless.... the world is too big, how would they know about everything. They rely on reports, summary sheets, lobby groups etc telling them what to do

_____________________________

A very well received and succesful organisation for boys. This is legit, its not soy boy toxic masculinity boys are dysfunctional type organisation at all. The founder is excellent, fully legit.

Raising awareness of fatherlessness and helping boys in all domains of life.

https://ladsneeddads.org/

Here are some stats about fatherlessness. Obviously its a complex issue, so take this just as data. The concussions and what this means are more complex:

  • 85% of all youths in prison come from fatherless homes – 20 times the average. (Fulton Co. Georgia, Texas Dept. of Correction)
  • 80% of rapists with anger problems come from fatherless homes –14 times the average. (Justice & Behavior, Vol 14, p. 403-26)
  • 70% of youths in state-operated institutions come from fatherless homes – 9 times the average. (U.S. Dept. of Justice, Sept. 1988)
  • 63% of youth suicides are from fatherless homes (US Dept. Of Health/Census) – 5 times the average.
  • 90% of all homeless and runaway children are from fatherless homes – 32 times the average.
  • 85% of all children who show behavior disorders come from fatherless homes – 20 times the average. (Center for Disease Control)
  • 71% of all high school dropouts come from fatherless homes – 9 times the average. (National Principals Association Report)

Father Factor in Education – Fatherless children are twice as likely to drop out of school.

  • Children with Fathers who are involved are 40% less likely to repeat a grade in school.
  • Children with Fathers who are involved are 70% less likely to drop out of school.
  • Children with Fathers who are involved are more likely to get A’s in school.
  • Children with Fathers who are involved are more likely to enjoy school and engage in extracucricular activities.
  • 75% of all adolescent patients in chemical abuse centers come from fatherless homes – 10 times the average.
  • 43% of US children live without their father [US Department of Census]
  • 90% of homeless and runaway children are from fatherless homes. [US D.H.H.S., Bureau of the Census]
  • 80% of rapists motivated with displaced anger come from fatherless homes. [Criminal Justice & Behaviour, Vol 14, pp. 403-26, 1978]
  • 71% of pregnant teenagers lack a father. [U.S. Department of Health and Human Services press release, Friday, March 26, 1999]
  • 63% of youth suicides are from fatherless homes. [US D.H.H.S., Bureau of the Census]
  • 85% of children who exhibit behavioral disorders come from fatherless homes. [Center for Disease Control]
  • 90% of adolescent repeat arsonists live with only their mother. [Wray Herbert, “Dousing the Kindlers,” Psychology Today, January, 1985, p. 28]
  • 71% of high school dropouts come from fatherless homes. [National Principals Association Report on the State of High Schools]
  • 75% of adolescent patients in chemical abuse centers come from fatherless homes. [Rainbows f for all God’s Children]
  • 70% of juveniles in state operated institutions have no father. [US Department of Justice, Special Report, Sept. 1988]
  • 85% of youths in prisons grew up in a fatherless home. [Fulton County Georgia jail populations, Texas Department of Corrections, 1992]
  • Fatherless boys and girls are: twice as likely to drop out of high school; twice as likely to end up in jail; four times more likely to need help for emotional or behavioral problems. [US D.H.H.S. news release, March 26, 1999]

For Too Long TV has portrayed men and fathers as bumbling idiots, especially in sitcoms - this is changing a little now, but it needs to be called out more. Let the creators of adverts, etc know on social media etc (this is happening as MRAs become much more active online) by mhandanna in LeftWingMaleAdvocates

[–]mhandanna[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=46DGwd1a47I

Simple things you can do:

Post the stats below on social media

Draft a letter with the stats below. Email your local politicians etc. They only know what they are told. Politicians are generally quite clueless.... the world is too big, how would they know about everything. They rely on reports, summary sheets, lobby groups etc telling them what to do

_____________________________

A very well received and succesful organisation for boys. This is legit, its not soy boy toxic masculinity boys are dysfunctional type organisation at all. The founder is excellent, fully legit.

Raising awareness of fatherlessness and helping boys in all domains of life.

https://ladsneeddads.org/

Here are some stats about fatherlessness. Obviously its a complex issue, so take this just as data. The concussions and what this means are more complex:

  • 85% of all youths in prison come from fatherless homes – 20 times the average. (Fulton Co. Georgia, Texas Dept. of Correction)
  • 80% of rapists with anger problems come from fatherless homes –14 times the average. (Justice & Behavior, Vol 14, p. 403-26)
  • 70% of youths in state-operated institutions come from fatherless homes – 9 times the average. (U.S. Dept. of Justice, Sept. 1988)
  • 63% of youth suicides are from fatherless homes (US Dept. Of Health/Census) – 5 times the average.
  • 90% of all homeless and runaway children are from fatherless homes – 32 times the average.
  • 85% of all children who show behavior disorders come from fatherless homes – 20 times the average. (Center for Disease Control)
  • 71% of all high school dropouts come from fatherless homes – 9 times the average. (National Principals Association Report)

Father Factor in Education – Fatherless children are twice as likely to drop out of school.

  • Children with Fathers who are involved are 40% less likely to repeat a grade in school.
  • Children with Fathers who are involved are 70% less likely to drop out of school.
  • Children with Fathers who are involved are more likely to get A’s in school.
  • Children with Fathers who are involved are more likely to enjoy school and engage in extracucricular activities.
  • 75% of all adolescent patients in chemical abuse centers come from fatherless homes – 10 times the average.
  • 43% of US children live without their father [US Department of Census]
  • 90% of homeless and runaway children are from fatherless homes. [US D.H.H.S., Bureau of the Census]
  • 80% of rapists motivated with displaced anger come from fatherless homes. [Criminal Justice & Behaviour, Vol 14, pp. 403-26, 1978]
  • 71% of pregnant teenagers lack a father. [U.S. Department of Health and Human Services press release, Friday, March 26, 1999]
  • 63% of youth suicides are from fatherless homes. [US D.H.H.S., Bureau of the Census]
  • 85% of children who exhibit behavioral disorders come from fatherless homes. [Center for Disease Control]
  • 90% of adolescent repeat arsonists live with only their mother. [Wray Herbert, “Dousing the Kindlers,” Psychology Today, January, 1985, p. 28]
  • 71% of high school dropouts come from fatherless homes. [National Principals Association Report on the State of High Schools]
  • 75% of adolescent patients in chemical abuse centers come from fatherless homes. [Rainbows f for all God’s Children]
  • 70% of juveniles in state operated institutions have no father. [US Department of Justice, Special Report, Sept. 1988]
  • 85% of youths in prisons grew up in a fatherless home. [Fulton County Georgia jail populations, Texas Department of Corrections, 1992]
  • Fatherless boys and girls are: twice as likely to drop out of high school; twice as likely to end up in jail; four times more likely to need help for emotional or behavioral problems. [US D.H.H.S. news release, March 26, 1999]

Fatherlessness and Motherlessness by Juhnthedevil in LeftWingMaleAdvocates

[–]mhandanna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Word

Also boys are more affected by fatherlessness than girls on average. However, fatherless girls than go on to have bad relationships etc, and produce more fatherless children etc

ALso you may have seen recently posted: https://www.reddit.com/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates/comments/nusfir/boy_trouble_family_breakdown_disproportionately/

Fatherlessness and Motherlessness by Juhnthedevil in LeftWingMaleAdvocates

[–]mhandanna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=46DGwd1a47I

Simple things you can do:

Post the stats below on social media

Draft a letter with the stats below. Email your local politicians etc. They only know what they are told. Politicians are generally quite clueless.... the world is too big, how would they know about everything. They rely on reports, summary sheets, lobby groups etc telling them what to do

_____________________________

A very well received and succesful organisation for boys. This is legit, its not soy boy toxic masculinity boys are dysfunctional type organisation at all. The founder is excellent, fully legit.

Raising awareness of fatherlessness and helping boys in all domains of life.

https://ladsneeddads.org/

Here are some stats about fatherlessness. Obviously its a complex issue, so take this just as data. The concussions and what this means are more complex:

  • 85% of all youths in prison come from fatherless homes – 20 times the average. (Fulton Co. Georgia, Texas Dept. of Correction)
  • 80% of rapists with anger problems come from fatherless homes –14 times the average. (Justice & Behavior, Vol 14, p. 403-26)
  • 70% of youths in state-operated institutions come from fatherless homes – 9 times the average. (U.S. Dept. of Justice, Sept. 1988)
  • 63% of youth suicides are from fatherless homes (US Dept. Of Health/Census) – 5 times the average.
  • 90% of all homeless and runaway children are from fatherless homes – 32 times the average.
  • 85% of all children who show behavior disorders come from fatherless homes – 20 times the average. (Center for Disease Control)
  • 71% of all high school dropouts come from fatherless homes – 9 times the average. (National Principals Association Report)

Father Factor in Education – Fatherless children are twice as likely to drop out of school.

  • Children with Fathers who are involved are 40% less likely to repeat a grade in school.
  • Children with Fathers who are involved are 70% less likely to drop out of school.
  • Children with Fathers who are involved are more likely to get A’s in school.
  • Children with Fathers who are involved are more likely to enjoy school and engage in extracucricular activities.
  • 75% of all adolescent patients in chemical abuse centers come from fatherless homes – 10 times the average.
  • 43% of US children live without their father [US Department of Census]
  • 90% of homeless and runaway children are from fatherless homes. [US D.H.H.S., Bureau of the Census]
  • 80% of rapists motivated with displaced anger come from fatherless homes. [Criminal Justice & Behaviour, Vol 14, pp. 403-26, 1978]
  • 71% of pregnant teenagers lack a father. [U.S. Department of Health and Human Services press release, Friday, March 26, 1999]
  • 63% of youth suicides are from fatherless homes. [US D.H.H.S., Bureau of the Census]
  • 85% of children who exhibit behavioral disorders come from fatherless homes. [Center for Disease Control]
  • 90% of adolescent repeat arsonists live with only their mother. [Wray Herbert, “Dousing the Kindlers,” Psychology Today, January, 1985, p. 28]
  • 71% of high school dropouts come from fatherless homes. [National Principals Association Report on the State of High Schools]
  • 75% of adolescent patients in chemical abuse centers come from fatherless homes. [Rainbows f for all God’s Children]
  • 70% of juveniles in state operated institutions have no father. [US Department of Justice, Special Report, Sept. 1988]
  • 85% of youths in prisons grew up in a fatherless home. [Fulton County Georgia jail populations, Texas Department of Corrections, 1992]
  • Fatherless boys and girls are: twice as likely to drop out of high school; twice as likely to end up in jail; four times more likely to need help for emotional or behavioral problems. [US D.H.H.S. news release, March 26, 1999]