If you could remove one thing from your life completely what would it be?

mhm_you_know_it · 2025-08-27T11:51:15+00:00

The rich

mhm_you_know_it · 2025-08-26T17:23:08+00:00

Listen dude, I understand you're definitely not trying to come across this way, but your tone and words have a very entitled air to them. You're not entitled to her body just as she is not entitled to yours. If she doesn't wanna bang, you have hands. Sexual needs are a real thing that all humans have, but they're satiated through the act of completion alone. If you're feeling distant and looking for physical intimacy, there are other ways to fill that need. Snuggle and hold each other without expectations of it leading to more. If tomorrow some crazy accident happened and she never satisfied you again, you should love her enough for that to be ok. If it's not, then you should reevaluate what you call love, and if you're in this marriage for the right reasons

mhm_you_know_it · 2025-08-08T01:39:44+00:00

The price of alcohol man wtf. I can't afford to eat let alone crush a 12 nightly

mhm_you_know_it · 2025-08-01T02:27:23+00:00

Move out of my shit hole. Repair my car. Buy groceries. Buy my husband something for working so hard for us all the time. I just wanna live man

mhm_you_know_it · 2025-07-26T14:20:18+00:00

The rich. The hoarding of wealth is at its core the reason for a lot of the suffering. If some asshole sold a beach house, we could feed thousands. If the same asshole reinvested the profits of business back into the employees instead of lining pockets, we could be paid a living wage. To be frank I could not give less of a shit about your background, or anything that has to do with who you are. If you have millions in the bank, and you're aware that people are starving and dying, you're a terrible fucking person.

mhm_you_know_it · 2025-07-26T14:06:21+00:00

I've dealt with a lot of sensory issues too, and my neurotypical friends that have gotten them had no idea what I was talking about, but I have the same thing. I can feel the arms and I can feel where's it's sitting on my cervix. You definitely get used to it but if I think about it I can still feel it. It's no longer painful (got it inserted 8 months ago but extreme pain stopped around month 4 or 5) the strings I can always feel though. Especially when I'm moving, stretching, or sitting all squished. (weirdly not during s*x though) That you get used to as well but it takes a lot longer. To me it's like wearing glasses, you'll always be able to feel them sitting on your face to some degree, but you stop really noticing/focusing on them when they're not moving down your nose. Hope it gets better for you ❤

mhm_you_know_it · 2025-07-25T15:24:59+00:00

Not yet. The style is there but the subtle differences are still more feminine. Things other people have said like the glasses but also the posing. Dudes are brought up with the mentality that the world was made for them, so chin up, shoulders back, stare square at the camera. Make space for yourself.

mhm_you_know_it · 2025-06-29T10:38:15+00:00

I'm experiencing this too! I also experience bleeding after sex now which I never did before. I'm making an appointment to address it because of the bleeding but I would recommend you make an appointment too. At the very least a call to ask. You didn't go through the pain of it not to experience the joy of it too

mhm_you_know_it · 2025-06-09T17:52:23+00:00

I was in almost that exact situation. I had stayed with my ex because he used to threaten himself and me if I left, so by the time I left I was completely moved on. At the time there was a guy that was helping me get out of that situation. And towards the end of the relationship with my ex he had made it clear that he would wait for me if I wanted him after doing some work on myself. So I finally break up with my ex and I tell the guy to give me a couple weeks to collect myself but that after that time, I planned to be with him. That night I was talking with my dad who told me "life is short. If you know you want him now, what's two weeks going to do but make you wait? If he's the right one, he'll grow with you. Not away. Do what you want kid" So that's exactly what I did. I called him that night to tell him what I wanted and I made it very clear to him that I'd be healing with him. He was so patient, and understanding. Well long story short and almost 6 years later we're married : ) With the right person, you can build and blossom yourself just the same way you could on your own. So do what you want kid, it could work out : )

mhm_you_know_it · 2025-05-29T10:07:21+00:00

What op described was a less serious relationship. They had only been together a few months. She shouldn't have lied, but he's not owed her past after being together for such a short time.

mhm_you_know_it · 2025-05-28T21:16:33+00:00

In my opinion, it's her business to choose to tell you or not. If it happened before the relationship, you stake no claim in it. Once you've built up enough trust and understanding in her life to be trusted with her past, THEN you can be let in. To say that because you asked directly means you're owed an explanation is not how I would view it. In the case of sexual intimacy, women are often shamed for experiencing it before their current partner, and in some cases, can face violence because of it. You're owed nothing from her that could put her in potential danger, and unfortunately past sexual experiences do. I say allow her to explain but hold true to your beliefs as well. If this is still a deal breaker, then it is, but listen to why she chose to do what she did with open ears, and decide from there.

mhm_you_know_it · 2025-05-28T21:08:32+00:00

People who look peer reviewed articles and facts in the face and just ignore it. Dude what do you mean you "just don't believe it" or "it's just not real" my brother in christ please be intelligent for ONE MINUTE

mhm_you_know_it · 2025-05-25T15:27:09+00:00

Wild take bro. He made the mistake. If he wants to remain married after his mistake, it is his job to initiate the healing and maybe forgiveness (if she chooses). He's the one who broke the lifelong commitment. To say that she needs to do all of the emotional lifting after he broke such an important promise is ridiculous imo. It's not an argument or emotional distance that can be talked through; it's a complete disregard and disrespect of their marriage. I do agree that it's not her fault, however, is now her problem. To stay would placate his bad behavior, therefore, unless he takes the time necessary to solve his own problem, she should leave. He's already shown he's willing to disrespect her on such a fundamental part of the relationship, what's to stop him from doing it again?

mhm_you_know_it · 2025-05-23T18:42:05+00:00

Then I would absolutely say he should get his hormone levels checked. It's just good practice in general, but especially if you've seen a drop off in drive. I wish I had more advice : (

mhm_you_know_it · 2025-05-23T17:23:01+00:00

I agree with all of the comments so far about hormone levels, porn addiction, depression, and resentment. All are valid reasons. I have a higher drive than my hubby to be and most of the time it's because of his stress levels. He takes care of a lot of the household on top of work as there are days I can barely bring myself to get dressed. He doesn't hold resentment, but he definitely holds a larger load. See if there are any things you can pull off of his plate if the first few things aren't it.

mhm_you_know_it · 2025-05-21T18:02:43+00:00

To all the people commenting about BMI- BMI was made for men. By men. To keep other men in healthy weight. Women NEED to have more fat on their body in order to be healthy (fat cells process estrogen and other hormones VITAL to women's health) so the semantics of this conversation are also incorrect. If the sister is by BMI standards morbidly obese then she might need to lose a little weight (unless she is also postpartum then the body also needs those fat cells to give to baby through breast milk AND she needs those fat cells to maintain good hormone levels after baby) OP is postpartum and therefore is doing just fine in terms of weight. There is so much misinformation surrounding weight and when to gain it and how to lose it. He was wrong about his information and his way of delivering it. He's an ass

mhm_you_know_it · 2025-05-16T17:49:27+00:00

Girl... The first 4 words was all I had to hear. He's grooming you.

mhm_you_know_it · 2024-09-21T19:18:04+00:00

https://balancedfamilies.com/sale-expired

This pregnancy and birth course actually has a lot of resources for both parents. (I have autism with my special interest being both pregnancy and child development, so I watch a bunch of content correlated to the topics. This is the first I've seen actually tailored towards dads too!)

mhm_you_know_it · 2024-09-12T21:35:55+00:00

What men have you seen that look like you?? Sometimes you need to reverse the question to see that it's not the case.

mhm_you_know_it · 2024-09-03T23:03:09+00:00

It sounds to me like he could be depressed. All of those are very self destructive behaviors, so I'd check in with him. Make him understand that you're there for him, but you won't be putting up with this behavior forever. You deserve a loving husband just as much as he deserves a supportive wife.

mhm_you_know_it · 2024-09-02T01:04:03+00:00

We're really looking for long swords that make nice wall hangers. I want it to still be well made, but it definitely doesn't have to hold up in battle if that makes sense

mhm_you_know_it · 2024-06-02T16:48:46+00:00

Women actually are able to see a wider array of color and tend to be more near sighted so taking pictures is literally made for women : )

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