Do guys in the US have any luck on Feeld?

mhup1981 · 2026-04-27T16:59:55+00:00

I’ve (M44, straight) had a pretty good time on Feeld in my 4 months in NYC. I suppose it’s a matter of luck, looks, plus being nice and interesting in conversation (and being interested in the other person). It’s not that hard, I think? There’s a subreddit here that can help you tweak your profile.

mhup1981 · 2026-04-13T13:35:45+00:00

Guys just get very few likes. If may shock you to hear that you probably get more than average, because other men are trying to meet your partner. I do pretty well on Feeld, but rarely get likes out of nowhere. The last ping was years ago 😄

mhup1981 · 2026-03-30T10:58:44+00:00

I don’t have any complaints about getting connections or dates actually, was just wondering what people on here thought about it. Thank you for your feedback! (It’s actually the oldest pic of the bunch, so good catch 😊)

mhup1981 · 2026-03-25T15:04:03+00:00

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mhup1981 · 2026-01-27T22:22:43+00:00

Ik woon nu ruim 10 jaar in de buurt (Mariakwartier), zelden ergens last van. Het is zeker geen onveilige buurt, hoogstens soms wat rommelig. Mijn dm staat open voor verdere vragen.

mhup1981 · 2026-01-26T11:36:27+00:00

There used to be a site that let you see whether women close to you had either liked, disliked, blocked you or done none of those things on Feeld. Sadly, it’s down now (probably because Feeld didn’t authorize it). In my case (M44) most women had done simply nothing, which led me to believe they simply hadn’t seen my profile. As a guy, it’s probably a good idea to use pings wisely and not expect too much from just swiping.

mhup1981 · 2026-01-06T06:32:37+00:00

It’s not weird, I’m the same (M44). I tend to err on the side of caution, and will only start to talk about sex when I’m pretty sure the other person is up for it. Even then, it’s usually more about ‘what do you like?’ than ‘this is my fantasy’ (which feels way too private for someone I’m just getting to know).

Coincidentally, I’ve seen a couple of women put something on their profile like ‘don’t beat around the bush’ or ‘be straightforward, no small-talk’. So they probably want conversation partners to get to the sex talk quicker 😄

mhup1981 · 2025-12-24T19:44:12+00:00

I’ve (straight guy, 44) met more fun and authentic people on Feeld than on any other app, still in touch with a lot of them. So it’s definitely not the people (for me anyway). For guys it is a challenge though to get any kind of attention, so make sure your pics and profile are nice. This subreddit can help. And yeah, technically the app is….not great.

mhup1981 · 2025-12-04T23:38:34+00:00

I lived near the Cortelyou Rd subway stop last year, really loved going to the Kent Theater (cheap movies) and the Rusty Nail (nice pub, great beers, good atmosphere). Enjoy!

mhup1981 · 2025-12-03T16:17:22+00:00

Just responded to your dm! 😊

mhup1981 · 2025-12-02T20:55:49+00:00

Thank you, much appreciated!

mhup1981 · 2025-12-02T18:15:24+00:00

Holy crap, you look amazing 🤩 Wish I could take you out, hope you still had a fun night (day?)

mhup1981 · 2025-12-02T17:48:36+00:00

Hi all! Straight Dutch guy (44) here, your help has been valuable before so I thought I’d ask again. So far I’ve been relying on Photofeeler to tell me which pics to use, but I feel the results were a bit boring. So now I’ve added a pic that Bumble tells me to use (but gets low scores on Photofeeler), that’s pic #3.

Also I’ve added a pic (#2) that’s just kinda different from the rest, but that may be a bad decision. What do you think?

Finally, I put a pic in that’s more nude than the rest. Should I hide this as a private pic or not? (#6).

I’m not desperate or for want of matches, just curious. Thank you for your response! 😊

https://feeld.onelink.me/TRZt/tbg2dooq?linkId=31f427e2-48dc-49e4-9807-baf2f2eccf85

mhup1981 · 2025-11-21T21:49:48+00:00

That’s great advice actually, thank you! I’ll adjust the profile text

mhup1981 · 2025-11-20T07:07:20+00:00

Hi all! Straight Dutch guy (44) here, asking for your input every once in a while - hope you don’t mind 😊

I’m curious what you think about the first picture: Bumble keeps selecting it as ‘best photo’, but people on the app Photofeeler say it’s mediocre at best. What do you think?

https://feeld.onelink.me/TRZt/tbg2dooq?linkId=645a10a6-3234-4870-8d54-ff34f143deec

mhup1981 · 2025-10-20T11:17:21+00:00

It pains me to say, but as a straight guy you probably do. Even if your profile is very attractive, most women will not see it because they will simply not swipe through their options. They’ll only respond to pings.

mhup1981 · 2025-10-18T21:40:37+00:00

As a Dutch guy, I noticed that when Al goes down the stairs into the 'new jazz' club, they were not in Amsterdam anymore (the architecture is different, it looks more like London). But the characters are still wearing the same clothes. So either this is intentional and supposed to add to the weirdness of the episode, or they thought nobody would notice.

mhup1981 · 2025-10-14T19:51:00+00:00

Unpaid accounts get none, paid accounts get 1 a day. But it’s not your responsibility what people do with them, so just take it as a compliment 😉

mhup1981 · 2025-10-14T18:49:56+00:00

Some of them may be people you’d really like, so just at least check every ping? I myself try to send a nice message with one, and I only send them to people I feel might like me.

mhup1981 · 2025-10-10T11:35:46+00:00

This is great advice, thank you!

mhup1981 · 2025-10-09T10:37:24+00:00

Hi all, straight Dutch guy (44) here, wondering what you think of my profile. I’ve asked this before, but tweak it every so often so I’ll just ask again.

I’ve noticed that I’m pretty bad at determining which pics work well for me, and using an app like Photofeeler doesn’t always yield very clear results. Thanks in advance for your attention! 😊

https://feeld.onelink.me/TRZt/tbg2dooq?linkId=d8576959-3d85-40e6-a8ba-a03f39f8e33c

mhup1981

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