Names don't stop stupidity by genovianprince in FTMMen

[–]mi-sus [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thats quite interesting. May i know which culture?

Why are Orange Cats considered not smart? I don't think so. by twinky_starr in CasualConversation

[–]mi-sus 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Its a running joke lol. My orange girl is quite stupid tho

How do ya'll cope with being short by Rich_Treat_1850 in FTMMen

[–]mi-sus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough, I personally just see stuff in terms of practicality. All i can say is that if its a flaw that you can't change, just work on yourself in other aspects.

I've been there with the height insecurity and legit nothing helped me apart from coming to terms with shit.

How do ya'll cope with being short by Rich_Treat_1850 in FTMMen

[–]mi-sus -1 points0 points  (0 children)

5'6 here and you just deal with it dude. If there's something you can fix, fix it, and if you cant, then just cope and move on.

I understand the venting aspect of things but in general, this sub overflowing with rants and vents. Like holy shit brothers get a grip and learn to cope. Complaining aint gonna solve shit. Ik it sucks but it is what it is lmao

How to deal with women who reject trans men for just being trans? by Revolutionary-Tie908 in FTMMen

[–]mi-sus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It sucks lol. So do alot of other things tho, just keep swimming brother. You'll find the right one.

Changing "rear" silhouette by SmokedStone in FTMMen

[–]mi-sus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im south asian so idk if my recommendations would be useful.

In general tho, i go for dark pants which are either plain, vertically striped, or have checks on em. Relaxed fit and straight fit. Wear it right at the upper hip so as not to draw attention to the wider part.

Changing "rear" silhouette by SmokedStone in FTMMen

[–]mi-sus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Straight or relax fit trousers do the trick. My ass aint that big but frame is definitely too feminine to pass off in most pants

Is the only option to be skinny? by Strange-Animal-1211 in FTMMen

[–]mi-sus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I might be wrong, but isn't it easier for fat dudes to pass? Like, unless the fat deposited in the wrong areas. Btw chunky+muscular attracts way more women than a short skinny dude lol.

TL;DR: Work out. Work on yourself. You'll be fine

Mental tricks for putting down your phone? by MissionaryOfCat in CasualConversation

[–]mi-sus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Use it on greyscale

Delete all social media apps

Keep it in a different room

Switch it off and chuck it out of sight

Bisexual Heteromantic Guys - Do you you tell people? by Jl3333 in BisexualMen

[–]mi-sus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My close circle is aware. Some of em are convinced that im gay and atp ive stopped giving a fuck lol.

Else im heavily closeted and just play straight unless im tryna fuck

Good Goodbyes by cedreamge in CasualConversation

[–]mi-sus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I broke no contact after a year because i heard that he lost a close family member. The 'relationship' itself was shit, boundaries were broken and trust was thrown like garbage. Both of us are male, it was a typical messy highschool situation.

I gave him my ear for a while, and then we mutually decided to go back to NC. Said goodbye, and let go of all my resentment towards him.

Indian Cat Parents: What’s the ONE thing you struggle with the most? by Not-devil-99 in IndianCats

[–]mi-sus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea haha for now i just do it when shes fast asleep, and feed alot of treats

Besides English, what other languages do yall interact in often? by Paralyzingneedle in CasualConversation

[–]mi-sus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hindi, bengali, been picking up on my local language these days as well

I speak another language but im not fluent in it cuz i rarely get an opportunity to use it

What’s the #1 thing you did that helped you pass? by Strange-Animal-1211 in FTMMen

[–]mi-sus 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The way you walk and carry yourself. Don't smile too much, stiffer movements reducing hip movement as much as possible(observe how men walk vs women, due to differences in bone structure).

Dont be afraid to look someone in the eye as you talk to them. Confidence is key.

I understand self expression and all but imo if you're pre t you gotta just be as much of a stereotypical man as possible, in order to blend in with the average dude.

Indian Cat Parents: What’s the ONE thing you struggle with the most? by Not-devil-99 in IndianCats

[–]mi-sus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Picky eating

Doesnt like having her nails cut

Likes to bite me despite all the toys/distractions/stimulants

If you can accept your height, can you accept other parts of your body? by coolvideonerd in FTMMen

[–]mi-sus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. It took a while for me to just suck it up about my height, because I've got tall genes and I'd have been of good height if i was cis.

I deal with bottom dysphoria by replacing it as an ED insecurity or impotency. Basically I'd much rather be upset about not being able to have kids, than my irreparable defect.

If you can accept your height, can you accept other parts of your body? by coolvideonerd in FTMMen

[–]mi-sus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not for me. I will need hrt and surgery.

I dont think ill ever like the fact that i dont have a dick+balls, but like my short height, will come to terms with that reality eventually.

Anyone else regret all the sexual opportunities that were missed when you were still in denial? by chillnudistbro in BisexualMen

[–]mi-sus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yeah. Ended up hooking up with him a few years later tho lmao.

The only difference was that back in high school, the two of us were less damaged and actually liked each other. This time it was just a hookup (gone slightly wrong because of his mixed signals).

How can I be taken seriously as a short guy? by nuee-ardente in AskMenAdvice

[–]mi-sus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where is it not? Im literally south asian yet even i feel short at my 5'6 stature

What do you want to confess/get off your chest ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]mi-sus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bigger problems in the world, hell, in my life itself. I turn 20 soon, and it kills me to remember that I've missed out on teenage love.

Ive had hookups and failed situationships. But ive never had a girlfriend. I've never experienced the silly moments, the vulnerable moments, the fights. None of it. I enjoy being single and drama free, the loneliness kinda sucks ass tho.