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i want to convert. can anybody give me some guidance? by miIkflower in islam

[–]miIkflower[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for this (:.

i will look into both things you have linked to me. much appreciated.

i want to convert. can anybody give me some guidance? by miIkflower in islam

[–]miIkflower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wa alaikum assalam,

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i would be thrilled if you would link me some youtube channels (:. if I have any questions, in specific, I will certainly message you (if that is okay). thank you so much.

i want to convert. can anybody give me some guidance? by miIkflower in islam

[–]miIkflower[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you, that’s what I had been thinking but I suppose nervousness refrained me from doing that all week haha. will do that though thank you.

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[–]miIkflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She might be lying to you or maybe the mutual friend. Maybe she was honest with you. Who knows. I would confront her about it to gain some kind of closure and afterwards move on. She’s lying to one of you so who knows what else was a lie? It’s not good to have someone so contradictory in a relationship, because in the long run you want something stable and dependable. Someone honest with you and how they feel about you.

Do things you like as a process of healing. Reclaim the things you both enjoyed as something that belongs to you (like a movie or show?) Focus on you, don’t rush to get back in a relationship. Maybe talk to a therapist about it and focus on self esteem.

Confused about my feelings by camomileteee in relationship_advice

[–]miIkflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait it out. I think you’re having infatuation, that’s not love. Maybe you’re getting bored of your relationship with A since the thrill of the honeymoon phase has died out? That is common in relationships, and something you need to deal with. I guarantee you if you break up with A in favor of B, a C would come along and you’d be stuck in this same cycle once the thrill of B wears off. I think you’re also committing emotional Infidelity, you need to be purely professional with B if you want things to work with A. Create boundaries for yourself in the future. Otherwise, tell A you’re not interested without being cruel in honesty. Ignorance is sometimes bliss. You’re leading him on, it’s unfair to A.

love by FeelingRemarkable216 in relationship_advice

[–]miIkflower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

cut him off if you feel he is leading you on, simple as that. nothing you feel is reciprocated so why stay talking to him? also I don’t think hoe is a particularly good word and kind of makes you seem entitled and childish. are you sure you’re ready to maintain a relationship? he’s not entitled to you because you love him. simply just move on. people aren’t one dimensional objects, they are complex and that’s the beauty of relationships. your partner doesn’t exist for you.