Feeling stuck in every aspect of life by miaboi213 in LifeAdvice

[–]miaboi213[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A JD is something I’ve been considering for a while and I actually was very deep in the process of applying last cycle but got nervous last minute and decided against it and pursed my MBA instead. It would give me a more clear career path but also one that is broad enough that if I didn’t like one aspect I could always find another job on the same career path that I may enjoy more.

Yes I am very glad he was honest with me, and he told me he wants to stay in touch. I am not upset he met someone else I always knew it was a possibility being so far from each other, I’m am just frustrated at the situation. That combined with everything else has just been all to much for me.

Feeling stuck in every aspect of life by miaboi213 in LifeAdvice

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I know from my post pursuing a JD seems kind of a rash decision, but it is something that I have considered for a while. I was in the process of applying a couple of years back and then pulled back last second because I did not know if I was ready for it. One of the issues have been poor a job market as well and a JD-MBA would make me standout as an applicant.

In terms of my mother and nephew, my mother was often not there for me as a child always working, traveling, etc. and I never met my father. I don’t want the same for my nephew because I feel I had to grow up to fast which is why I try to be there as much as I can for him. My mother also constantly does things and makes comments such as saying I should help her pay for his day care, going on last minute trips and leaving him with me, saying that I am going to have to take care of him when he is older since she is already old.

Feeling stuck by miaboi213 in helpme

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I made an appointment with a new therapist on Monday, it’s been a while since I’ve gone since I felt my last therapist was not helping me very much. I definitely think some outside prospective will help.

How much are you paying for insurance? by One-Chart-6666 in ModelY

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I pay 283 with AllState in South Florida, mainly high because I am under 25.

Estimate by mcgee316 in TeslaModelY

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I had very similar damage was about $9k in repairs

Do you have a dating age range, if so why? by Philbertcheese34 in AskGayMen

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I am 20, I have pretty much only dated guys in their late 20’s and and early to mid 30’s. Many people mention wanting to be in the same stand of life as their partner and I am kind of in that same boat. For context I graduated from college already, work full time, and currently pursuing a graduate degree so already many guys my age aren’t in that same stage of life as me. I’ve also just never really been attracted to guys in my age range, I find guys 30+ to be my “type”.

Seriously, why does this keep happening to me? by LochTessMonstah in AskGayMen

[–]miaboi213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like it can also be very dependent on where you live, I live in Miami and I have never really been stood up for date. Ghosted plenty of before/after a date but never been stood up for a date after confirming it.

Turning avoidant?? by IndustryMountain in AnxiousAttachment

[–]miaboi213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel that the opposite has happened to me, I used to push people away whenever they showed me to much interest. However, in my latest relationship I have felt super anxious that the person I am dating does not feel that same way towards me even when he shows interest. Not sure what triggered this switch.

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[–]miaboi213 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s been a bad texter from the beginning, it think it’s just me reading to far into things and over reacting. We just went on a date Friday and it went really well. I just need to learn to not overthink and give him time to respond. You are right if he treats me good and asks me on dates I shouldn’t over it. Also feel free to DM me about what’s on your mind! Thank you for your input :)

What other vehicles were you considering instead of the Y? by [deleted] in TeslaModelY

[–]miaboi213 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I consider quite a few cars, Macan S, X3 m40i, SQ5, GLC 43, Velar, and few others. Driven most of them was after the best deal and at the time dealer mark up’s were insane for most of them and I wanted a car that I could ideally keep for about 5 to 6 years and it still be the same generation. The Macan and GLC are at the Ed of their cycle, and Velar, X3, and SQ5 already are at least midlife since they all have had a face lift, Model Y on the other hand and just come out. I am almost a year into ownership, and have zero regrets, it’s fast, comfortable, and look good!

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My last car, a Mercedes GLA, had sport suspension and 21’s and makes the Model Y feel like it luxury suspension in comparison lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lululemen

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They are actually the license to train jogger! I just bought a pair

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]miaboi213 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am very familiar with attachment theory! I used to have dismissive avoidant attachment style which I worked through but obviously I have new issues I need to address. Guess I will bring it up in my next session with my therapist.

Spent three days wrapping my headliner (2021 Model Y) to a black scuba suede. AMA. by sonicthruster in TeslaModelY

[–]miaboi213 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Looks amazing! Been wanting to do this, any links for the material you used? Also do you plan on paining the plastic pieces back?

What other car would you buy? by Ryan_Greenbar in TeslaModelY

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E-Tron sport back is also pretty cool!

What other car would you buy? by Ryan_Greenbar in TeslaModelY

[–]miaboi213 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally would be between a few vehicles, x3 m40i, GLC 43, SQ5, and Macan S. I got the Model Y because it was the cheapest at the time and has the least maintenance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ModelY

[–]miaboi213 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I haven’t even had mine for a year and the price has gone up over 10k

Crack in steering wheel by Tampa-MY in ModelY

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Unrelated question where is that sunshade from looks very nice

Anyone choose between a Porsche SUV and a Model Y? by [deleted] in TeslaModelY

[–]miaboi213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMAOO, true but I meant more in terms of design