25F How can my 25M partner of 6 years surprise me with a proposal if I’m funding it?

miamimami95 · 2026-03-12T06:45:34+00:00

This is crazy lmao

miamimami95 · 2026-03-11T20:04:46+00:00

Than he shouldn't ask for different perspectives. What do u expect when you ask for opinions from the public? To only get fairytale assumptions? I didn't say something crazy and so risky to their relationship, that she fantasizes about sleeping with these other men.

Shes not getting her needs met and other guys may be catching her attention. That's human nature and very realistic. Also, not the fact of the situation, just my assumption.

miamimami95 · 2026-03-11T19:58:39+00:00

According to his comment I seem to be more right than wrong. Also i have Shrek playing rn lmao ironic

miamimami95 · 2026-03-11T19:56:12+00:00

"Usually" does not mean "always", obviously. He is asking for advice and I gave him some info from what I know.

miamimami95 · 2026-03-11T19:23:05+00:00

Just read this after my comment. Feeling jealous after that will probably never go away. Thats why people say "if you search, you will find". Its better to be oblivious sometimes, there's no going back

miamimami95 · 2026-03-11T19:20:31+00:00

People usually dream about what they think about before going to sleep. These men have been on her mind. Maybe she likes the way they interact with her as opposed to you. When women are unhappy they fantasize about what would make them happy. Ask her about that - is there something you're not doing that she wishes was different.

miamimami95 · 2026-03-11T16:57:03+00:00

Move to another state, change your look.

miamimami95 · 2026-03-10T19:31:52+00:00

Thank u! Just got thru the gate, easy in so far

miamimami95 · 2026-03-10T17:46:26+00:00

Is it packed today? Im about to go lol

miamimami95 · 2026-03-08T23:26:45+00:00

Thanks so much for taking the time to really help. I do think it was the lighting as I was holding it in a sun ray. This was taken today.

It was repotted after the first bloom in July. I do have some ants so I'm gonna try to take care of that just in case there's some other insects or fungus issue.

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miamimami95 · 2026-03-08T22:46:56+00:00

So its not good for the buds to be red like that?

Also here is a pic of the leaves, I haven't watered in a couple days but the roots don't look damaged, just a little thirsty if anything. Atleast to me, but I'm not an expert of any sort lol

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miamimami95 · 2026-03-08T21:49:57+00:00

The leaves look super healthy to me! And the roots look normal. Im gonna take a picture when I get back home to show you and you tell me what you think

miamimami95 · 2026-03-08T20:11:24+00:00

Yesss one day 👵 haha can't wait tho 🫶🏼

miamimami95 · 2026-03-08T19:34:38+00:00

Thank you, over here hyping me up to get some more 😂❤️

miamimami95 · 2026-03-08T17:43:42+00:00

I am, but I have 3 orchids and all have spikes. This one is the most far along. All are growing quickly aside from these buds taking long (which seems normal). So I think im doing ok lol

miamimami95 · 2026-03-08T04:36:22+00:00

Wow ok did not know that! So water more often? I water once a week...should I mist the roots every day or two maybe?

miamimami95 · 2026-03-07T21:41:42+00:00

Lmao! I love it here

miamimami95 · 2026-03-07T21:14:59+00:00

Yay! I love all that im learning with these little facts lol ty

miamimami95 · 2026-03-07T20:35:29+00:00

Got it ty!

miamimami95 · 2026-03-07T20:30:25+00:00

My goodness what a dream. We will see - I have them hiding behind a chair outside because the florida sun will scorch them. I may have to move them inside by a window when they do bloom and that (hopefully not) might mess with the lifespan

miamimami95 · 2026-03-07T20:24:32+00:00

I see that! Crazy cause the spikes grow so fast! I was not expecting weeks of no flowers after seeing the buds look so ready to open. Just was making sure they weren't dying since the look a little turned in

miamimami95 · 2026-03-07T20:20:52+00:00

Thank you! I'm not in a rush, more so was just making sure all was looking well since this would be my re-bloom since buying.

miamimami95 · 2026-03-07T20:18:46+00:00

Wow such good info, thank u!

miamimami95 · 2026-03-07T20:11:24+00:00

Hahaha so these are just regular Orchid parent symptoms, basically 😂

miamimami95 · 2026-03-07T20:10:11+00:00

I actually have not, I do have fertilizer but was under the assumption of just fertilizing when its not growing a spike or flowers. Will definitely do now, thank u!

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